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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-19-2013, 04:53 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,862
Posted By Dee1973
Thank you all so much! I think I have everything...

Thank you all so much! I think I have everything I need. Now the usual fun part - going back to her with a response.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-19-2013, 04:28 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,862
Posted By Dee1973
FB_ - what you are proposing makes total sense...

FB_ - what you are proposing makes total sense but what I have heard is that CRA won't pay the grant into two separate plans for the same child? Or in some cases one party may get the entire amount...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-19-2013, 03:40 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,862
Posted By Dee1973
RESP and Children's Expenses

Hi all, two questions for the forum today. Backgroud EX and I are separated but no formal separation agreement yet. She lives in the matrimonial home with very little expenses and flush with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-24-2013, 04:31 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,645
Posted By Dee1973
dad2bandm, our motion judge for the sale of the...

dad2bandm, our motion judge for the sale of the matrimional home first signed the custody order on consent of both parties. Here is the exact wording of the order.

1. Child support shall be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-24-2013, 12:11 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,645
Posted By Dee1973
Dinkyface I was replying before I say your post. ...

Dinkyface I was replying before I say your post. I was essentially saying the same thing - there is no mortgage so even if she covers ALL householded expenses it only comes out to:

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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-24-2013, 12:05 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,645
Posted By Dee1973
So consensus seems to be can't tie CS to...

So consensus seems to be can't tie CS to equilization. We do not currently have a separation agreement or court order for support. So can she still unilaterally ask FRO to take over collection?
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-24-2013, 11:04 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,645
Posted By Dee1973
Hi Mess and all, So since the EX and I have...

Hi Mess and all,

So since the EX and I have been on reasonable speaking terms of late, I initiated this discussion yesterday in regards to expenses once I move out.

1. Usage costs -...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-23-2013, 09:28 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,645
Posted By Dee1973
Thanks FB_ - that's what I told her that CS would...

Thanks FB_ - that's what I told her that CS would start December 1.

Mess, I guess what I'm trying to understand is let's say whatever I determine or try to negotiate in regards to ongoing...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-23-2013, 08:32 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,645
Posted By Dee1973
FB / Dinkyface - totally agree with you both that...

FB / Dinkyface - totally agree with you both that it's probably not going anywhere especially if it does eventually get sold and she's only their exclusively for a month or two.

Obviously she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-23-2013, 08:26 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,645
Posted By Dee1973
DowntroddenDad - thanks point me to the section...

DowntroddenDad - thanks point me to the section of the Family Law Act. Reading thru it I think the issue is that the judge didn't award either party exclusive possession but rather said "both...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2013, 04:08 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,645
Posted By Dee1973
Ok thank you both - I understand both your...

Ok thank you both - I understand both your proposals.

So now to tackle the million dollar question Dinkyface raised..."how to get there" in any scenario.

She will argue we jointly own the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2013, 02:40 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,645
Posted By Dee1973
FB if I understand your thoughts. I adjusted...

FB if I understand your thoughts. I adjusted monthly expenses to half home insurance and property tax and come with.

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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2013, 02:40 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,645
Posted By Dee1973
Ok so Dinkyface - you raised the million dollar...

Ok so Dinkyface - you raised the million dollar question "how to get there" in any scenario or option, but leaving this aside for now...

So understanding both your proposals.

Dinkyface
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2013, 12:27 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 3,645
Posted By Dee1973
Matrimonial Home After I Move Out

So the situation is this. In August we went to motion and judge ordered the matrimional home to be sold. Judge indicated that both parties have enough assets, means or options to go live elsewhere....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-27-2013, 01:49 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,000
Posted By Dee1973
Takeontheworld - I did find the Notice of Change...

Takeontheworld - I did find the Notice of Change Form 4. So self-rep here I come...lol

Plainnameddadd44 - I hear this same story from many unfortunately. Lawyer is useless and just running up...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-25-2013, 10:22 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,000
Posted By Dee1973
Mess that is perfect, thank you so much! ...

Mess that is perfect, thank you so much!

Links17 - thank you too.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-25-2013, 08:38 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,000
Posted By Dee1973
Firing my lawyer? How best to do so?

Ok so we went to motion in August and I bascially won on EACH and EVERY point. Kids will be 50 / 50 and matrimonial home will be sold. I was even awarded full costs - of course, the 30 days to pay...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2013, 07:36 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,704
Posted By Dee1973
We have too many unresolved issues to keep this...

We have too many unresolved issues to keep this item on hold while we draft up a separation agree my. Hell I drafted a separation agreement 7 months ago that they shredded.

So need to formalize...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2013, 07:06 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,704
Posted By Dee1973
Tayken totally agree and I absolutely plan to...

Tayken totally agree and I absolutely plan to live within the school district. So my next question - hoping that we resolve the 1% difference and custody is a done deal.

So how do I formalize -...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2013, 03:27 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,704
Posted By Dee1973
Hi FB_ sorry maybe I wasn't clear but that's...

Hi FB_ sorry maybe I wasn't clear but that's exactly what I did counter-offer with the 99% cut and paste and the 1% changes on primary residence and documentation mentioned above.

Hopefully she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2013, 02:45 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,704
Posted By Dee1973
LOL...yes "more of this fun and games in the...

LOL...yes "more of this fun and games in the future". So I did exactly that - sent a response that "primary residence" is meaningless in a shared parenting arrangement and should be changed to "the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2013, 01:16 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,704
Posted By Dee1973
SadandTired.....Tayken is absolutely correct when...

SadandTired.....Tayken is absolutely correct when he says per below as the motivation combined with ignorance. Just makes her feel somehow special.

"Unfortunate that the other party in your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2013, 01:10 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 975
Posted By Dee1973
Thanks Tayken! Yes my patience after 17 months...

Thanks Tayken! Yes my patience after 17 months is short! However, I agree with your comments and confirming approach being taken by my lawyer. So the waltz goes on!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2013, 11:40 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,704
Posted By Dee1973
Primary Residence - what does this mean?

Ok so ex and I have exchanged offers to settle. On custody we basically agree to 50 / 50, but her offer to settle is written in that I have to agree to ALL the Parts under Custody and Access or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2013, 11:13 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 975
Posted By Dee1973
Motion cancelled need advice!

So after 17 months we were suppose to go to motion in a week. We exchanged a couple offers to settle in the last couple weeks. Got closer on custody and the sale of the home but neither were...
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