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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-07-2022, 01:41 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 584
Posted By vocalfather
@StillPaying - trial is soon? I'm not sure where...

@StillPaying - trial is soon? I'm not sure where you are inferring this information from but this is not factually correct regarding my situation. Are you also aware that most courts are booking...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2022, 05:16 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 584
Posted By vocalfather
I literally have tried everything. I can’t...

I literally have tried everything. I can’t foster a relationship with kids that won’t call, see the other parent and refuse to call. Her actions have alienated herself from them yet they claim...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2022, 01:21 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 584
Posted By vocalfather
Hey There, I appreciate your reply. Take a...

Hey There,

I appreciate your reply. Take a read of my previous posts. I hear wholeheartedly what your saying however what you’ve shared doesn’t represent our situation or accurately portray it....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2022, 11:00 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 584
Posted By vocalfather
Hey @Rockscan, your advice is so sound and I 100%...

Hey @Rockscan, your advice is so sound and I 100% agree. I’ve done all that and continue to do so. They outright refuse and they’ve told the OCL why. I’ve attempted numerous times to setup...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2022, 11:56 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 584
Posted By vocalfather
@pinkHouses, they clearly want some form of...

@pinkHouses, they clearly want some form of control - the essence of why these individuals push it to a trial in the first place. It's exactly the conundrum I'm in - how do you "settle" anything when...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2022, 11:22 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 584
Posted By vocalfather
Thank you both for replying. @Rockscan, my...

Thank you both for replying. @Rockscan, my understanding is that with both the OCL lawyer and social worker assigned, a report is not issued - they simply both have to be available to testify. I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2022, 06:58 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 584
Posted By vocalfather
Thx for the reply. One is early teen's and the...

Thx for the reply. One is early teen's and the other is mid-teen's. I did receive sole-custody and the other parents was given every other weekend and a specific day of the week overnight. Due to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-05-2022, 01:41 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 584
Posted By vocalfather
OCL with Teens - Refusal Post-Completion of Report

Hi All,

We have recently completed an OCL evaluation involving two teens, however, my eldest wants to be done with the entire process. He is frustrated with this continuing on and being forced...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-12-2021, 09:16 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 713
Posted By vocalfather
Michael Tweyman - Modern Family Law Sent...

Michael Tweyman - Modern Family Law


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-08-2021, 09:28 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 350
Posted By vocalfather
OCL and Teens

Hi All!

I'd like to hear if anyone has had experience with the OCL and their teen(s). What was this process like? Did you find they communicated the wishes of your teen(s) well with the courts?...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2021, 06:24 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 6,529
Posted By vocalfather
Well, my X asked me to help her draft and join...

Well, my X asked me to help her draft and join her complaint against her legal aid lawyer. I could even believe it! They know no boundaries and I was totally gobsmacked she would even dare ask...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-11-2021, 07:05 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 828
Posted By vocalfather
Hey Ange71727, Im in a similar predicament...

Hey Ange71727,

Im in a similar predicament right now. Im curious why the OCL would be ordered over a VOC in a case? My kids with similar ages had the OCL ordered instead of a VOC.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-08-2021, 10:48 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 6,529
Posted By vocalfather
Our story is eerily similar. We are both back in...

Our story is eerily similar. We are both back in the same positions. My best to you this time again. So very sad.


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Forum: Parenting Issues 03-29-2021, 09:01 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 4,654
Posted By vocalfather
I was part of that 0.01. Unfortuantely, they get...

I was part of that 0.01. Unfortuantely, they get really mad and find reasons to bring you back to court unnecessarily. I can't even believe the court entertains half this nonsense.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-18-2021, 10:09 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,699
Posted By vocalfather
What Tayken shared is spot on. Sadly, Ive been...

What Tayken shared is spot on. Sadly, Ive been dragged back to court but LAO has not funded my X again. My X had to pushback to get the trial funded before and they arent willing to go down that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-10-2021, 06:16 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 4,056
Posted By vocalfather
Wow, this was quite the thread. Brutal read....

Wow, this was quite the thread. Brutal read. Thankful for Tayken who brought it home with wisdom and accurate perspective. Very well stated, Tayken!


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2021, 10:26 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,533
Posted By vocalfather
Hi Polgara, I had a 21-day trial and can...

Hi Polgara,

I had a 21-day trial and can tell you that it didn't cost anywhere close to what your current lawyer is attempting to charge. I'd find a new lawyer and fast. I'd request an adjournment...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2020, 07:43 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,060
Posted By vocalfather
Our court order is explicit and says no...

Our court order is explicit and says no permission is required of the other parent for me to travel. That goes for signing and other matters too. I’m not so sure this does make sense.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2020, 10:55 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,060
Posted By vocalfather
Sole Custody - denied passports!!! HUH?

Would appreciate some input here.

Received sole custody of my two kids in 2017. Have gotten NEXUS cards since then with no issue. Went to renew passports and provided final order that shows sole...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-25-2020, 02:51 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,638
Posted By vocalfather
The reality is, for our trial, it was clearly...

The reality is, for our trial, it was clearly illustrating to the Judge the complete inability to co-parent with the other parent. It did take other people to help me really narrow in and effectively...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-25-2020, 11:39 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,638
Posted By vocalfather
I lived & continue to live through a very high...

I lived & continue to live through a very high conflict/BPD ex. Tayken is spot on - the high conflict institute is a fantastic resource. Invest in the resources and use them. You can't get in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2020, 12:06 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 6,529
Posted By vocalfather
Money talks - unruly clients sometimes talk even...

Money talks - unruly clients sometimes talk even louder [emoji2361]


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-01-2020, 12:09 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 6,529
Posted By vocalfather
Amazing news!!! So glad to hear this! :)

Amazing news!!! So glad to hear this! :)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-30-2020, 05:30 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 6,529
Posted By vocalfather
Unbelievable! A good friend of mine who is an...

Unbelievable! A good friend of mine who is an assistant to a family law attorney said the level of emergency motions with situations like yours is through the roof. That being said, Judges are losing...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-24-2019, 11:04 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,374
Posted By vocalfather
I was also told that small claims won't address...

I was also told that small claims won't address it and send it back to the family courts. It feels so very cyclical and frustrating. Small claims also would only address 50% of that costs order and...
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