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Forum: Parenting Issues 05-27-2020, 11:26 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,398
Posted By FirstTimer
Yeah, now that you mention it. I would say...

Yeah, now that you mention it.

I would say #5 is Patience..patience and self control. You have to remember that you need to be as civil as possible in your responses to your ex but document...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-26-2020, 04:09 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,398
Posted By FirstTimer
I can throw in my 2 cents as I have went through...

I can throw in my 2 cents as I have went through dealing with a HC parent over a 8 year period and in the past year the dust has somewhat settled.

My top 4.
1. Document document document - every...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-22-2020, 10:44 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 764
Posted By FirstTimer
Thanks everyone!

Thanks everyone!
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2020, 03:07 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 764
Posted By FirstTimer
Yes. The order was done in Dec 2017, she stayed...

Yes. The order was done in Dec 2017, she stayed in Edmonton but didn't exercise her rights. Another thing, she didn't even show up for court, her lawyer did and he agreed she needs mental...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2020, 10:31 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 764
Posted By FirstTimer
So basically, the fact that when she had him that...

So basically, the fact that when she had him that one month after our court date and didn't take him to school. She is in contempt if I bring up the school records?
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2020, 09:35 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 764
Posted By FirstTimer
We were last in court in Oct, 2017 at which time...

We were last in court in Oct, 2017 at which time the judge had said that we follow the order but if she violates it that she would lose access.

7. Should the child, while in the Applicants care,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-20-2020, 03:06 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 764
Posted By FirstTimer
Thanks for the input. If that means any anything,...

Thanks for the input. If that means any anything, I got in touch with a lawyer this afternoon and can provide more details.

Technically our order states that she has him from Wednesday to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-20-2020, 12:17 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 764
Posted By FirstTimer
Not listening to court order

My ex and I have a court order when she was still living in the same city that it was 60/40 access. She ended up moving to another city 3 1/2 hours away about a year ago.

In that time, she has...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-11-2017, 01:42 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,305
Posted By FirstTimer
I let him go on the vacation in trying to think...

I let him go on the vacation in trying to think what's best for him. She booked the return flight 3 days ago and flew back home last night at 11PM. So I am relieved that he came back.

My concern...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-31-2017, 04:09 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,305
Posted By FirstTimer
I only have copies of the ticket for departure....

I only have copies of the ticket for departure. No return. It was just one way. Okay, that's what I was thinking as well. I don't want to ruin his visit with his family...however, I also want her to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 08-31-2017, 12:59 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,305
Posted By FirstTimer
Parenting going on vacation but has not given me return flight info

So my my ex told me last week she is taking 6 year old to ontario to visit family. She sent me way of email last week the flights to go there. However, she hasn't responded when I asked about return...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-10-2017, 01:25 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,226
Posted By FirstTimer
Wow you're the man....how do we hire you.

Wow you're the man....how do we hire you.
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-28-2017, 03:28 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,049
Posted By FirstTimer
Is Spring Break considered Holiday?

So we have in our court order that we share Holiday's equally.

Would you consider a child's spring break or even summer vacation a Holiday?
or is Holiday to you only statuary Holidays.

We...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-08-2017, 12:51 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 879
Posted By FirstTimer
As for defamation...thanks I will look into that....

As for defamation...thanks I will look into that. I will ask my lawyer if that is something we can pursue as it hasn't stopped the past 2 years.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-08-2017, 12:49 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 879
Posted By FirstTimer
Hey thanks for the advice everyone. Much...

Hey thanks for the advice everyone. Much appreciated. I think this weekend I went into a panic state as part of me felt that I need to prove myself that I am innocent again but these are just...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-04-2017, 03:57 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 879
Posted By FirstTimer
Should I take lie detector test?

So back in September, we took my ex in for not following the court order. Judge gave her a stern talking to and gave her 6 months to see if she can follow the order otherwise she would be losing...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2016, 11:32 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,688
Posted By FirstTimer
She's in new home sales, so she works for a...

She's in new home sales, so she works for a specific builder if that makes a difference.

So you would recommend that I need to further investigate this then. What would I be looking for? and if...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2016, 11:21 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,688
Posted By FirstTimer
First, thanks for taking the time to answer this...

First, thanks for taking the time to answer this stuff.

She sells new homes, so typically the houses aka product are around the 450 to 600K range and she gets commission of those, so the invoices...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2016, 10:57 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,688
Posted By FirstTimer
The commission statements are to her name, not a...

The commission statements are to her name, not a corporation. So you're saying then nothing fishy is going on? That she legally did it right and even though she said she makes 60K, her actual income...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2016, 10:50 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,688
Posted By FirstTimer
Sorry line 102 - she puts 5K. Line 102 says...

Sorry line 102 - she puts 5K. Line 102 says (Commissions included in line 101)
There is nothing on line 139 for her.

She works in new home sales, she works from a showhome. I don't anything about...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2016, 10:40 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,688
Posted By FirstTimer
Okay thanks, to be specific. Employment Income...

Okay thanks, to be specific.
Employment Income - line 101 - 10K
Commissions in line 101 - 5K (her 2015 dated commission cheques totaled about 60K)

So in that sense, for Desperate Dad's...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2016, 08:36 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,688
Posted By FirstTimer
Nope on the commissions line she put in 5000 ...

Nope on the commissions line she put in 5000


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Forum: Financial Issues 11-09-2016, 08:14 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,688
Posted By FirstTimer
Is this considered Tax Fraud?

So back in April of this year, we had done financial disclosure and she declared for 2015 she was making roughly 60K. She did not submit her income tax yet as it was in April so she provided...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-30-2016, 11:33 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,104
Posted By FirstTimer
We told the school that parents are separated and...

We told the school that parents are separated and now we have separate logins.

We do parent teacher nights separately. We are high conflict. Obviously if you can go together that would be the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-30-2016, 12:41 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,097
Posted By FirstTimer
Ah okay sorry. Didn't see your question as I...

Ah okay sorry. Didn't see your question as I haven't been on this forum recently.

If you are going to challenge daycare versus home. Be prepared to beat these arguments as my ex tried and failed....
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