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Forum: Financial Issues 03-13-2013, 09:06 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,116
Posted By ruby
I meant ex

I meant ex
Forum: Financial Issues 03-13-2013, 09:03 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,116
Posted By ruby
My husband clearly tries to pull a fast one over...

My husband clearly tries to pull a fast one over me. I just need to be know the real deal.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-13-2013, 09:01 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,116
Posted By ruby
Thank You so much for responding back to me.Sorry...

Thank You so much for responding back to me.Sorry for not being clear.If my 20 year old resides with her father and works fulltime/part time and does not attend school do I have to still pay child...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-12-2013, 05:30 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,116
Posted By ruby
My ex has also reduced my monthly payments, since...

My ex has also reduced my monthly payments, since it was not a court order and decided upon in our lawyers office.Does it still need to go through the court process? I wish not to involve the courts....
Forum: General Chat 03-04-2013, 09:02 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 600
Posted By ruby
landmark seminars

has anyone taken the landmark seminars? My 20 year old daughter gave me an ultimatum to take the 3 day seminar if we were to have any relationship.
It was life changing for me.It gave me back my...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-19-2013, 09:20 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 984
Posted By ruby
I have to then fill out all the financials?My...

I have to then fill out all the financials?My payment started in December, Im all paid up, but definantely need a reduction- my son will be back in the cityin June then I pay 645 for two kids. why...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-19-2013, 09:10 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 984
Posted By ruby
can you explain a motion of consent.

can you explain a motion of consent.
Forum: Financial Issues 02-19-2013, 09:08 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 984
Posted By ruby
My ex has an contact at fro or a assigned case...

My ex has an contact at fro or a assigned case worker.He didnt need it since I ended up paying the full amount to shut him up.Now that Iam seeking an adjustment is that fro worker my worker too.
Who...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-12-2013, 10:08 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 889
Posted By ruby
is this considered full time schooling?l

is mon-thursday two university courses considered full time? my 20 year old just switched university thats all shes taking until September.

I pay CS is it considered full time?

what is the...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-12-2013, 10:02 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,109
Posted By ruby
what does it mean to have cs be adjusted every...

what does it mean to have cs be adjusted every year what does that entail? I bet that I stil make more than him- however he did take a two week trip to italy and he did put hardwood flooring in the...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-12-2013, 10:00 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,109
Posted By ruby
I didnt understand your answer to question number...

I didnt understand your answer to question number 2?? she 20, goes to university mon-thurs evenings taking two courses.
also if shes with me one week do I still pay support in full
Forum: Financial Issues 02-12-2013, 09:53 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 984
Posted By ruby
my ex has registered with fro.he is willing to...

my ex has registered with fro.he is willing to negotiate.I would obviously want to stay out of court,but I am not making the $60000 I once was.What should I do ?
Forum: Financial Issues 02-12-2013, 01:39 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 984
Posted By ruby
child support reduction

If Iam asking for Child Support reduction is it enough that I bring in my income tax pay stubs, to show that I earn a lower amount or do I have to fill out the financial document sheet- similar to...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-12-2013, 01:29 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,109
Posted By ruby
child support

I have 4 questions,

1. my 20 year old daughter is taking her time getting a university education- she tells me 3 more years since she is short courses for her bachelor. until what age do I pay...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-12-2013, 01:18 PM
Replies: 80
Views: 8,463
Posted By ruby
i lived in our matrimonial basement for 8 months...

i lived in our matrimonial basement for 8 months before moving out.my 3 kids werent talking to me at the time- it was terribly painful since I was the one to end the marriage.
Practise self care,...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-25-2013, 06:57 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,167
Posted By ruby
can you help answer my question?

can someone please tell me, does my 21 year old daughter need to be in school in order for me to collect child support payments.she has taken the year off to travel after completing two years of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-14-2012, 11:28 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 913
Posted By ruby
I continued to live in the matrimonial home for 6...

I continued to live in the matrimonial home for 6 months, my lawyer said that I was entitled.It was terrible.I moved to the basement and was invisable.Although I prepared meals when I was home- their...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-14-2012, 10:25 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 913
Posted By ruby
I contemplated leaving my husband for 7...

I contemplated leaving my husband for 7 years.Although a good man, and father, he was no partner.I was alone and very sad.He found photos of me and my male friend at that time,and asked for a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-14-2012, 10:16 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 913
Posted By ruby
Trust that many letters and apologies have gone...

Trust that many letters and apologies have gone out to my children.Immiediately following the breakup of the marriage my ex was not working and had just completed a 150000 reno on our home.I was...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-14-2012, 09:56 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 913
Posted By ruby
who knew divorce would be so painful

Although I have no regrets in leaving my marriage of 21 years, the pain that my children 21,19,17 continue to feel is heartbreaking.
In many ways I have made very small strides with my 17 year old...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2012, 09:40 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,055
Posted By ruby
Thank You. The support amount was based on each...

Thank You. The support amount was based on each of us earning $60.000, that has changed for me. Also he is remarried with 3 other children residing in his home,how do I know the money will be spent...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2012, 12:18 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,055
Posted By ruby
how does this work

My child support payment was done up through mediation in my lawyers office,with all parties present.There is a clause that states if there is catastrphic change- as in a job loss, or income loss, we...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-23-2011, 01:30 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,425
Posted By ruby
OMG. this is a sample of what i recieved in terms...

OMG. this is a sample of what i recieved in terms if the wording.It appears that solicitor / client relationship has broken down, as you mention..( here she refers to my comment about my daughter and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-23-2011, 12:26 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,425
Posted By ruby
Im in the social services field.so if a client...

Im in the social services field.so if a client tells me that i offered poor advice, i would process with them, and explain why this was offered, and also hear out the client.maybe I missed something...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-23-2011, 12:23 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,425
Posted By ruby
actually there is not more to it. in my reply...

actually there is not more to it. in my reply letter to the settlement, I did raise other issues. But it was this comment that she took offense to?
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