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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-08-2013, 10:46 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 983
Posted By NSmith111
Motion to Strike

I had content in my last motion that I allowed my husband's lawyer to strike uncontested. Is this content no longer admissible at all now (trial, settlement conference), or can I bring it up again...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-27-2013, 01:11 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 688
Posted By NSmith111
Is FRO manditory??

I have a motion tomorrow, and one of the issues is how my stbx makes payments. I would like to continue with e-transfers, but he is saying that is not an option.

His affidavit states: "The...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2013, 09:19 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,462
Posted By NSmith111
Does "less is more" apply when filing affidavits?

I was wondering how you folks approached your paperwork. I am filing what is an increasingly complicated notice of motion, for the motion that was adjourned last week for next week.

I know that a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-13-2013, 09:40 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,465
Posted By NSmith111
Lawyers are paid to tell you what you want to...

Lawyers are paid to tell you what you want to hear... I've gained more realistic advice from this site in one week than I have gained in months elsewhere. There is much to be said for learning from...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-12-2013, 10:35 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,227
Posted By NSmith111
Lol, thanks. Sounds like a huge deal when you put...

Lol, thanks. Sounds like a huge deal when you put it that way, doesn't it? :)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-12-2013, 09:23 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,465
Posted By NSmith111
Find someone on this forum w a whole lot of...

Find someone on this forum w a whole lot of experience, whom you have connected with, and ask them to read your agreement...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-12-2013, 09:21 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,465
Posted By NSmith111
I would be very, very, very cautious of walking...

I would be very, very, very cautious of walking out of the matrimonial home.... My hubby and I had agreed to 50/50 w the kids, blah blah blah, and the minute I was out, things changed... Couldn't...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-12-2013, 01:24 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,227
Posted By NSmith111
When your 9 year old breaks down crying the next...

When your 9 year old breaks down crying the next day because "grandpa wouldn't even say hi to you" of course it gets to me. I can handle it, but when my kids are hurting by watching it, and they take...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2013, 10:24 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,883
Posted By NSmith111
No offense taken - I know it's all like a really...

No offense taken - I know it's all like a really large chess match. I kind of resent that, but am trying to navigate my way through it and take it for being what it is.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2013, 08:11 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,883
Posted By NSmith111
Hmmm - perhaps goading me into filing more...

Hmmm - perhaps goading me into filing more motions than necessary to recoup court costs?
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-11-2013, 03:19 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,227
Posted By NSmith111
I guess we'll have to see how the next couple of...

I guess we'll have to see how the next couple of weeks play out...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-11-2013, 02:46 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,227
Posted By NSmith111
He is picking them up and dropping them off them...

He is picking them up and dropping them off them off tonight. It's becoming high conflict, (and I don't know if there is a way to tone that down once it's started??) but we still have decent...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-11-2013, 02:33 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,227
Posted By NSmith111
It's getting too complicated to explain... Is...

It's getting too complicated to explain... Is there any benefit in the court room for him to intentionally not go himself for pick ups, given the judge's order? That's all I'm trying to understand. I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-11-2013, 02:13 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,227
Posted By NSmith111
So much good insight! I don't care who picks...

So much good insight!

I don't care who picks them up, per say, that wasn't so much the point. It's the bigger picture - he has never had anyone else pick them up before (the bit that he has done...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-11-2013, 01:48 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,227
Posted By NSmith111
If the kids were in the same city, then your...

If the kids were in the same city, then your recommendations would be things I would have already pursued. They are in a small town about 15 kms from where I am.

I did almost 100% of the driving...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2013, 01:18 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,883
Posted By NSmith111
I don't want to run up his bill - every dollar he...

I don't want to run up his bill - every dollar he wastes is one less dollar for my kids...

I like the idea of a 3-way meeting, but given the direction our case conference went in October, and how...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-11-2013, 01:33 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,227
Posted By NSmith111
That wording would be fantastic! Is there a form...

That wording would be fantastic! Is there a form to file as well?
Do I explain to him WHY I need the clarification? Is it better to give a full account, or just specify what needs to be clarified?
...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-11-2013, 12:01 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 2,227
Posted By NSmith111
Following orders or a judge's intent?

On Thursday I won a motion, even though my husband's lawyer was filing for an adjournment, and had no motion papers prepared... Essentially, I can't drive right now, my husband was refusing to do so,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-10-2013, 01:15 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,883
Posted By NSmith111
I filed for a motion, she filed for an...

I filed for a motion, she filed for an adjournment, and was shocked and incredibly unhappy that the judge made a few interm-interm orders. She was so confident of her position that my ex didn't even...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-09-2013, 09:10 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,883
Posted By NSmith111
Only that I didn't want to publicize the specific...

Only that I didn't want to publicize the specific points she was "advising" me on.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-09-2013, 07:19 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,883
Posted By NSmith111
What to do when your ex's lawyer "advises" you?

My ex 's lawyer sent me a letter a couple of weeks ago "advising" me to follow her recommendations. The issues are irrelevant, I brought one of her recommendations up in a motion last week, and won...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-09-2013, 02:35 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,939
Posted By NSmith111
That was wonderful - thank you.

That was wonderful - thank you.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-09-2013, 02:20 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,939
Posted By NSmith111
Very eloquent, thank you for your insightful...

Very eloquent, thank you for your insightful perspective.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-09-2013, 05:33 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,939
Posted By NSmith111
Thanks for all of the helpful responses - seeing...

Thanks for all of the helpful responses - seeing the kids has been #1 - but without funds, it's difficult... The judge at the case conference imputed min wage to me, and was essentially attributing...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-09-2013, 12:15 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,939
Posted By NSmith111
I haven't made any. I think I have a really...

I haven't made any. I think I have a really bizarre situation. I was married 11 years, since I was 18. My h is 6 years older than me, and a mechanical engineer. I was a homemaker the whole time -...
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