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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-05-2021, 01:00 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 744
Posted By cranberry
He's high conflict and prefers to use the system...

He's high conflict and prefers to use the system instead of attempting to mediate. It was his lawyer who suggested we try mediation, I agreed (immediately made an appointment with the agreed upon...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2021, 11:31 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 744
Posted By cranberry
I don't think I mentioned this was an informal...

I don't think I mentioned this was an informal offer, not an official one. Dies tgat have any bearing? Or is an offer an offer and should not be attached to an affidavit?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2021, 10:45 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 744
Posted By cranberry
Yup, I know cs, S7, and post secondary cannot be...

Yup, I know cs, S7, and post secondary cannot be waived. He obviously does not. Or thinks I don't so he can come back at me later.

Would I be able to use this at some point? I was fairly certain...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2021, 09:19 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 744
Posted By cranberry
Put my big girl panties on this morning and read...

Put my big girl panties on this morning and read the damn thing.

Our current arrangement is week on week off, 1 week me 2 weeks him summer holidays, and usual division of stats. I live in Ontario,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2021, 12:37 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,047
Posted By cranberry
When the judge granted my ex's request, he...

When the judge granted my ex's request, he ordered that he choose three professionals but I got to choose. One could say the 15K was my "fault" lol. The assessment itself backfired on him. He was...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-29-2021, 12:18 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,047
Posted By cranberry
Wow, that's insane. The retainer for our private...

Wow, that's insane. The retainer for our private assessment, requested by and paid fully by him, was $15K.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2021, 03:46 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 744
Posted By cranberry
Totally agree. But I know there has been some...

Totally agree. But I know there has been some heavy influencing going on. Just have to put my best foot forward as we head into that black whole that us family law.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2021, 02:51 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 744
Posted By cranberry
Cash Offer -- to buy the kids

Yup, you read that right. My ex sent me a "Without Prejudice" offer to take our kids "off my hands" for 10K!

I have been making posts and comments for about a year now of his intentions to remove...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-28-2021, 11:08 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,003
Posted By cranberry
I have never provided the whole NOA. I just send...

I have never provided the whole NOA. I just send line 150 and cover everything else. I have never had any problems doing this. Anything beyond line 150 is off limits, imo.
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-06-2021, 02:04 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 661
Posted By cranberry
Tilt -- I had sole custody, awarded at birth, to...

Tilt -- I had sole custody, awarded at birth, to be reviewed when they turned five. I had no problem switching to 50-50 at that time. But, ex is high conflict and dicked around with my offers. He...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-04-2021, 01:37 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 661
Posted By cranberry
My ex lives 45 mins away on a good traffic day....

My ex lives 45 mins away on a good traffic day. Too many late arrivals at school to count. Virtual school has helped in that regard. I personally don't like it but that's for me to deal with. Your...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2021, 01:32 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 560
Posted By cranberry
Talking Very true. This assuming I actually survive...

Very true. This assuming I actually survive double-trouble teens! Lol!
Forum: Financial Issues 06-04-2021, 01:29 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 560
Posted By cranberry
We have pre-teen twins. My ex does not know the...

We have pre-teen twins. My ex does not know the meaning of the word negotiate. He has used the court system for 12 years and blatantly ignores court orders. Its a no-brainer that NOAs must be...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-03-2021, 11:12 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 560
Posted By cranberry
Thank you ! That's what I thought. You'd think...

Thank you ! That's what I thought. You'd think after 12 years he'd know his obligations but he keeps shooting himself in the foot.
Forum: Financial Issues 06-02-2021, 01:00 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 560
Posted By cranberry
Annual NOA exchange

Not once in our 12 years of being coparents have I ever received my ex's NOA without a fight. He saves them until we are in court and they suddenly appear.

The most recent NOA that I have is for...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2021, 02:54 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 2,877
Posted By cranberry
I am dealing with an ex who has told our boys...

I am dealing with an ex who has told our boys (12) that they can choose who to live with now they are 12. I/we have had an incredibly difficult 12 months since the boys were told this. With...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-10-2021, 12:07 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 586
Posted By cranberry
The only email account they have is the one...

The only email account they have is the one orovided by their virtual school. Good idea! I will also check out Google Hangouts.
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-10-2021, 11:32 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 586
Posted By cranberry
Thanks! Our boys are 12 today and yes, they use...

Thanks! Our boys are 12 today and yes, they use this phone to talk with their dad while here. I have asked them to call me when they are here, they won't.

As mentioned, today is their birthday....
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-09-2021, 01:15 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 586
Posted By cranberry
Phone numer

My ex gave my kids an old cell phone of his this past summer. He refuses to give me the number. They boys claim they don't know the phone number. I have asked for the number a few times but he keeps...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-21-2021, 12:33 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,109
Posted By cranberry
Thanks, Ange. This information will help me...

Thanks, Ange. This information will help me prepare for what might happen. Do you know if VOC report is different from a private parenting assessment?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-18-2021, 02:40 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,109
Posted By cranberry
Thank you for the links to Working Dads ordeal....

Thank you for the links to Working Dads ordeal. He's a hero for sure. Unfortunately, I cannot do what he did.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-18-2021, 02:30 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,050
Posted By cranberry
I appreciate your advice, thank you very much. As...

I appreciate your advice, thank you very much. As for pissing into the wind, that's advice better passed on to my ex. But I understand what you are saying.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2021, 03:11 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,109
Posted By cranberry
Rockscan -- they are in counseling. They have...

Rockscan -- they are in counseling. They have admitted they went to extreme behaviour hoping I would eventually give up and agree to let them live with their dad permanently. Keep telling them I am...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2021, 02:46 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,050
Posted By cranberry
Our boys turn 12 in March. I will be surprised if...

Our boys turn 12 in March. I will be surprised if I have not received an affidavit for him to remove them from my life by the end of that week.

Even though we have been on this roller coaster for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2021, 01:43 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,109
Posted By cranberry
KKC -- I feel for you! My house is apparently...

KKC -- I feel for you! My house is apparently ground zero for Covid! My kids were withheld when things went diwn the drain ladt year. Thankfully, when finally returned, they resigned themselves to...
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