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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-05-2022, 09:07 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 524
Posted By Janus
The bad news: You probably should have never...

The bad news:

You probably should have never left the house, or accepted less than 50% parenting time of the 5 year old. That dug a big hole.

The good news:

Kids are still young, this is a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-26-2022, 12:56 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 259
Posted By Janus
If the spousal support needs based or...

If the spousal support needs based or compensation-based?

Did you have kids together, and did she stay home to raise them? If so, cohabitation likely will not matter at all.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-23-2022, 05:16 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 202
Posted By Janus
How many days does the stepparent need to abuse...

How many days does the stepparent need to abuse your child? Can they abuse your kid if they only see him 3 days a month? How about 7 days?

At what threshold amount of time is the stepparent...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-10-2022, 09:55 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 343
Posted By Janus
I think it is possible to get a transcript of the...

I think it is possible to get a transcript of the texts notarized if you are worried about losing them?
Forum: General Chat 03-10-2022, 09:51 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 297
Posted By Janus
My ex used to repeatedly inform me of facts as...

My ex used to repeatedly inform me of facts as told to her by a lawyer. The vast majority of these facts were almost completely incorrect.

Therefore...

1) Her lawyer was incredibly...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-05-2022, 05:41 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 307
Posted By Janus
I thought it was 70km. Oops :) ...

I thought it was 70km.

Oops :)

Obviously he has no obligation, but if he refuses the likely result is that his ex will say “well, I can’t bring the kid over so too bad”. He will have...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-05-2022, 04:09 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 410
Posted By Janus
I think more time with the kids is always worth...

I think more time with the kids is always worth the fight, especially if there is a reasonable chance of obtaining it.

If the other parent dragged the kids away unilaterally, that's a good sign of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-05-2022, 04:06 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 307
Posted By Janus
https://www.canada.ca/en/revenue-agency/services/t...

https://www.canada.ca/en/revenue-agency/services/tax/businesses/topics/payroll/benefits-allowances/automobile/automobile-motor-vehicle-allowances/reasonable-kilometre-allowance.html

Apparantly,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-01-2022, 06:41 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,779
Posted By Janus
Vaccines never prevent infection. That is not...

Vaccines never prevent infection. That is not the purpose of a vaccine. I will presume that your formal science education was minimal at best.



See above. You may have some education in...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-27-2022, 07:37 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,779
Posted By Janus
This is a major ruling. I can see it affecting...

This is a major ruling. I can see it affecting many cases.

I'm obviously disappointed, and it seems like the father argued his case poorly. Until now, you did not have to actually prove that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2022, 01:57 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 253
Posted By Janus
Hah, I didn't read your followup, it was schools....

Hah, I didn't read your followup, it was schools.

Yeah, send a message that you don't agree.

School is a major point of contention, I would expect it to go to court.



This seems to be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-06-2022, 01:54 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 253
Posted By Janus
Your ex wife is correct. Let her know...

Your ex wife is correct.



Let her know in writing that you disagree with the major decision and that you expect to be consulted. Build up a bunch of these before you go to court.



Send...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-02-2022, 10:05 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 575
Posted By Janus
Do you have evidence that this harmed your child?...

Do you have evidence that this harmed your child?



Set up your own appointments in the future.



That was my point, you cannot collect evidence of anxiety and fear, so they do not count.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-02-2022, 09:24 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 883
Posted By Janus
A limit on retroactive or prospective SS? Or...

A limit on retroactive or prospective SS? Or both?
Forum: General Chat 02-02-2022, 09:23 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 799
Posted By Janus
Oh, that's easy. A) Open a small business. ...

Oh, that's easy.

A) Open a small business. Claim all sorts of crazy deductions. Only shmucks pay for cellphones and their cars out of net income. Complain about paying too much tax.

B) Be...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-02-2022, 09:04 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 575
Posted By Janus
Could you give an example of something that they...

Could you give an example of something that they went and did without consultation that:

1) You would not have agreed to
2) Had a negative effect on your child




Denied by who?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-02-2022, 08:59 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 329
Posted By Janus
If you have evidence that your ex has stolen...

If you have evidence that your ex has stolen money from your child, then bring that to the attention of the court. If you already have a motion to change in the works just add it.

If you do not...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-02-2022, 01:11 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,880
Posted By Janus
Do you guys own or rent your house? Do you...

Do you guys own or rent your house?

Do you have a car? Does she have a car?



Spousal support in your situation is wrong, but that does not mean that it won't be ordered anyway. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-02-2022, 01:06 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 434
Posted By Janus
As Brampton said, changing CS levels is not an...

As Brampton said, changing CS levels is not an emergency, so wait until after your CC.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-02-2022, 01:04 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 265
Posted By Janus
Remember, your words can only hurt you, they can...

Remember, your words can only hurt you, they can never help you. It is generally best to say as little as possible in writing, and anything that you do say should be incredibly child focused and...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-01-2022, 05:13 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 883
Posted By Janus
I do not believe there is a limitations period...

I do not believe there is a limitations period for spousal support.

I am pretty sure that equalization has a limitations period. I felt it was less than 5 years, but I could be wrong. Certainly...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-01-2022, 05:09 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,880
Posted By Janus
Offhand, it does not sound like you should be...

Offhand, it does not sound like you should be liable to pay spousal support. As you pointed out, if she did not sacrifice her career at any point, then the only way she qualifies for SS is on a...
Forum: General Chat 02-01-2022, 05:04 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 799
Posted By Janus
CRA has a cute policy. If both parents claim...

CRA has a cute policy. If both parents claim benefits, CRA gives it to neither until they work it out.

It doesn't even come to an audit, I just got an automated message.

Funny story... I was...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-01-2022, 05:00 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 428
Posted By Janus
Impecuniosity does not dictate custody matters. ...

Impecuniosity does not dictate custody matters. Seems like the father cannot afford a place, and he has found a way to make this work for the children. He should be celebrated, not castigated.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-31-2022, 05:39 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 512
Posted By Janus
Tactically speaking, the best move would have...

Tactically speaking, the best move would have been to get him to agree to you having the majority of the parenting time, and then springing the move on him.

It is unlikely that he will voluntarily...
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