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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:34 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 269
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I just went to your website and read your...

I just went to your website and read your backstory. I'm so effen sorry for the years of bullshit you've been put through. I thought I've been living a movie the last 7 years. Clearly your ex has...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 09:20 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 269
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Unbelievable. I hope this backfires on her so...

Unbelievable. I hope this backfires on her so badly. As a mom, I completely disagree with the emotional damage she is causing her children not to mention the money she burning on legal fees for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-24-2020, 10:39 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 547
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Your ex can't just withhold the kids from you...

Your ex can't just withhold the kids from you because he THINKS they are at risk with you to get covid19. File a motion and he will have to provide specific evidence to support his "fears". I'm not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-23-2020, 11:15 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 455
Posted By Helpmyspouse
As long as you have equity on your home lawyer...

As long as you have equity on your home lawyer will continue to milk you. Doesn't matter if your unemployed. Once a lawyer has prepared your financials he knows exactly if you can pay legal fees or...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-21-2020, 08:42 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 470
Posted By Helpmyspouse
That would also stop us having to pay a lawyer...

That would also stop us having to pay a lawyer for a whole day when he sits around at the court house waiting for your matter to be called. The matter lasts 20 minutes but you just paid him for 6...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-20-2020, 08:07 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 142
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Regarding pension, whether you settle with a cash...

Regarding pension, whether you settle with a cash payout or agree to a percentage of pension transferred to an RESP or other bank savings how can ex come back for more? I'm asking because I'm trying...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-19-2020, 06:19 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 915
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Is your courthouse still open with the covid19...

Is your courthouse still open with the covid19 pandemic?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2020, 07:23 AM
Replies: 81
Views: 2,239
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I agree with Rocksan. I can't see this going over...

I agree with Rocksan. I can't see this going over well if your ex doesn't have the virus. I don't know how young your child is but best to try to keep the situation uninterrupted for kids and not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-16-2020, 10:14 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 110
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Verbal or physical..it's all abuse and you and...

Verbal or physical..it's all abuse and you and your kids deserve better. Seek advice from a domestic abuse shelter. They can point you in the right direction. And don't let him know your plans. If...
Forum: General Chat 03-15-2020, 09:54 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 215
Posted By Helpmyspouse
The obstacles and delays I've encountered since...

The obstacles and delays I've encountered since 2014 is unbelievable. I didn't need this one. I was on the trial list for May. I will write a book one day. :mad:
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-07-2020, 05:08 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 915
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I don't have advice to give only well wishes that...

I don't have advice to give only well wishes that you will be successful in getting your girls back soon. Stay strong. You are doing great so far.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-05-2020, 07:30 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 197
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I was going to start my post with how long I've...

I was going to start my post with how long I've been at it but when I see it in print like that it makes me feel deflated.:)

There are children involved but the issues are equalization and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-04-2020, 10:57 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 197
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Summary judgement

So settlement offers are going nowhere. Ex lacks the mental capacity to self-rep even pgt was removed. I don't care he passed a two hour assessment. He remains unmedicated, no insight and still...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-04-2020, 09:37 PM
Replies: 84
Views: 8,025
Posted By Helpmyspouse
As a mom all I can say is thank God your kids...

As a mom all I can say is thank God your kids have you. All they need is one stable parent. Wishing some peace to come your way.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-25-2020, 08:35 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 630
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I agree with Iona that not all couples will make...

I agree with Iona that not all couples will make good candidates for mandatory counselling. Where one spouse is mentally Ill counselling will not go anywhere. Such as in my case if I had to sit in a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-25-2020, 06:48 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,077
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I was told that once a lawyer prepares your...

I was told that once a lawyer prepares your financials he knows EXACTLY how much you are worth and will do their "calculations" on how much money they are going to make from your case. It doesn't...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-23-2020, 07:31 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 484
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Settlement conference will only work if both...

Settlement conference will only work if both sides are reasonable and motivated to end the legal nightmare. Mine went nowhere and been at it since 2014. My ex lawyer is a money hungry thief. We...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-15-2020, 09:10 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 356
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Even if you are reasonable, don't fight for more...

Even if you are reasonable, don't fight for more than you are entitled to, it can still drag on. If your ex is going to be a goof and stall things you will be on a long train ride. Pack a snack and...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-15-2020, 09:07 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 874
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I believe your short story, Paris. That's why I...

I believe your short story, Paris. That's why I said if he calls CAS what would happen is first he would have to satisfy CAS that he is able or has been protecting the children from the conflict. ...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-15-2020, 05:50 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 348
Posted By Helpmyspouse
They dont get automatically removed. You have to...

They dont get automatically removed. You have to request the finger prints to be destroyed. You will be asked to go in person and they are shredded in front of you.
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-15-2020, 05:47 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 874
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Involving CAS means you are going to have to...

Involving CAS means you are going to have to satisfy to them that yes your wife is violent but how are you keeping your kids away from the conflict? So how do you propose to do this? Because you...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-13-2020, 07:58 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 696
Posted By Helpmyspouse
You mentioned in your first post your dad is...

You mentioned in your first post your dad is emotionally abusive and was violent to your mom in the past. Nobody wants to uproot themselves and selling the family home is painful but at what cost are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-13-2020, 07:09 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 696
Posted By Helpmyspouse
It's a catch 22. Without selling my home I would...

It's a catch 22. Without selling my home I would have no money for legal fees. It's been 7 years now and still at it. With equity in the bank from the matrimonial home lawyers see dollar signs and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-12-2020, 07:41 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 696
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Angry The money will go into trust until the financials...

The money will go into trust until the financials are resolved. And herein lies the start of more crazy and chaos and more stalling. I have been at it for years since my home sold. The lawyers are...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-05-2020, 09:14 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 722
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I don't get it. You consider reconciling in the...

I don't get it. You consider reconciling in the early stages. A court process was started and it doesn't matter by whom. You both burned a shit?oad of money in legal fees and you were expecting a...
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