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Forum: Parenting Issues 06-11-2006, 12:29 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 4,410
Posted By 2hopefull
trust me restraining orders and stuff are not...

trust me restraining orders and stuff are not easy - at least her ex is stupid enough to leave evidence - mine just waits - I hate walking and looking over my shoulder
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-25-2006, 02:31 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 8,287
Posted By 2hopefull
because it's hard to prove - my problem was that...

because it's hard to prove - my problem was that I was your typical abused partner - no outright hitting - but everything else was done behind closed doors, raised voices were not heard, just...
Forum: Political Issues 05-24-2006, 10:19 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 16,948
Posted By 2hopefull
he'll blame me regardless - he's number one no...

he'll blame me regardless - he's number one no one else - in fact he's stated that he doesn't make the visition schedule via my daughter but then he turns around and does it again - in fact this time...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-24-2006, 10:12 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 8,287
Posted By 2hopefull
I too was in, actually with our legal system am...

I too was in, actually with our legal system am still in the abusive relationship. We are told that mental abuse is not acceptable and to leave because it is usually a precurser of physical. well...
Forum: Political Issues 05-17-2006, 02:13 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 16,948
Posted By 2hopefull
but that isn't the case or I wouldn't be on this...

but that isn't the case or I wouldn't be on this forum. That was my hope for a marriage and it wasn't and therefore not during this time. If I honestly felt and I'm using his past behaviour that...
Forum: Political Issues 05-17-2006, 12:35 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 16,948
Posted By 2hopefull
how would you describe functional marriage? I...

how would you describe functional marriage? I wasn't in one
Forum: Political Issues 05-17-2006, 10:44 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 16,948
Posted By 2hopefull
this works only in rare cases In my opinon. I...

this works only in rare cases In my opinon. I was wondering why my ex was all of a sudden not cancelling and taking our child places - this was a problem during the marriage. Let's face it people...
Forum: Divorce Support 05-13-2006, 02:55 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,990
Posted By 2hopefull
it's my word against his - he was always good at...

it's my word against his - he was always good at making it a joke in front of everyone and now it's done with no witness. What's worse is that he is using his lawyer to harass me - as long as he is...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-12-2006, 06:58 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 5,671
Posted By 2hopefull
this is the question that I was asking last week...

this is the question that I was asking last week - the whole discrimination of it - everyone that I knew put themselves through school - and most of their parents were together. If you are an adult,...
Forum: Divorce Support 05-12-2006, 03:34 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,990
Posted By 2hopefull
nervous

Hi everyone - I'm not sure if this is odd or not but in the last month there have been murders of wives by their estranged spouses - todays spoke about how the husband joked about killing his wife if...
Forum: Introductions 05-11-2006, 01:47 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,691
Posted By 2hopefull
Hi I'm somewhat new to this phase of life and I...

Hi I'm somewhat new to this phase of life and I have a 9 year old - it's lousy on the children - no getting around it, especially if one parent is thinking of their own needs before their children -...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-11-2006, 01:42 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,362
Posted By 2hopefull
request for medical/competence information

hi again - can my ex go to my doctors to ask for a letter about competency? Hello - I take my meds, I see my physcologist faithfully, I'm restoring my self-confidence.

thanks
Forum: Financial Issues 05-11-2006, 01:40 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,281
Posted By 2hopefull
financial disclosure - ex is trying

Hey there - need some advice.

How do you think a judge is going to look at financial statement of my ex.

Scenario - clears $3500 a month but is running a deficet of $300 - he lives alone -...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-07-2006, 03:25 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,543
Posted By 2hopefull
schedules

I'm having such a time with scheduling access, my ex is only communicating and deciding with our 9 year when they visit one another. This is awful but so typical of him - he refuses to communicate...
Forum: Political Issues 05-06-2006, 05:38 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 9,843
Posted By 2hopefull
I believe there would be more public support if...

I believe there would be more public support if there was one group (not men or women - just one) as it was with the gay-lesbian movement. Right now everyone is saying this is my right or that is my...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-04-2006, 01:49 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,758
Posted By 2hopefull
In a perfect world consistency is great - however...

In a perfect world consistency is great - however I'm learning that the reality is different - co-parenting only exists if the 2 parties split up without hurt feelings and are adult enough not to put...
Forum: Divorce Support 05-04-2006, 01:45 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,104
Posted By 2hopefull
hang in there - I'm working on the day to day...

hang in there - I'm working on the day to day stuff myself - I too was in an unhealthy relationship where physical abuse was not used - everything else was and I had cut myself off from everyone I...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-03-2006, 08:24 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 8,696
Posted By 2hopefull
I'm a bit confused at the last post saying it was...

I'm a bit confused at the last post saying it was not abused. To prove abuse is not that easy, especially mental - as Grace mentioned one is trained not to stand up for themselves. Getting...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-03-2006, 12:17 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,491
Posted By 2hopefull
child support - how it's paid

Hi - I was wondering do I have to accept a cheque directly from the parent or can I go through the FPO? The reason I ask is that after 7 months he gave a cheque to my daughter for me - wrong amount...
Forum: Political Issues 05-01-2006, 10:01 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 10,369
Posted By 2hopefull
exactly these things are what parenting are -...

exactly these things are what parenting are - showing your kids what's not a good choice etc - but if they are offered the easier way of things - guess which way they are going to go and what happens...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-01-2006, 09:37 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,130
Posted By 2hopefull
thank you for your reply - I've always tried to...

thank you for your reply - I've always tried to keep that balance, I feel it's too important just to "let the good times roll" and forget all the other stuff - I'm in my late 30's and feel closer...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-28-2006, 01:23 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,130
Posted By 2hopefull
unfortunately the problem with the ex is like...

unfortunately the problem with the ex is like always, he's not consistant and it's usually about him. Seriously it's not the bitter break-up that makes me say this. He didn't even support...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-28-2006, 10:53 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,130
Posted By 2hopefull
emotions of a pre-teen - help?

Hi - looking for any advice, tips - my 9 year old hormonal daughter. Her father and I officially split last November, it was suppose to be civil but now he wants money etc so it's not nice. Her dad...
Forum: General Chat 04-26-2006, 01:03 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 6,764
Posted By 2hopefull
nope no ceremony - that's what got me into this...

nope no ceremony - that's what got me into this mess in the first place. I didn't want to put anymore energy of what was something I had hope it would be.
Forum: General Chat 04-26-2006, 10:57 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 6,764
Posted By 2hopefull
I tossed it - it didn't feel right for someone...

I tossed it - it didn't feel right for someone else to wear it - being bad luck and all.
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