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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 06:45 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 553
Posted By Janus
This guy is not a FOTL. He fully acknowledges...

This guy is not a FOTL. He fully acknowledges the jurisdiction of the court.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 06:00 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 553
Posted By Janus
I thought of that as well, the style certainly...

I thought of that as well, the style certainly reminded me of it. He was missing the arcane rituals though that seem necesary for it to be OPCA.

I think he just does not recognize that not all...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-17-2021, 06:16 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,050
Posted By Janus
I would send a brief message. Eg. "[Kid] was...

I would send a brief message. Eg. "[Kid] was very sick today. You picked up [kid] today at 10am and refused to let her sleep in. I do not believe that this was in the best interest of [kid]. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-17-2021, 06:03 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,050
Posted By Janus
I just realized that I never responded to this. ...

I just realized that I never responded to this.

I think overall, my main thoughts are:

1) I cannot control my ex
2) I CAN control my reaction to my ex
3) The opinion of my ex is utterly...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-16-2021, 07:56 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 130
Posted By Janus
The lawyer will phrase things in a way that they...

The lawyer will phrase things in a way that they feel will help their client.

If it rattles you and causes you to respond in a way that hurts your case, then that's a win for the lawyer.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-16-2021, 11:40 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 553
Posted By Janus
Given that you are looking to appeal your ruling,...

Given that you are looking to appeal your ruling, I'm guessing that your current win rate is somewhere around 0%.

What makes you think that you are better than most lawyers? Not just some...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-15-2021, 07:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 243
Posted By Janus
Generally, the court will avoid giving you 40%. ...

Generally, the court will avoid giving you 40%. If a parent has less than 50%, then the court wants them to pay child support. 40% is ambiguous and causes strife... 38.7% provides clarity.

The...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-14-2021, 09:15 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 553
Posted By Janus
That is an extremely general question. What are...

That is an extremely general question. What are you trying to argue? Alternatively, how do you feel that these rulings apply to your situation?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-13-2021, 06:14 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 492
Posted By Janus
It is ridiculous. It is a myth that is mostly...

It is ridiculous. It is a myth that is mostly used as a weapon against fathers.



That was my first point. Kids do not need adjustment time. Their lives are one chaotic hot mess. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2021, 02:47 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 492
Posted By Janus
When people ask for 40% it often is about child...

When people ask for 40% it often is about child support. Of course, when the custodial parent denies 40% it is usually about child support as well.



Kids have no control over their daily life....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2021, 11:43 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 492
Posted By Janus
You can include anything you want in an offer to...

You can include anything you want in an offer to settle. However, I would make this clause severable, so that it does not tank your entire offer to settle.




1. Why are you not asking for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-02-2021, 03:51 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 276
Posted By Janus
https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/doc/2014/2014ons...

https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/doc/2014/2014onsc1414/2014onsc1414.html
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-02-2021, 03:48 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 276
Posted By Janus
There was that guy who got a 2 million dollar...

There was that guy who got a 2 million dollar costs award against the CAS in London I believe.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-31-2021, 12:07 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 333
Posted By Janus
I am not sure what you want. Does your agreement...

I am not sure what you want. Does your agreement cover equalization? Let us assume that equalization results in you making a payment of $50,000.

Which of the following do you want:

A) You...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-31-2021, 10:24 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 333
Posted By Janus
I wasn't being emotional, just flowery :) On...

I wasn't being emotional, just flowery :)

On point answer: You are separated. Divorce will automatically be granted. Every single one of your other questions is completely irrelevant.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-31-2021, 09:42 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 136
Posted By Janus
I am not sure, and I have the exact same question.

I am not sure, and I have the exact same question.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-31-2021, 09:42 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 216
Posted By Janus
He can study on the bus. Alternatively, he can...

He can study on the bus. Alternatively, he can live on residence, and the child support can instead be used to pay for that.

The vast majority of universities have cheap "ghetto" housing...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-31-2021, 09:19 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 216
Posted By Janus
"Standard" tuition split seems to be 2/3rds split...

"Standard" tuition split seems to be 2/3rds split proportionally. Since your ex makes 2/3rds of the income, then 2/3rds of 2/3rds would be 4/9ths.

Ex should also be paying table child support...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-31-2021, 09:01 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 333
Posted By Janus
That is not even remotely unusual. If anything,...

That is not even remotely unusual. If anything, that is the most common situation.



Roughly speaking, it is almost impossible to object to the divorce. The very fact that you guys are in...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-26-2021, 02:07 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 251
Posted By Janus
Almost certainly not backdated, unless you could...

Almost certainly not backdated, unless you could prove that your ex went deliberately and maliciously out of her way to remain unemployed. Now, she possibly did, but knowing it and proving it are...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-26-2021, 01:59 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 226
Posted By Janus
So why are you hiring daycare on days that you do...

So why are you hiring daycare on days that you do not need it? Assuming she is the only one who requires daycare, then she will need around 11 days a month. Assuming a ridiculously high cost of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-25-2021, 04:24 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 171
Posted By Janus
Call FRO and ask them how to proceed. This...

Call FRO and ask them how to proceed. This should not involve your ex at all. You don't have to wait for them to call you.
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-25-2021, 04:23 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,050
Posted By Janus
I have so many. However I'm not sure if I can...

I have so many. However I'm not sure if I can relay them because it would ruin any anonymity I have on this forum; her petty behaviours are some of my favourite stories to tell in real life.

Some...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2021, 09:59 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 453
Posted By Janus
Peace bonds seem to be bad news. I would be...

Peace bonds seem to be bad news. I would be careful about signing any peace bonds that could impact custody arrangements.



So, you've only assaulted your ex once?



Well, two...
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-18-2021, 08:44 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 328
Posted By Janus
Status quo has weight. If the status quo...

Status quo has weight.

If the status quo is backed by written messages, it has even more weight.
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