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Forum: Parenting Issues 01-15-2021, 12:40 PM
Replies: 8
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Posted By tilt
You can have whoever you want with you during...

You can have whoever you want with you during your parenting time, unless there is an order or parenting plan that prohibits them. The optics may not look good however, depending on your personal...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-10-2020, 04:52 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 3,165
Posted By tilt
Any time a parent wants to change the agreed...

Any time a parent wants to change the agreed schedule "for the child's sake" it is fair to counter suggest that you prefer the current agreement but you are willing to have the child remain with you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-09-2020, 09:32 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 3,165
Posted By tilt
I would NOT agree to a week on/week off. That...

I would NOT agree to a week on/week off. That will definately open the door for her to push for full custody, attending school in North Bay. Would her Massey daycare even keep her space open if she...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-01-2020, 12:39 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 803
Posted By tilt
This is why CRA should automatically release...

This is why CRA should automatically release payors tax returns to recipients of CS to make everything transparent and payors accountable.

If the OP makes the undue hardship claim the other side...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-01-2020, 12:22 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 803
Posted By tilt
Also his imputed income is $67,000, which is more...

Also his imputed income is $67,000, which is more than your income plus rental income so you would not pay him any CS. Inputted income is considered the true income for CS purposes regardless of what...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-01-2020, 12:09 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 803
Posted By tilt
Owning his own business makes this much more...

Owning his own business makes this much more complicated and expensive. Although his income is $35,000 he may be using retained earnings in the company to hide money from you. Or income splitting...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-30-2020, 01:47 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 210
Posted By tilt
Is this Form 13? You are putting only...

Is this Form 13? You are putting only employment/self-employment income, CTB and spousal support (if you get it). Child support is not income. And the RESP money is not income, you are withdrawing...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-21-2020, 08:21 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 3,165
Posted By tilt
Easy, I take up to 24 hours to respond. Train...

Easy, I take up to 24 hours to respond. Train your co-parent to have the same expectation. Just because they sent a text doesn’t mean I have my phone on me or am obligated to respond right away....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-21-2020, 06:31 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 161
Posted By tilt
Has the lawyer contacted you for consent to serve...

Has the lawyer contacted you for consent to serve late? If so, the late filing is a moot point.

You already have an action before the court and a set date for a case conference - I know courts...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-20-2020, 09:13 PM
Replies: 56
Views: 3,165
Posted By tilt
How will the move to North Bay impact daycare? ...

How will the move to North Bay impact daycare? If your daughter isn’t going to be in full-time daycare in North Bay is the centre willing to hold her spot part-time, does the daily rate go up? If...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-18-2020, 12:53 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 385
Posted By tilt
That is perfect.

That is perfect.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-17-2020, 07:30 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 385
Posted By tilt
Consent with objection is an email you send where...

Consent with objection is an email you send where you state “on XxX date your client’s Response was due according to the family law guidelines. On XXX date you
Requested late service. I am willing...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-17-2020, 07:10 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 385
Posted By tilt
Also, if he is claiming “undue hardship” he has...

Also, if he is claiming “undue hardship” he has to provide a LOT of financial information about his household - so that would include all of the income, debts, and asserts of a spouse/live-in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-17-2020, 07:08 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 385
Posted By tilt
1) Consent, with objection. I understand your...

1) Consent, with objection. I understand your frustration but Judges give huge leeway to lawyer’s late filings. It isn’t a fight you will win.

2) provide your NOA/Tax returns and claim all...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-09-2020, 08:09 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,630
Posted By tilt
It isn’t hard to divorce in Canada; it just takes...

It isn’t hard to divorce in Canada; it just takes one partner to file. In all the cultures that make it socially unacceptable to divorce, they also make it VERY socially unacceptable to have your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-07-2020, 04:17 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,630
Posted By tilt
Also, because you seem to have missed it. ...

Also, because you seem to have missed it. Witnessing parental abuse IS the child abuse. The research is clear on how much trauma it causes a child to see a parent they love deliberately hurt another...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-07-2020, 04:13 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,630
Posted By tilt
I don’t think threads are removed. Keep in mind...

I don’t think threads are removed. Keep in mind that in addition to the $150,000 in legal fees your brother is looking at at least three years, possibly five, before trial. And during that time both...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-07-2020, 11:48 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,630
Posted By tilt
You asked for advice, based on experience; just...

You asked for advice, based on experience; just because you don’t like the advice doesn’t mean it isn’t valid. Courts know that by the time police are called there is usually a history of abuse that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-07-2020, 11:01 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,630
Posted By tilt
Civil court is different than criminal court; him...

Civil court is different than criminal court; him not talking to the police will be held against him. Family courts know that criminal courts dismiss valid intimate partner abuse charges and as civil...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-07-2020, 10:33 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,630
Posted By tilt
Pushing her away was abuse. There is no excuse to...

Pushing her away was abuse. There is no excuse to lay hands on someone else, and that was upsetting for the child to witness. The trauma of watching a parent be abused has been shown to be more...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-05-2020, 10:39 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 400
Posted By tilt
Lawyers cannot stop clients from behaving in a...

Lawyers cannot stop clients from behaving in a way that violates Rule 2, but they can choose to stop representing them. But some lawyers do seek out those clients because they are very profitable for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-04-2020, 01:48 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 127
Posted By tilt
Ya, my experience is the requirement for...

Ya, my experience is the requirement for affirming/swearing was only waived for March/April and then it was assumed you would get it done either in person or via zoom (which last I saw costs $70 per...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-04-2020, 01:46 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 400
Posted By tilt
Oh I agree, the focus on “hurting the ex more...

Oh I agree, the focus on “hurting the ex more than you love your kids” is something that Judge SHOULD address, but they aren’t.

Judges let parents get away with not paying child support,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-04-2020, 10:30 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 400
Posted By tilt
Except it shouldn’t, six nights out of 14 is...

Except it shouldn’t, six nights out of 14 is above 40% and almost 50% so CS would be offset in either case.

It sounds like the dispute is also about which days of the week the parenting time...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2020, 01:44 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 356
Posted By tilt
Yes, the years of interim support start from the...

Yes, the years of interim support start from the date of seperation. So interim orders get counted into the total. It is more of an art than a science; most judges retroactively decide what the SS...
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