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Forum: Financial Issues 08-19-2021, 01:37 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 845
Posted By Rioe
Same idea still holds. Calculate how much...

Same idea still holds.


Calculate how much you ought to have paid in CS every year, based on your income.


Figure out how much of that should have gone to this other relative, and how much...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-19-2021, 09:06 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 845
Posted By Rioe
You need to make a spreadsheet and do some math. ...

You need to make a spreadsheet and do some math.


So, ten years ago, you paid a lump sum that was supposed to represent your lifetime obligation of CS? Or just ten years of it?


Find your...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-15-2021, 02:52 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 641
Posted By Rioe
Keep in mind the source of the information. Your...

Keep in mind the source of the information. Your ex's lawyer will say all kinds of reasonable sounding baloney in the hopes that you fall for it.

You are entitled to half the value of the...
Forum: General Chat 02-14-2021, 06:25 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,467
Posted By Rioe
Sorry for the delay; I don't visit often anymore...

Sorry for the delay; I don't visit often anymore and had trouble logging in!

My ex cheated, and yes, I consider that unforgiveable. He was a liar and a user, and extremely selfish. I did the bulk...
Forum: General Chat 01-19-2021, 11:54 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,467
Posted By Rioe
I lost nearly all my friends in my divorce, for a...

I lost nearly all my friends in my divorce, for a variety of reasons; them trying to remain friends with my ex despite his terrible behaviour towards me, discovering that some of them were cheaters...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-10-2020, 01:00 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,570
Posted By Rioe
Some of us went through terrible break-ups with...

Some of us went through terrible break-ups with our exes, during which we learned that they turned out to be manipulative liars about very important stuff. We learned that they can't be trusted at...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-07-2019, 10:16 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,422
Posted By Rioe
It should be shared/split in some fashion in a...

It should be shared/split in some fashion in a 50/50 situation. The method would depend on how many kids you have. You could each claim one, or if only one child qualifies, you have to alternate...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-07-2019, 10:14 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,698
Posted By Rioe
The first time I filed my taxes as a single mom I...

The first time I filed my taxes as a single mom I was so astounded by the increase I thought I must be doing something wrong. I could claim the full childcare amount AND the full dependent amount,...
Forum: General Chat 03-20-2019, 12:02 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,988
Posted By Rioe
I'm Batman.

I'm Batman.
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-12-2019, 11:15 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 5,192
Posted By Rioe
I don't think I've seen it suggested yet, but one...

I don't think I've seen it suggested yet, but one possibility, if your ex does successfully move with the child, is to have your CS reduced to account for the increased costs of your access. Then you...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-16-2018, 07:04 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,013
Posted By Rioe
She's entitled to half the change in value of the...

She's entitled to half the change in value of the pension from date of marriage to date of separation. Your pension administrator can easily calculate this for you if you ask. They do it a lot.

...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2018, 06:48 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,705
Posted By Rioe
Get the divorce or things can go in completely...

Get the divorce or things can go in completely unintended ways when you die. Even if you have a will.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-13-2018, 09:46 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 992
Posted By Rioe
If she barely making ends meet on a disability...

If she barely making ends meet on a disability pension, her CS to you would be a negligible amount, and it makes sense that you would not bother with pursuing it. However, her share of your pension...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-31-2018, 07:36 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,255
Posted By Rioe
Tell him you can't decide which separation date...

Tell him you can't decide which separation date option to go with until you have financial disclosure for both dates.


Because that's true. You can't make a good decision without all the...
Forum: Introductions 07-27-2018, 02:25 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 3,291
Posted By Rioe
So the order FRO has is that he pays $30 a month...

So the order FRO has is that he pays $30 a month in arrears till it's paid off, but for some reason he paid it in full, lump sum to MEP? MEP has given it to FRO, but FRO can't do anything but pay it...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-26-2018, 06:42 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,167
Posted By Rioe
If either parent incurs a s7 expense that they...

If either parent incurs a s7 expense that they both agree on, they share it proportional to income. It doesn't matter who has the most access to the children or who has sole custody.


A lot of...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-15-2018, 08:09 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,200
Posted By Rioe
Without division of finances, and a clear...

Without division of finances, and a clear separation date you both understand (and can prove legally) you are NOT separated. If you are buying a 'family' car you are NOT separated!



Tell her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2018, 08:02 PM
Replies: 66
Views: 8,169
Posted By Rioe
You should show up to court with some great keto...

You should show up to court with some great keto snacks to share with the staff and judge! Bring examples of the sort of nutritious and healthy food you feed yourself and your children, and would...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-14-2018, 02:58 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,687
Posted By Rioe
Well, I won't jump on the mom-bashing wagon quite...

Well, I won't jump on the mom-bashing wagon quite that badly, but she really is milking both the disability AND child support systems here from the sounds of it, having the child coast along...
Forum: Political Issues 06-15-2018, 11:26 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,185
Posted By Rioe
Dividing by three isn't any harder than dividing...

Dividing by three isn't any harder than dividing by two, unless you have a serious math allergy.




Now I know my system is robust!
Forum: Financial Issues 06-05-2018, 05:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,372
Posted By Rioe
Several observations about this: You...

Several observations about this:


You can't forgo CS. It is the right of the child to be supported by both parents.



If you have been offsetting CS and SS and calling it a wash up to now,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-24-2018, 10:16 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 9,543
Posted By Rioe
Two points: You are clearly prioritizing...

Two points:


You are clearly prioritizing your new relationship over your children. There's no other way to spin this. Can't you wait and marry your new girlfriend in a year or two, after things...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-23-2018, 08:46 PM
Replies: 65
Views: 8,558
Posted By Rioe
Yep. He's a dick, and you aren't. He limits...

Yep. He's a dick, and you aren't. He limits device usage and communication, and you don't. The kids will learn that people are different, households are different, and lessons taught by parents are...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-23-2018, 08:41 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,938
Posted By Rioe
He could probably have brief initial consultation...

He could probably have brief initial consultation with a few lawyers for free, and get a feel for what could happen. However, he will likely run into lawyers who tell a potential client what they...
Forum: Divorce Support 05-22-2018, 09:22 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,895
Posted By Rioe
He has to do a version of gray rock, that keeps...

He has to do a version of gray rock, that keeps his pain hidden but shows his unconditional love for his child.


"Thanks for the photo ordering link, honey, I'm so proud of you! I wish I could be...
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