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Forum: Financial Issues 10-11-2019, 07:57 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 571
Posted By Selfrepmom
My guess is your order says something about...

My guess is your order says something about paying child support until child is 21 as long as they are a full time student.

I am also guessing your kid enrolled in some sort of 2 year program...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-11-2019, 07:51 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 571
Posted By Selfrepmom
Ok without typing any extra word vomit, WHAT...

Ok without typing any extra word vomit, WHAT EXACTLY DOES YOUR ORDER SAY?

-Child Support payable until child is 21?
-Child Support payable until child is no longer a full time student?
-Child...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-11-2019, 07:40 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 571
Posted By Selfrepmom
........:confused:

........:confused:
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-11-2019, 07:36 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 144
Posted By Selfrepmom
If you are just asking for basic guideline (no...

If you are just asking for basic guideline (no special expenses) then no I donít believe so. But it might still be a good idea if you arenít as well off as the other party. It would help in your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-08-2019, 10:22 AM
Replies: 140
Views: 4,542
Posted By Selfrepmom
She did mention in one post that it was a heart...

She did mention in one post that it was a heart attack I believe. Which can be drug related
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-08-2019, 08:49 AM
Replies: 140
Views: 4,542
Posted By Selfrepmom
I feel like there are huge chunks missing to this...

I feel like there are huge chunks missing to this story. What are you seeing?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-05-2019, 12:38 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 702
Posted By Selfrepmom
Ew. Donít be one of those parents

Ew. Donít be one of those parents
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2019, 07:16 AM
Replies: 140
Views: 4,542
Posted By Selfrepmom
Also, out of curiosity.... Would the judge not...

Also, out of curiosity.... Would the judge not tell the exís lawyer right there in court that the step mom cannot currently be keeping the girls with her and that they need to go to mom? Like until...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-04-2019, 07:11 AM
Replies: 140
Views: 4,542
Posted By Selfrepmom
Good luck today. Try and keep emotions out of it,...

Good luck today. Try and keep emotions out of it, as hard as that will be. You want to appear stable and strong in front of a judge.

Try and write down all the main points said, ask for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-27-2019, 02:15 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 167
Posted By Selfrepmom
Respondent did have a lawyer but she removed...

Respondent did have a lawyer but she removed herself as counsel a few months back.

Iíve learned that judges only like to deal with one issue at a time anyways, so even if it doesnít get adjourned...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-27-2019, 09:33 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 167
Posted By Selfrepmom
More Delays?

Motion for CS, S7ís and arrears is scheduled for Monday.

The Respondent never responded to my motion material, formally or informally. I emailed my offer to settle and the confirmation as well,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-25-2019, 10:30 AM
Replies: 140
Views: 4,542
Posted By Selfrepmom
Absolutely..... and occasionally there may be...

Absolutely..... and occasionally there may be zero basis to the accusations. But usually, there is some merit behind them. Did ex & stepmom over exaggerate mom & bf's drinking to get what they...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-25-2019, 10:09 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 663
Posted By Selfrepmom
He did but she removed herself as counsel after...

He did but she removed herself as counsel after our Settlement Conference/ after his 30 day disclosure order was up and he still hadn't fully disclosed
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-25-2019, 09:53 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 663
Posted By Selfrepmom
Update #2: Offer to settle has been...

Update #2:

Offer to settle has been submitted to my ex. I decided to do two offers to give him options, although he will probably ignore both.

Offer one : Retroactive set at 15% of the amount I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-25-2019, 09:40 AM
Replies: 140
Views: 4,542
Posted By Selfrepmom
This was my first thought too...... and then I...

This was my first thought too...... and then I read this




Although these kind of accusations CAN get thrown around with absolutely no basis, there is usually some kind of merit behind them to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2019, 03:42 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 488
Posted By Selfrepmom
School Information Email to Ex: ďOur...

School Information Email to Ex:

ďOur children go to XYZ Public School, located in the town of Fukkit. Their phone number is 111-222-3333. You are listed as the father on the contact list and are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2019, 02:10 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 488
Posted By Selfrepmom
In summary, my take on this: -You regularly...

In summary, my take on this:

-You regularly try to communicate/mother/whatever with your ex. If everything was hunky dory this might be ok. But your situation seems to be more high conflict, so...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2019, 01:56 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 488
Posted By Selfrepmom
Why are you doing him favours? You are not...

Why are you doing him favours? You are not together anymore. Stop mothering him and let him and/or his gf get the info for themselves.



Iím with Iona on this one. Who cares if itís your ex or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-20-2019, 10:07 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 488
Posted By Selfrepmom
Why arenít you just instructing the...

Why arenít you just instructing the school/teacher to send dad this info directly? My boyfriendís daughters teacher emails him every week with updates etc. my daughterís school does the same with my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-19-2019, 03:39 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 488
Posted By Selfrepmom
My exís gf did. My daughterís school uses the...

My exís gf did. My daughterís school uses the SeeSaw app, so when she started school last year I gave my ex the sign in info. Lo and behold itís his gf that signed up for it. I think because she...
Forum: General Chat 09-13-2019, 07:46 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,516
Posted By Selfrepmom
I would say once it is clearly defined that you...

I would say once it is clearly defined that you are an item to slowly get into some details where necessary.

Just donít make the mistake I did and not say anything. I was in an abusive...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2019, 07:07 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 628
Posted By Selfrepmom
To answer your original question: It ramped...

To answer your original question:

It ramped up conflict for me big time. But Iíll take some short term conflict over long term peace of mind any day.

For the Fall expenses.... I would go after...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 03:12 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 663
Posted By Selfrepmom
I understand that especially in cases where...

I understand that especially in cases where someone is asking for arrears based on failure to update that it could get confusing on how far to go back, when updates were asked for etc.
Iím hoping...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 03:06 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 663
Posted By Selfrepmom
Yes she said arrears usually take more time...

Yes she said arrears usually take more time because the judge likes to look back and see why it wasnít paid to begin with, when the recipient began asking for payment, etc etc.
She said still ask...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-11-2019, 02:53 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 663
Posted By Selfrepmom
Update: Forked over $300 and spoke to a...

Update:

Forked over $300 and spoke to a lawyer to make sure I am on the right path.

After looking over my material she had no issue supporting my original thoughts to ask for an order to...
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