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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-05-2019, 06:17 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,540
Posted By arabian
Go to your local courthouse and file for a peace...

Go to your local courthouse and file for a peace bond. They will serve him and the two of you will have to appear before a judge. You feel threatened. Judge very well may order the two of you have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-18-2019, 10:15 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 701
Posted By arabian
finally.... arbitration hope you get through...

finally.... arbitration
hope you get through this soon

best wishes
Forum: Domestic Violence 10-11-2019, 04:39 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 606
Posted By arabian
That's great that you are communicating amicably...

That's great that you are communicating amicably with one another!

I'd suggest that you schedule some time to talk about the kids and where you both want to see them in 5, 10, 15 and 20 years. DO...
Forum: Domestic Violence 10-11-2019, 03:22 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 606
Posted By arabian
Sorry you are going through this. If you...

Sorry you are going through this.

If you have plenty of equity in your home and both have good steady employment you can count on lawyers not wanting the two of you to settle things...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-08-2019, 10:17 AM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,612
Posted By arabian
My advice has been to involve children's services...

My advice has been to involve children's services as it seems rather odd that step-mother (temporary or not) has kept children from the mother.

I am curious also, no mention of cause of death of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-29-2019, 06:38 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,612
Posted By arabian
We obviously only know one side of things. ...

We obviously only know one side of things.

If mother doesn't have anything to hide, one would hope that she does the right thing and calls Children's Services for assistance. I think it would...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2019, 10:08 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,612
Posted By arabian
Hope mother isn't in a posting frenzy on...

Hope mother isn't in a posting frenzy on facebook........ I'd recommend radio silence for now. Children Services and her lawyer hopefully will provide good advice going forward.

I agree with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2019, 09:49 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,612
Posted By arabian
I think everyone is raising some good points in...

I think everyone is raising some good points in this thread.

Kid's safety and well being is most important. I believe that if anyone checks their provincial child safety website they will find...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-25-2019, 08:48 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 362
Posted By arabian
actually... you won't like my opinion (but that...

actually... you won't like my opinion (but that is all it is)

... boo hoo

You net more than she does a month and you were married 38 years. You will pay support for the rest of your life quite...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-25-2019, 08:33 PM
Replies: 141
Views: 5,612
Posted By arabian
I've been viewing this thread for a while with...

I've been viewing this thread for a while with some interest. As a person who is likely older than most of you I will offer my thoughts.

Firstly, I am sorry for your loss. Married or not, you...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-13-2019, 02:28 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 681
Posted By arabian
MEP/FRO can be quite useful if someone has...

MEP/FRO can be quite useful if someone has arrears. To my surprise I received a few thousand dollars deposited into my account that I was not expecting. This is not the monthly payment that I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-06-2019, 07:55 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 592
Posted By arabian
I would NEVER agree to meeting with someone who...

I would NEVER agree to meeting with someone who is not a party to matter. Your ex can have his lawyer there to hand-hold. You do not have to play their game. Stop the nonsense.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2019, 05:54 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 604
Posted By arabian
successful journey I have reported you to...

successful journey

I have reported you to the monitors.

Yet again, your posts are over-the-top and offensive.

Perhaps find a gardening forum (like you used to frequent) for a change.

Go...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 09:48 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 708
Posted By arabian
I understand what you are saying Berner. True...

I understand what you are saying Berner. True there were some differences in my situation, namely there were no minor children involved. The thing is, exclusive possession is a temporary...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 07:41 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 708
Posted By arabian
Actually that is exactly what I did. The Order...

Actually that is exactly what I did. The Order for exclusive possession came several weeks later with the very large interim SS order. Ex tried to get police to allow him to enter but I stood my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 01:16 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 708
Posted By arabian
I didn't say "change the locks" - I said add a...

I didn't say "change the locks" - I said add a security system.
She has a right to feeling safe when she is in her home, particularly as he has been absent lately. (Then if he is an ahole you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-21-2019, 08:53 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 708
Posted By arabian
get copies of last 3 years income tax returns &...

get copies of last 3 years income tax returns & NOAs
bank statements
resume & copy of any trade certification/union membership
any other relevant financial information you deem important.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2019, 10:18 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 708
Posted By arabian
Well you told him it was over.... If you...

Well you told him it was over....

If you want to escalate things:

If you find his behavior unsettling, perhaps call a security company and have a good system installed. Remove all of his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-20-2019, 10:05 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 708
Posted By arabian
I believe the only time you can't leave the...

I believe the only time you can't leave the country is when you are collecting EI ?

Ok so now you have insurmountable proof to convince yourself totally that he's despicable.

Move forward.
...
Forum: General Chat 08-19-2019, 07:58 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 735
Posted By arabian
well done ! now you can move forward ...

well done !

now you can move forward

enjoy yourself ! treat yourself !
Forum: Political Issues 08-16-2019, 08:22 PM
Replies: 89
Views: 25,799
Posted By arabian
Usually one of the first things maintenance...

Usually one of the first things maintenance enforcement agencies put into place is a personal property registry. Make sure that is on file. Ex buys a car and then tries to dispose of it... it can...
Forum: Political Issues 08-16-2019, 07:39 PM
Replies: 89
Views: 25,799
Posted By arabian
At some point in time your ex should lose her...

At some point in time your ex should lose her drivers' license and passport. Then you might see some activity.

If your ex has never worked then she won't get CPP.

People like your ex are...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-16-2019, 07:24 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 528
Posted By arabian
Iona thanks for the Friday afternoon chuckle -...

Iona thanks for the Friday afternoon chuckle - I've only been married once. 30 years was enough. Looking back I'm surprised I didn't leave earlier. I was an avid golfer so I fortunately had a good...
Forum: Divorce Support 08-15-2019, 07:14 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 528
Posted By arabian
You don't want the kid to be terrified all the...

You don't want the kid to be terrified all the time she is with her father.

Nowadays there are many wonderful electronic devices and toys. A very young child can learn how to use a cell phone. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-14-2019, 11:09 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 803
Posted By arabian
When the other side has to pony up with...

When the other side has to pony up with corroborating evidence (bank statements) of income and expenses, then that is when the offers start to fly. Tell your friend to stay firm and demand...
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