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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-03-2019, 09:13 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 565
Posted By gettingexpensive
You may want to do some reading on BPD / NPD...

You may want to do some reading on BPD / NPD forums as well. The mental illness makes it difficult (and costly!) to deal with, I know it all too well.
Forum: Divorce Support 08-13-2019, 01:42 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 582
Posted By gettingexpensive
You may want to read about BPD and NPD divorces...

You may want to read about BPD and NPD divorces or support groups. It may help a bit since that behavior seems familiar... he will definitely mess with your head.
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-13-2019, 01:34 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,083
Posted By gettingexpensive
Wow. You're making my ex seem like an angel. ...

Wow. You're making my ex seem like an angel. Definitely follow the recommendations from CAS, this will give a nice break to your daughter.

Was your ex always like this? Or is there some...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-25-2019, 03:06 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 863
Posted By gettingexpensive
3 years?? :eek: I had heard of lots of time...

3 years?? :eek: I had heard of lots of time wasted with mediation and whatnot but was surprised about this. Good thing they call it "fast track" :rolleyes:
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2019, 03:38 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,010
Posted By gettingexpensive
My S10 said that a few times when under high...

My S10 said that a few times when under high stress due to his mother..
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2019, 02:03 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,010
Posted By gettingexpensive
Fair enough. But damage can be done. In my...

Fair enough. But damage can be done. In my case, she was persuasive enough to put doubts in their mind for them to believe part of her "reality". She's been diagnosed BPD (and has other cluster...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2019, 09:45 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,255
Posted By gettingexpensive
Good. Maybe I'll benefit from the "new family...

Good. Maybe I'll benefit from the "new family law" in the next 10 years while my high-conflict divorce is underway :rolleyes: . Now excuse me while I go cry in a corner. :o
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2019, 09:43 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,010
Posted By gettingexpensive
I'd say that even just a few hours a week seems...

I'd say that even just a few hours a week seems sufficient to do quite a bit of alienation. My ex has done this quite frequently even though she only sees them 3 x 4 hours per week at this point. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-09-2019, 11:32 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 517
Posted By gettingexpensive
I'll answer what I can: I'm sure this...

I'll answer what I can:


I'm sure this is a vent. :D We all need these once in a while!


I can't wait to go through the same crap :rolleyes: My first case conf is in 2 weeks.. :o
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-09-2019, 09:16 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,024
Posted By gettingexpensive
Ha so that's how it works. If one of the parent...

Ha so that's how it works. If one of the parent is "sound" and protects the kids, they close the file. It happened to be. I was baffled.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-07-2019, 12:10 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,167
Posted By gettingexpensive
If his name is on the lease he should be allowed...

If his name is on the lease he should be allowed back in
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-06-2019, 11:49 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 1,167
Posted By gettingexpensive
Are they joint owners?

Are they joint owners?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2019, 11:45 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,797
Posted By gettingexpensive
I'm guessing he's only pushing for joint so he...

I'm guessing he's only pushing for joint so he doesn't have to pay as much CS?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2019, 11:39 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,797
Posted By gettingexpensive
Good. But I assume that the SC is just another...

Good. But I assume that the SC is just another hurdle to jump over. Nothing will happen based on how your ex seems to behave.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2019, 11:35 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 939
Posted By gettingexpensive
How can a trial be 22 days??? Geez! You'd go...

How can a trial be 22 days??? Geez! You'd go bankrupt, but I guess in your case you may be able to claim cost.

I used to think that family court was just expensive but have realized that it's...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-18-2019, 10:46 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 749
Posted By gettingexpensive
But entitlement isn't proven... she seemed to be...

But entitlement isn't proven... she seemed to be in the workforce. And 46 + 18 = 64.. not 65. But I agree, 50k to be done with this seems to be worth it.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-10-2019, 02:07 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 668
Posted By gettingexpensive
Is she active / able to work? QUick call to the...

Is she active / able to work? QUick call to the insurance to mention "hey, you guys are getting scammed" may help?
Forum: Financial Issues 06-07-2019, 10:55 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 660
Posted By gettingexpensive
But entitlement can be quite vague... there's no...

But entitlement can be quite vague... there's no real hard rule. From what I heard from my lawyer, judges in ottawa hand it out like candy.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-30-2019, 11:15 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 453
Posted By gettingexpensive
Why would she be on the hook for spousal? Why is...

Why would she be on the hook for spousal? Why is entitlement a sure thing?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-29-2019, 12:12 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 552
Posted By gettingexpensive
I fully agree. I'd even like something generic...

I fully agree. I'd even like something generic in my agreement, no fixed days because if she's not doing well that day, I don't want the kids visiting her. They come back wrecked and I have to fix...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-29-2019, 11:40 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 552
Posted By gettingexpensive
Thanks rockscan for the backstory. I guess a...

Thanks rockscan for the backstory. I guess a divorce never ends. I'm sure I'll end up in the same boat in a few years, the ex will want to reopen everything :(

Really messed up that they want...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-29-2019, 10:58 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 552
Posted By gettingexpensive
:eek: So an OCL report doesn't mean anything? I...

:eek: So an OCL report doesn't mean anything? I thought that it was the children's voice..
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-29-2019, 10:56 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 981
Posted By gettingexpensive
From a different point of view: I discovered how...

From a different point of view: I discovered how CAS was useless in my case. Everyone I spoke to (VCU, VWAP, child doctor, psychologists, police, ..) said that they couldn't help and told me to go...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-29-2019, 10:34 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 552
Posted By gettingexpensive
Mom 2 two: what's the way out since you guys are...

Mom 2 two: what's the way out since you guys are so far apart? A trial to have the judge agree on these items? they all seem "trivial" but really pile up in the end.

Custody / visitation will be...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-28-2019, 09:05 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 558
Posted By gettingexpensive
Where does that 150k limit come from?

Where does that 150k limit come from?
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