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Forum: Parenting Issues 05-12-2020, 07:54 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 537
Posted By iona6656
lol. y'all are catching some feelings over...

lol. y'all are catching some feelings over chocolate bars.

LD- your ex is STILL controlling you. have you had some counseling to deal with this?

my therapist taught me to do something that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-04-2020, 06:01 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 435
Posted By iona6656
So far- we've managed to stay civil. Her dad is a...

So far- we've managed to stay civil. Her dad is a bit short and angry with me sometimes. Cool. Fine. She doesn't really notice as exchanges are short- and we discuss only stuff related to her.

I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-04-2020, 05:57 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 435
Posted By iona6656
thanks for the perspective everyone. She's a...

thanks for the perspective everyone. She's a happy go-lucky kid. She takes a bit of time to adjust to new routines- like most toddlers. I've been saying in a matter of fact way that she's going to...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-30-2020, 01:45 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 435
Posted By iona6656
Do you guys say "good night" to your kids when at other parent's home?

Simple question:

When your kid(s) is at the other parent's home, do you always call to say good night? Never? Sometimes?

D3.5 is going to start overnights soon. She does't really want to- but...
Forum: Political Issues 04-28-2020, 01:11 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 527
Posted By iona6656
My lawyer- (is he still my lawyer? hopefully I'm...

My lawyer- (is he still my lawyer? hopefully I'm done iwth him for now...anyways)- when I was researching all his cases for a consultation, I read one where he, personally, got hit with costs because...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2020, 04:51 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,460
Posted By iona6656
Here's the thing- "verbal abusive" and abusive...

Here's the thing- "verbal abusive" and abusive language happens when you're in a position to be abused. If you're no longer in a relationship with the other person and sharing the same household-...
Forum: General Chat 04-23-2020, 04:09 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 412
Posted By iona6656
nah- i think she's saying that we have to start...

nah- i think she's saying that we have to start taking people who perpetrate violence against an intimate partner- or former intimate partner - as being potential lethal nutjobs. which this dude...
Forum: Political Issues 04-23-2020, 03:57 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 476
Posted By iona6656
Here's something both of you are missing- did you...

Here's something both of you are missing- did you hit your spouse? were you abusive? was there a power imbalance? y'all keep throwing around the word "allegation". well- if the allegation has merit...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-23-2020, 09:18 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 356
Posted By iona6656
if there are 5 or less kids- in home daycares are...

if there are 5 or less kids- in home daycares are still running. is there someone you trust who you can send your son to? call them an in-home daycare.
Forum: Political Issues 04-23-2020, 09:11 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 947
Posted By iona6656
I'm not quite sure if you're an abusive dick or...

I'm not quite sure if you're an abusive dick or not. Some of your posts have suggested you are...but maybe not.

We all make mistakes during the divorce process. It's a given. Sometimes it's a ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-19-2020, 11:00 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 217
Posted By iona6656
chucking snacks at her in-between her ipad...

chucking snacks at her in-between her ipad sessions.

but actually crafts 24-7. I'm working more than ever. 12-13hr days. online at home. I wouldn't be surviving if I wasn't quarantining with my...
Forum: General Chat 04-16-2020, 09:33 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 762
Posted By iona6656
ew. .

ew. .
Forum: Political Issues 04-16-2020, 09:29 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 947
Posted By iona6656
already by making this a "father" issue- you're...

already by making this a "father" issue- you're setting up a 'He v. She' debate. You're going to lose on that. You may want to consider changing it to "what many parents are going...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-07-2020, 10:07 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 757
Posted By iona6656
I think this is the time to ask questions- and as...

I think this is the time to ask questions- and as much as you can- keep it civil..

My daughter's dad and I have had the discussion about who visits our homes. Like I said in another thread- his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-07-2020, 06:27 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 757
Posted By iona6656
you haven't identified any behaviour in the...

you haven't identified any behaviour in the boyfriend that would indicate that they are risking exposure more than normal- e.g. he works in health care, continues to other family members.

I don't...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-26-2020, 09:54 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,552
Posted By iona6656
You would not believe the amount of family...

You would not believe the amount of family members [mostly nosy aunts and uncles- not immediate family. thank goodness]- messaging me saying I shouldn't send my daughter....silly. Her dad and I have...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-24-2020, 12:36 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 331
Posted By iona6656
no uncloaking is allowed. lawyers are still bound...

no uncloaking is allowed. lawyers are still bound by all professional ethics that we were before. our insurance does not allow us to give out advice willy-nilly.

but a support group is still a...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-24-2020, 10:38 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 378
Posted By iona6656
Accompanied by evidence right? like a redacted...

Accompanied by evidence right? like a redacted copy of a letter or email from your employer?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2020, 05:39 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,062
Posted By iona6656
Nearly everything you post on here reeks of...

Nearly everything you post on here reeks of control and abuse.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2020, 05:34 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,062
Posted By iona6656
yikes. from what I remember from your other...

yikes. from what I remember from your other posts- this doesn't surprise me. Dad is a nutjob.

Do you guys parallel parent?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2020, 10:28 AM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,062
Posted By iona6656
I have the same concerns here as you- as does my...

I have the same concerns here as you- as does my ex (we both currently live with our parents) who's mom is 84 and has COPD. My parents are both 67 and my mom is immuno compromised....so I think it's...
Forum: Divorce Support 03-16-2020, 04:38 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,309
Posted By iona6656
All of this. Report when the violence happens- to...

All of this. Report when the violence happens- to the police. Your priority here is to protect the kids. And you will likely need exclusive possession, a no contact order AND supervised visits. Do...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-16-2020, 04:32 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,276
Posted By iona6656
here's a wacky question to the OP- how are the...

here's a wacky question to the OP- how are the extra nights affecting the kids? you live in a different city- but how far? Does it work for them to be with you on Sunday nights?

Could YOU move...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-10-2020, 01:24 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,085
Posted By iona6656
You know what drives me bonkers about everyone...

You know what drives me bonkers about everyone complaining in this thread? Actually just LD- YOU married the person. You had children with this person. And both parents are responsible for the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-27-2020, 10:33 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 891
Posted By iona6656
ding ding ding. this is exactly what I...

ding ding ding.

this is exactly what I think. There is middle ground- and I think one judge would be able to get the whole story.

And even with abusers- I hope my story is one which shows that...
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