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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2018, 01:34 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 350
Posted By Janus
Why not type up the draft order? Humans are...

Why not type up the draft order? Humans are lazy, and judges are human; a draft order makes life easy :)

I think you are taking the right steps. The stalling won't work, he will have to pay...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2018, 01:30 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,002
Posted By Janus
Your toddler must have an outrageously busy...

Your toddler must have an outrageously busy schedule. I agree, it is quite annoying that he wants to be there for medical appointments. Clearly, it would be better if he had no say in your...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-11-2018, 01:20 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 304
Posted By Janus
Honestly, I need to know, how much money do you...

Honestly, I need to know, how much money do you have? You are hoping to pursue a complicated civil case for emotional damages? This isn't the states, you are not going to get anything close to what...
Forum: Domestic Violence 07-11-2018, 01:06 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 304
Posted By Janus
When Arabian said oodles, she probably meant...

When Arabian said oodles, she probably meant something on the order of $50,000-$100,000 or more. $12,000 is hardly oodles, that would be a moderately cheap family law case. If you think that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-09-2018, 04:29 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,002
Posted By Janus
So your ex has already stopped you from making...

So your ex has already stopped you from making medical appointments?

If you mean "I want ex to give me cash" you'll still need to talk to him. Sucks, especially when you are trying to remove him...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-09-2018, 04:25 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 251
Posted By Janus
I think his worry is that they will lie about the...

I think his worry is that they will lie about the contents of the offer, not that they will lie about the existence of the offer itself.

Generally, the assumption is that lawyers don't lie for...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-03-2018, 07:38 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 754
Posted By Janus
Forgot to answer your question. Of course your...

Forgot to answer your question. Of course your ex has the right not to take them. Parents get to make parenting decisions during their parenting time. Activities are a core parenting decision.
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-03-2018, 07:37 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 754
Posted By Janus
That is one of the nice aspects of the 5-5-2-2...

That is one of the nice aspects of the 5-5-2-2 custody schedule, you can sign up on weekdays even with zero cooperation from other side.

My kids just miss every second thing, which is not a huge...
Forum: Introductions 06-29-2018, 02:38 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 358
Posted By Janus
Make an offer to settle yourself, make it...

Make an offer to settle yourself, make it severable. Did I mention that it must be severable? Yeah, it has to be severable. Offer the following:

A) to pay the entire child support arrears
B)...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2018, 03:56 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 240
Posted By Janus
On costs, can your ex actually pay a costs award?...

On costs, can your ex actually pay a costs award? It doesn't help you to win if you cannot actually collect.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2018, 03:55 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 269
Posted By Janus
Berner was asking what was in the video, and what...

Berner was asking what was in the video, and what are you hoping to prove with this video?

Generally, the only thing you prove by showing a video in court is that you are somebody who likes to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-21-2018, 12:49 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 488
Posted By Janus
I have not, but if you do could you post the case...

I have not, but if you do could you post the case law? I've been looking for that for a while. The "problem" is that most people would do it voluntarily, since it is obviously the right thing to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-21-2018, 10:37 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 641
Posted By Janus
I think you missed the part where this is the...

I think you missed the part where this is the kid's second degree. It is an obviously unfair decision. I do not know a single child who has had a second degree paid for by the parents, divorced or...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-21-2018, 09:24 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 990
Posted By Janus
It wasn't meant as backlash. I just meant that...

It wasn't meant as backlash. I just meant that I'm not a lawyer so I'm not sure if my advice should be taken over that of a real lawyer. If you can't afford a lawyer, then my advice might be the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-20-2018, 06:04 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 402
Posted By Janus
You flip between being a doormat and somebody who...

You flip between being a doormat and somebody who is looking to escalate the situation. You must be an emotional wreck.

If you want the dog that badly, just take it one day and give it to a...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-20-2018, 05:59 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 990
Posted By Janus
You make over $200k a year, do you not have a...

You make over $200k a year, do you not have a lawyer you can call?

At that level of income, judges are not going to be friendly to a perceived CS underpayment, tread carefully. Is $6000 a year...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-20-2018, 05:55 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 243
Posted By Janus
Does the deal specify that he is not allowed to...

Does the deal specify that he is not allowed to sell the house? If not, then he is allowed to sell the house.

Morally, I'm not too hot and bothered by this either. Making sacrifices because...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-20-2018, 05:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 246
Posted By Janus
Why not just file with FRO? If wants to use...

Why not just file with FRO? If wants to use something other than his line 150 income, then he can do a motion to change himself. He doesn't get to just pick a T4 and use it.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-19-2018, 12:00 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 190
Posted By Janus
Pensions are split upon a divorce, and you...

Pensions are split upon a divorce, and you generally do not get support from an asset that has been equalized (that is known as double dipping). You do however get the cash, which can be used to...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-19-2018, 11:53 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 990
Posted By Janus
Why the rush? Let her file with FRO first, so...

Why the rush? Let her file with FRO first, so that she can be the one to instigate the conflict. Then you try to change things on consent, then you go to court. Your reason for going to court is...
Forum: Introductions 06-19-2018, 11:01 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 284
Posted By Janus
Most people consider their ex to be some sort of...

Most people consider their ex to be some sort of narcissist. Since we care for our children, and the ex wants to do something different than we want, then they must care for them less, and care...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-19-2018, 10:50 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 990
Posted By Janus
I think FRO will follow the court order. In your...

I think FRO will follow the court order. In your case, that evidently has you paying a lot more, so you are going to have to get it changed.


Not paying June was a mistake, given your massive...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-19-2018, 10:42 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 441
Posted By Janus
You're in a foul mood this morning rockscan :)

You're in a foul mood this morning rockscan :)
Forum: Political Issues 06-15-2018, 11:58 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 199
Posted By Janus
Why? Equalization seems to be fairly...

Why? Equalization seems to be fairly straightforward:

Person A: $100k
Person B: $80k
Person C: $30k

A gives $30k to C
B gives $10k to C

Custody standard is best interests of child. So,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-13-2018, 03:45 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 402
Posted By Janus
You write up the agreement yourselves. You each...

You write up the agreement yourselves. You each pay for one hour with a lawyer. Total cost $400-$800 depending on how much you feel like spending on a lawyer.



Honestly, you have some very...
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