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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-28-2014, 01:31 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 871
Posted By MAC-JMJ
what to do when u want out and spouse doesn't?

For the past six months I have been asking my spouse for a separation agreement. Every time I speak or ask about it he gets very hostile. Breaks things around the home. I would like to remain in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-28-2014, 12:17 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 524
Posted By MAC-JMJ
need separation agreement

How do I get a my spouse to agree on a separation?
Forum: Common Law Issues 10-09-2012, 03:57 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,687
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Well she is 37, so it is not like she will not be...

Well she is 37, so it is not like she will not be able to gain employment because of age here and had formal employment 1 year ago. I just od not think she wants to now and see child support + SS as...
Forum: Common Law Issues 10-02-2012, 10:26 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,687
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Thanks for the response. Kids are 4,6 & 7. ...

Thanks for the response. Kids are 4,6 & 7.

Do you or anyone else know how to get another lawyer and terminate the one you have?

With tax I am paying $380/hr and there have been lots of...
Forum: Common Law Issues 10-01-2012, 04:51 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,687
Posted By MAC-JMJ
I hate my lawyer to be honest. I wish I could...

I hate my lawyer to be honest. I wish I could leave but feel I am too vested now and would end up spending more $$ to get another lawyer into the loop. Plus I really don't know if I can leave...
Forum: Common Law Issues 10-01-2012, 01:34 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 2,687
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Spousal Support - Length of time help

Hi all,

looking for some more advice re: Spousal Support in Ontario.

So far I have spent $12,000.00 in legal fees and we are still not fully settled yet.

Quick catch-up

Common-law 6...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-03-2012, 11:51 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,459
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Thanks Rioe, In trying to give an brief...

Thanks Rioe,

In trying to give an brief update on my situation I may have opened myself to receiving more questions. Let me see if I can be more precise.

My ex filed for seperation through...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-03-2012, 10:27 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,459
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Thanks for the response. I still currently have...

Thanks for the response. I still currently have her on and she is there till next March now.

Any advice around the credit card payout? I sent an e-mail to my lawyer (no response yet) but I am...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-02-2012, 03:51 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,459
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Both her & I are trying to settle before court...

Both her & I are trying to settle before court but why she filed, I'll never no?? We do not live together and my carrier said if it's in the CO than I can keep her on. But seriously, we've been...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-02-2012, 12:24 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,459
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Payout Debt - Good idea?

Hi all,

I have been going through a common-law seperation (not finalized as of yet) and am hoping to get some advice to this question without continuing to be charged through my lawyer.

Quick...
Forum: Common Law Issues 06-10-2011, 09:57 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 8,124
Posted By MAC-JMJ
WOW, so I got served court documents yesterday. ...

WOW, so I got served court documents yesterday. She is going for Sole custody, backdated CS + Spousal support retroactive from our date of seperation October 2009, Support for my 3 kids (which I...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-10-2011, 08:55 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 8,124
Posted By MAC-JMJ
No court order, we have just seperated and have...

No court order, we have just seperated and have verbally agreed to debts but she could not afford the mortgage so I have been paying full instead of CS (mortgage is $700 more) but I cannot keep this...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-09-2011, 04:58 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 8,124
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Thanks for the response! I definitely...

Thanks for the response!

I definitely understand what others have mentioned about mediation as for it to truly work, both parties have to have taken all emotion out of things. I am in Ontario...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-04-2011, 09:20 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 8,124
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Hi RIOE, the problem that I am facing is...

Hi RIOE,

the problem that I am facing is that my mortgage for the month is $2020 and CS would be approx $1400. So even if I pay my half and subtract her half from the CS table she would still be...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-03-2011, 01:32 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 8,124
Posted By MAC-JMJ
That is what I am saying, the only way for me to...

That is what I am saying, the only way for me to afford it plus tighten things up enough for her is to not pay my half of the mortgage and only pay 50% of the debts + full CS.

I was looking for...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-03-2011, 01:05 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 8,124
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Thanks Hammer, thoughts on the rest?

Thanks Hammer, thoughts on the rest?
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-03-2011, 10:20 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 8,124
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Thanks Rioe, At this point now I really do...

Thanks Rioe,

At this point now I really do not have any further choice so I need to take some chances in order to get things finalized here. 17 months later and I still pay the full mortgage...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-02-2011, 02:22 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 8,124
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Hammerdad, you never let me down :) So to...

Hammerdad, you never let me down :)

So to sum everything up right now I am doing #2 & #3. I cannot afford the CS because of #2 which is why I am wondering if I would be better off doing #1 & #3...
Forum: Common Law Issues 05-02-2011, 01:38 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 8,124
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Hi all, so I wanted to give you an update on what...

Hi all, so I wanted to give you an update on what has been happening and again look for some advice on my next steps. Well, I have seen two lawyers for free consultations and I have come to the...
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-22-2011, 01:30 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 8,124
Posted By MAC-JMJ
I hear you but man, she is doing the 50% + with...

I hear you but man, she is doing the 50% + with the kids as I am financially. I know the courts don't care but how can I when even now I would only get like what 10% at week ends etc. That wouldn't...
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-22-2011, 01:01 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 8,124
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Here is the 'to do list' that the mediator wrote...

Here is the 'to do list' that the mediator wrote word for word. 1) Get legal advice re: likelihood of 50/50 parenting schedule in face of rejection by mom who has been primary parent + no set...
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-22-2011, 12:45 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 8,124
Posted By MAC-JMJ
billm, I am so mad right now! Man, it was almost...

billm, I am so mad right now! Man, it was almost like the mediator was taking sides with my ex, I even called the mediator out on it. Plan and simple this session was a waste of time. I had...
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-22-2011, 11:58 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 8,124
Posted By MAC-JMJ
Update, So WOW is all I can say! I might as well...

Update, So WOW is all I can say! I might as well not even showed up! This was unreal, I asked for 50/50 shared custody and was told no, and even the mediator was like 'why would you want to change...
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-21-2011, 03:18 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,345
Posted By MAC-JMJ
We have three and because her taxable income is...

We have three and because her taxable income is so low this is why she gets a high amount. So when you figure I pay the mortgage + she receives $600 CS from previous relationship and about $200 per...
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-21-2011, 03:16 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 8,124
Posted By MAC-JMJ
So does her FT income + CS get added into the mix...

So does her FT income + CS get added into the mix of things? If I add her FT work does that mean I do not add her CTC or CS?

Thanks
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