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Forum: Financial Issues 06-05-2018, 01:02 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 922
Posted By Aghast
I agree, from experience. Ex laid off 6 years ago...

I agree, from experience. Ex laid off 6 years ago but just can't seem to get a job. "Keep trying ma'am, in the meantime you're ex husband will pay your mortgage"
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-05-2018, 12:43 AM
Replies: 65
Views: 3,762
Posted By Aghast
Advice: 1. Stop referring to your children as "MY...

Advice: 1. Stop referring to your children as "MY children, MY daughter" I know where you are coming from but Judges don't like to hear that. Get into the habit of saying OUR children.


2. Ignore...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-04-2018, 11:56 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,493
Posted By Aghast
A mechanic making $22/hr? Something is amiss. ...

A mechanic making $22/hr? Something is amiss.



I don't understand people who intentionally become underemployed. They pay less support but they make less money. It doesn't make financial...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-04-2018, 11:39 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 995
Posted By Aghast
Wow. A lot of reading. So, I was in a ...

Wow. A lot of reading.


So, I was in a similar situation with son (and then daughter) but my OCL was great. So I can't help you there but I can empathize with you. (Oh, and I am a male)


...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-04-2018, 09:37 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,189
Posted By Aghast
Their clothes smelled of cannabis!!! Oh dear. ...

Their clothes smelled of cannabis!!! Oh dear.


Personally I think cigarette smoke smells far worse than cannabis. Also, you have to be SMOKING the cigarette to get the smell. Are people calling...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-04-2018, 09:04 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 367
Posted By Aghast
Thank you:)

Thank you:)
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-26-2018, 12:19 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 367
Posted By Aghast
Need some advice

Hi,

So I went to trial, self rep. I received the Judgement and the calculations are wrong. The Judge imputed an amount on my ex, all of the arrears calculations are done with the imputed amount ...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-02-2017, 02:18 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,833
Posted By Aghast
Anything drawn from the settlement trust should...

Anything drawn from the settlement trust should be counted as income.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-02-2017, 02:11 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 541
Posted By Aghast
I found the best way to understand how decisions...

I found the best way to understand how decisions are made is to read case law. Canlii.ca

Every case is different but you can always find similarities and learn from different case law.

She has...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-02-2017, 01:48 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,096
Posted By Aghast
The Judge reserved his decision so I was...

The Judge reserved his decision so I was wondering if there was anything I should do before the decision is made.


I would like to take this opportunity to give some advice that I have learned...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-31-2017, 07:27 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,513
Posted By Aghast
How old is older?

How old is older?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-31-2017, 07:22 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 706
Posted By Aghast
It is surprising what people will go to court...

It is surprising what people will go to court for. It seems as if sometimes people just want their story heard and in court they get to tell it.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-28-2017, 02:44 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 867
Posted By Aghast
$22 is all it costs? Is that just for a recording...

$22 is all it costs? Is that just for a recording or is it typed up as well? How much does it cost to have it typed up?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-28-2017, 02:19 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,096
Posted By Aghast
My time was cut short

Has anyone experienced this or know what to do about it?

I had a Motion scheduled for a couple of hours. The docket was full and other shorter Motions went ahead of us. The first part of the...
Forum: General Chat 07-28-2017, 02:07 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,762
Posted By Aghast
lol. I was thinking the same think when I was...

lol. I was thinking the same think when I was watching my wife walk down the aisle.

goes to show...trust your instincts lol
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-27-2017, 09:02 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,361
Posted By Aghast
The system is very lenient toward people who are...

The system is very lenient toward people who are not self-sufficient.

I guess the take away from this is; marry in your pay grade, and don't let anyone stay home even if their net monthly income...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-27-2017, 01:06 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,721
Posted By Aghast
guess I should update my experience. Motion was...

guess I should update my experience. Motion was adjourned to a long Motion. I had the long Motion. I WAS NERVOUS! lol, I could see my hands shaking when I took a drink of water.

Here is my advice....
Forum: Financial Issues 07-26-2017, 11:23 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,833
Posted By Aghast
:confused: I wish this was posted earlier. Damn I...

:confused: I wish this was posted earlier. Damn I could have used this. I will be putting this one away for Trial.

Do the CS guidelines specifically say that CCB is not to be used in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-23-2017, 10:54 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,361
Posted By Aghast
Since I first posted this thread, I have done a...

Since I first posted this thread, I have done a lot more case law reading. I have seen different interpretations of this clause.

Some interpret it as enough money until they get back on their...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-23-2017, 10:47 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 478
Posted By Aghast
Use Supreme Court case law from other provinces....

Use Supreme Court case law from other provinces. If it deals with federal law, Divorce Act for example, then it is relevant to every province.

Another thing that a lawyer told me to do; there is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-23-2017, 10:36 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,305
Posted By Aghast
Were the changes minor? Or did they change the...

Were the changes minor? Or did they change the spirit of the order?

If it was minor, or something that should have been there, then do nothing.

If it was underhanded and could cause you damages...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-23-2017, 10:24 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 631
Posted By Aghast
If it is different than what you signed then...

If it is different than what you signed then raise the issue. If you signed something you didn't read....

Unfortunately this won't help you freckles but for everyone else.
READ WHAT YOU ARE...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-23-2017, 10:14 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 608
Posted By Aghast
Disclaimer: I am not an expert. I am not a...

Disclaimer: I am not an expert. I am not a lawyer. I am just going through this now and this is what I have gathered from my case law research.

Spousal support. What a tangled web.

Spousal...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-23-2017, 09:38 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 563
Posted By Aghast
I am not an expert, however I am dealing with...

I am not an expert, however I am dealing with potential arrears dated back to 2012. It hasn't been heard yet so I can only talk about what I have read.

My understanding is that there is no...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-11-2017, 10:36 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 705
Posted By Aghast
If he closes the business, does she have a case...

If he closes the business, does she have a case of underemployment? After all, he is making 10k less than his capability.
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