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Forum: Parenting Issues 06-15-2018, 11:18 AM
Replies: 16
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Posted By dad2bandm
Some of this seems like terrible advice.

Some of this seems like terrible advice.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-15-2018, 11:14 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 340
Posted By dad2bandm
I don't think you understood what the original...

I don't think you understood what the original poster actually wrote. Go back and read it again. They said nothing about not wanting to spend time with the child.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-14-2018, 10:55 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 340
Posted By dad2bandm
You need to pick your battles... If this...

You need to pick your battles...


If this was me, and if I didn't have any other plans that would conflict anyway, I would relent because it's something for the kids to do...


...but in doing...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-07-2018, 10:54 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 418
Posted By dad2bandm
And if you're serious about it, offer them in all...

And if you're serious about it, offer them in all in writing (email if you wish, but then also mail them via registered mail too, signed and dated - keep copy of same for yourself).


You're...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-07-2018, 10:48 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 418
Posted By dad2bandm
To add to this, never *ask* of the other parent...

To add to this, never *ask* of the other parent in this kind of situation when it comes to sharing child's time with you more equally. Propose.



Asking is like you are looking for a yes/no...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-07-2018, 10:13 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 418
Posted By dad2bandm
This is true, and it's best to avoid, but...

This is true, and it's best to avoid, but sometimes court is necessary. Are you able to settle with things staying the same? If no, then you may need it, as it's been 4 years, and you don't seem to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-07-2018, 10:10 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 418
Posted By dad2bandm
They didn't put in some timeline or deadlines for...

They didn't put in some timeline or deadlines for the expanded access to be implemented? I would have insisted on that being in the order, instead of leaving it open-ended.


If Mom isn't willing...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-07-2018, 10:01 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 171
Posted By dad2bandm
Kate brings up, the point, which I would also...

Kate brings up, the point, which I would also point out, that many after-school care programs, don't offer an ad-hoc or "I only need these certain days covered for care" program, so you would want...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-07-2018, 09:55 AM
Replies: 65
Views: 2,366
Posted By dad2bandm
What is your point? Unless I guess your point,...

What is your point? Unless I guess your point, is that your bitter about your own custody arrangement?



Your comments aren't even relevant to the topic of conversation.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-07-2018, 09:47 AM
Replies: 65
Views: 2,366
Posted By dad2bandm
Offset child support payments don't really come...

Offset child support payments don't really come into effect unless you share custody, and each parent has the child at least 40% of the time. This doesn't seem to be the situation here. Also, if...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-06-2018, 02:14 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 418
Posted By dad2bandm
Was the parenting assessment something that came...

Was the parenting assessment something that came out of your last order, or something separate? You would think that would be done, and then your order be finalized partially based on those...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-06-2018, 01:50 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 418
Posted By dad2bandm
By the way, yes, same issue with ex in my...

By the way, yes, same issue with ex in my situation - ignores emails, and does as much as she can (when she can control herself), to avoid communications that can be documented.
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-06-2018, 01:48 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 418
Posted By dad2bandm
Your emailing her about it, is the discussion. ...

Your emailing her about it, is the discussion. She's just avoiding having the discussion.



If she continues to ignore emails, you could send a written letter about the subject too, via...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-05-2018, 12:32 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 253
Posted By dad2bandm
3 months later, and the question of a yes/no,...

3 months later, and the question of a yes/no, extra time on a Friday, is still an issue? Yes or no question. Be done with it, either way.
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-29-2018, 10:13 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 335
Posted By dad2bandm
If I was parent A, I would probably look at this,...

If I was parent A, I would probably look at this, as the photos being a one-time thing, and try to accommodate that, so that child is not left out of team photo.



It seems like some kind of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-28-2018, 11:17 AM
Replies: 65
Views: 2,366
Posted By dad2bandm
Social media accounts for the kid (controlled by...

Social media accounts for the kid (controlled by each respective parent). I can't see how that could go downhill, at all, in this situation. :-/
Forum: Political Issues 05-22-2018, 01:59 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 739
Posted By dad2bandm
Coming from this government, and Justice...

Coming from this government, and Justice Minister. Beware. lol.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-25-2018, 11:39 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 411
Posted By dad2bandm
The courts (and judges) like people to be...

The courts (and judges) like people to be reasonable. Your lawyer letting the other lawyer know, they filed the wrong papers, is a reasonable and professional action. If they didn't do this anyway,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-25-2018, 11:32 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 162
Posted By dad2bandm
It's good you sent a final settlement offer. ...

It's good you sent a final settlement offer.

Sometimes, you can't do anything further, except let the judge decide. At least you're trying to settle.

Hopefully, you're properly asking for...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-25-2018, 11:28 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 400
Posted By dad2bandm
That's good you have photocopy of cheque at...

That's good you have photocopy of cheque at least.

Typical "high-conflict" ex. What bank doesn't allow Interac e-transfers these days?

When I would get a "I don't have data or Internet on my...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-25-2018, 10:23 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 400
Posted By dad2bandm
Avoid cheques with "difficult" ex'es, at all...

Avoid cheques with "difficult" ex'es, at all cost. If you have to rely on a paper-instrument for payment, and if it's not ongoing payment, I agree, money-order (Canada Post money order), is great.
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Forum: Domestic Violence 04-19-2018, 03:01 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 322
Posted By dad2bandm
Is this the story you are referring to? ...

Is this the story you are referring to?

http://projects.thestar.com/harrison-family-murders/
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2018, 11:28 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 285
Posted By dad2bandm
I think his problem is that he has an order...

I think his problem is that he has an order somehow detailing the child support.

If CRA interprets it that they think you underpaid child support (even if that isn't the case) they will deduct...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2018, 01:48 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 285
Posted By dad2bandm
Sounds like you were deducting your spousal...

Sounds like you were deducting your spousal support.

See this Canada Revenue Agency link:...
Forum: General Chat 03-16-2018, 11:13 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 325
Posted By dad2bandm
chuckle...

chuckle...
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