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Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 05:20 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 770
Posted By CoolGuy41
Bulletproof (?) draft order for travel

I've removed the "unreasonably interfere with the child(ren)'s schooling" provision because I agree with Janus.

I've removed the vaccinations provision because looking out for the children's...
Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 02:05 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 770
Posted By CoolGuy41
not-so-good

No, I can actually poke many holes in iona's travel clause, not the least of which is the loophole my ex has found to effectively deny the kids vacations that I wrote about in another thread...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-18-2019, 06:21 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 770
Posted By CoolGuy41
It would be nice to have a provision that allows...

It would be nice to have a provision that allows a parent to take the child(ren) on a 1-week vacation anytime (summer or not) that they have the money, time, and will to do it. Not only am I missing...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-16-2019, 03:23 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 179
Posted By CoolGuy41
Option 1 is what I am doing and she effectively...

Option 1 is what I am doing and she effectively rejected that option; in my opinion, unreasonably. Does anyone think that what she is demanding in exchange for consent is reasonable?

Option 2 I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-16-2019, 02:15 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 179
Posted By CoolGuy41
Travel consent (again)

There have been various flavors of this issue posted before.

Here is the situation:
- I have asked the ex for consent (i.e. for passports, consent letter, and a few days of her parenting time)...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-07-2019, 01:40 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 665
Posted By CoolGuy41
Yes, well sometimes in life you just have to have...

Yes, well sometimes in life you just have to have a spine. I would totally do it.

Ah yes... [sigh], jerked around guy syndrome: battered wife syndrome's ugly cousin. It happens time and time...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2019, 07:54 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 665
Posted By CoolGuy41
If the mother has sole custody then the principal...

If the mother has sole custody then the principal is probably correct. Things like this always come up at schools, which is why usually the principal is on the ball when it comes to family law.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-06-2019, 06:37 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 665
Posted By CoolGuy41
This is a matter of (1) understanding the...

This is a matter of (1) understanding the legalese, which might be jurisdiction-specific, and (2) communicating it to the principal, who might be an ignoramus.

Does evil mom have a court order...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-01-2019, 12:18 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 426
Posted By CoolGuy41
This is an Ontario-specific question better...

This is an Ontario-specific question better addressed by someone else. Where I'm from there is no such thing as the OCL.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-31-2019, 07:39 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 426
Posted By CoolGuy41
Parallel parenting is a style of parenting after...

Parallel parenting is a style of parenting after separation where there is minimal interaction between the parents. As long as there is a clear & comprehensive court order in place and both parties...
Forum: Introductions 01-31-2019, 06:30 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,060
Posted By CoolGuy41
For a second I thought I was reading a post by a...

For a second I thought I was reading a post by a woman complaining about having to pay set-off CS to a man. That was silly of me.

I now see that feelingaloneallthetime is a man whining about not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2019, 01:27 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,499
Posted By CoolGuy41
The above seems like useful case law for anyone...

The above seems like useful case law for anyone who is being alienated & denied parenting time.

However, I note that the judgement rendered in the case of forum member mafia007 who was in a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2019, 10:09 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 471
Posted By CoolGuy41
You sound like a bitch.

You sound like a bitch.
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-13-2019, 08:07 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 510
Posted By CoolGuy41
... OR - you could say yes to every day that she...

... OR - you could say yes to every day that she asks!

This allows you to lazy out in front of the TV during the time you otherwise would have been making lunch.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-09-2019, 01:43 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 567
Posted By CoolGuy41
BEST CASE: you stand to gain $500/year. This,...

BEST CASE: you stand to gain $500/year. This, even if sustained for say the next 3 years, is substantially less than what you would have to pay a lawyer to represent you in the court application you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-07-2018, 01:35 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 690
Posted By CoolGuy41
You could appeal

Or, if you haven't missed your appeal window, you can appeal the decision that you've lost with costs, drag it out for months or years, claim costs payable to you, and also claim that your ex pay a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-29-2018, 01:42 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 626
Posted By CoolGuy41
Congratulations on taking that step towards...

Congratulations on taking that step towards moving on with your life, PND. You are a statistic, one of the 95% that don't go to trial (according to some random thing I read online). Out of curiosity,...
Forum: General Chat 11-28-2018, 11:02 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 436
Posted By CoolGuy41
Yes, I'm sure BIFF would be a great co-parent :) ...

Yes, I'm sure BIFF would be a great co-parent :)

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Forum: Parenting Issues 11-18-2018, 02:49 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 765
Posted By CoolGuy41
By ignoring it until it went away. Your kid...

By ignoring it until it went away.

Your kid is 2. My kid could barely speak at 2. Two-year-olds are not proficient at using a phone let alone a computer.

If you are asking how proactive you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-15-2018, 06:21 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 186
Posted By CoolGuy41
To ask why it did not get put on the inactive...

To ask why it did not get put on the inactive list. I received a response from the court clerk that implied he had some authority/discretion. I'm not aware of any statutory basis for that authority....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-15-2018, 01:28 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 186
Posted By CoolGuy41
Question How much authority do Court of Appeal clerks have?

I am trying to understand the disconnect I am seeing between what the law and related court rules say and what actually happens.

Q1: Does a Court of Appeal registry clerk have the discretion to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-08-2018, 03:47 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,740
Posted By CoolGuy41
Deterministic no, but you can actually get a feel...

Deterministic no, but you can actually get a feel for P1 and P2 by searching for trial judgments involving your lawyer. Chances are you'll get fewer results than you expect because only a small...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-07-2018, 01:24 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,740
Posted By CoolGuy41
Well, if you do not mind paying CS to you ex or...

Well, if you do not mind paying CS to you ex or the fees to your lawyer, then you are golden! Perhaps you can also vote-in a tax increase in Ontario for added joy.



Correct. I am older, wiser,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-06-2018, 12:58 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,740
Posted By CoolGuy41
OK youngdad, so my insight is that there is some...

OK youngdad, so my insight is that there is some mechanism to have my lawyer's fees reassessed and potentially reduced, at the risk of having my confidential emails outed. Thank you, I did not know...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-05-2018, 01:50 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,740
Posted By CoolGuy41
Youngdad, Allow me reveal something personal...

Youngdad,

Allow me reveal something personal about myself: I am lawyered-up to the teeth and have been involved in matrimonial litigation for most of the past 4 years. I am on these forums mostly...
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