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Forum: Financial Issues 05-27-2011, 03:43 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,637
Posted By Stressed by Ex
Check out this site...I'm going through the same...

Check out this site...I'm going through the same thing. We shouldn't be forced to pay out a lump sum!

Your Pension Rights - Financial Services Commission of Ontario...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-16-2010, 07:47 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,876
Posted By Stressed by Ex
Logicalvelocity - I read somewhere on this forum...

Logicalvelocity - I read somewhere on this forum that the only good responses given are from you. That whatever you say is reliable.

Well I'd like to add that you are extremely helpful and...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-16-2010, 07:27 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,876
Posted By Stressed by Ex
I can now research my own Case Law. Until I...

I can now research my own Case Law. Until I joined this forum, I didn't know about CANLII - guess that make me "stupid and lame".
Forum: Financial Issues 04-16-2010, 07:25 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,876
Posted By Stressed by Ex
What do you mean by send cash. I'm new to the...

What do you mean by send cash. I'm new to the forum. I thought it was free. Are you a lawyer?
Forum: Financial Issues 04-15-2010, 11:46 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,876
Posted By Stressed by Ex
Silly me and Dad to the end - my comments about...

Silly me and Dad to the end - my comments about this forum were not to be critical. I'm simply sharing how I feel about some of the responses I'm getting. Again I don't understand why people like...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-15-2010, 10:25 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,558
Posted By Stressed by Ex
Well said Logicalvelocity. And great advice. ...

Well said Logicalvelocity. And great advice.

Piggybanktoex - If you guys are in agreement, you don't need lawyers filling out a form you can both do on your own. Then you can both have it...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-15-2010, 09:58 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,876
Posted By Stressed by Ex
Logicalvelocity - thanks for your input. HE WILL...

Logicalvelocity - thanks for your input. HE WILL NOT MEDIATE. His position is well documented.

Mess and Dadtotheend - you both have jumped to huge conclusions. And you need to read the...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-15-2010, 12:47 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,876
Posted By Stressed by Ex
I woudn't and haven't brought forward the...

I woudn't and haven't brought forward the contempt action. I am always thinking about the kids. That's all it should ever be about.

As of September 2009, he has partially obeyed the order for...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-14-2010, 11:58 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,876
Posted By Stressed by Ex
Logicalvelocity - I dont' want to sell the house....

Logicalvelocity - I dont' want to sell the house. Are you stating what you would do if you were me or my Ex? I have 3 kids who don't want or need to be relocated again. I can afford to buy him out...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-14-2010, 11:28 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,876
Posted By Stressed by Ex
Contempt was because he refused to pay me my Cost...

Contempt was because he refused to pay me my Cost Award for a motion hearing held January 2007 in which I was successful in having his first lawyer removed due to a conflict of interest

He is...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-14-2010, 11:13 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,876
Posted By Stressed by Ex
I got my answer from logical velocity on the...

I got my answer from logical velocity on the Spousal support issue

I'd like have case law on the buy out of the home issue now please. The house was not fully paid. There is an o/s mortgage of...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-14-2010, 11:10 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,876
Posted By Stressed by Ex
There has been no material change. There is no...

There has been no material change. There is no fraud, mistake or lack of notice.

The issues are Child Support, Spousal Support and the value of a home purchased just 6 months before we...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-14-2010, 10:49 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,876
Posted By Stressed by Ex
Thank you. This is very helpful. He is in...

Thank you. This is very helpful.

He is in contempt of several court orders, not just Child Support.

First motion hearing was 3 years ago. I won and was awarded $25,000 in costs. His...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-14-2010, 10:23 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,558
Posted By Stressed by Ex
Nothing if you do it yourself assuming and it's...

Nothing if you do it yourself assuming and it's uncontested, otherwise you need a lawyer.

If your being asked to pay $5000 that's ridiculously high. Shop around, especially if it's uncontested -...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-14-2010, 10:12 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 7,876
Posted By Stressed by Ex
Spousal Support - help me understand please!

Please help. Need answers and please don't take this the wrong way, but I'm not looking for somone to share their own story. Need advice based on my facts.

Married 16 years - we're both in our...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-14-2010, 07:05 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 5,358
Posted By Stressed by Ex
You need to reconsider your position. Work with...

You need to reconsider your position. Work with him not against him. Don't understand why you think he's doing something to you intentionally.

By the way, I'm a woman with 3 kids and receiving...
Forum: Introductions 04-14-2010, 06:42 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,360
Posted By Stressed by Ex
I will check out "guarandamnteed". I do...

I will check out "guarandamnteed".

I do believe I will fall into the 2% statistic and then I guess I will be the first one to post about my trial experience. I hope I'm wrong, but my Ex and his...
Forum: Introductions 04-13-2010, 10:53 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,360
Posted By Stressed by Ex
Thanks to you both!! Mess - Yes I believe...

Thanks to you both!!

Mess - Yes I believe that was in fact the intention. Trying to promote settlement. And in fact we were given strong recommendation to mediate, however my Ex refuses to...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-13-2010, 09:48 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 29,187
Posted By Stressed by Ex
Mess - Yes of course it includes all of this as...

Mess - Yes of course it includes all of this as income.

My questions is:
Spousal support uses line 236 from your Income Tax Return
Child support uses line 150 from your Income Tax Return
...
Forum: Introductions 04-13-2010, 09:28 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,360
Posted By Stressed by Ex
Thanks so much for your response. Everything you...

Thanks so much for your response. Everything you explained is exactly as I understand ithings through my own research, which includes reading the SSAG.

He did not spend years supporting my...
Forum: Introductions 04-13-2010, 08:18 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,360
Posted By Stressed by Ex
I already have Custody so this is a non-issue. I...

I already have Custody so this is a non-issue. I didn't know I could cross claim for spousal support. I'm being told I make more money than he does so he has automatic entitlement.

As for the...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-13-2010, 08:05 PM
Replies: 62
Views: 29,187
Posted By Stressed by Ex
I thought for spousal support calculation don't...

I thought for spousal support calculation don't use Gross Income. According to the SSAG, I understand that you enter your Income Tax Net Income Line 236. It is the Child support table that utilizes...
Forum: Introductions 04-13-2010, 07:48 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,360
Posted By Stressed by Ex
Spousal Support Entitlement

My Ex husband is trying to get spousal support and I'm being told that he doesn't have to prove entitlement because it's an automatic calculation using supportmate software with our financial...
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