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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-26-2020, 09:54 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 633
Posted By iona6656
You would not believe the amount of family...

You would not believe the amount of family members [mostly nosy aunts and uncles- not immediate family. thank goodness]- messaging me saying I shouldn't send my daughter....silly. Her dad and I have...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-24-2020, 12:36 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 207
Posted By iona6656
no uncloaking is allowed. lawyers are still bound...

no uncloaking is allowed. lawyers are still bound by all professional ethics that we were before. our insurance does not allow us to give out advice willy-nilly.

but a support group is still a...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-24-2020, 10:38 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 250
Posted By iona6656
Accompanied by evidence right? like a redacted...

Accompanied by evidence right? like a redacted copy of a letter or email from your employer?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2020, 05:39 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 2,311
Posted By iona6656
Nearly everything you post on here reeks of...

Nearly everything you post on here reeks of control and abuse.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2020, 05:34 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 2,311
Posted By iona6656
yikes. from what I remember from your other...

yikes. from what I remember from your other posts- this doesn't surprise me. Dad is a nutjob.

Do you guys parallel parent?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-18-2020, 10:28 AM
Replies: 81
Views: 2,311
Posted By iona6656
I have the same concerns here as you- as does my...

I have the same concerns here as you- as does my ex (we both currently live with our parents) who's mom is 84 and has COPD. My parents are both 67 and my mom is immuno compromised....so I think it's...
Forum: Divorce Support 03-16-2020, 04:38 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 509
Posted By iona6656
All of this. Report when the violence happens- to...

All of this. Report when the violence happens- to the police. Your priority here is to protect the kids. And you will likely need exclusive possession, a no contact order AND supervised visits. Do...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-16-2020, 04:32 PM
Replies: 36
Views: 985
Posted By iona6656
here's a wacky question to the OP- how are the...

here's a wacky question to the OP- how are the extra nights affecting the kids? you live in a different city- but how far? Does it work for them to be with you on Sunday nights?

Could YOU move...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-10-2020, 01:24 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 770
Posted By iona6656
You know what drives me bonkers about everyone...

You know what drives me bonkers about everyone complaining in this thread? Actually just LD- YOU married the person. You had children with this person. And both parents are responsible for the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-27-2020, 10:33 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 636
Posted By iona6656
ding ding ding. this is exactly what I...

ding ding ding.

this is exactly what I think. There is middle ground- and I think one judge would be able to get the whole story.

And even with abusers- I hope my story is one which shows that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-25-2020, 03:46 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 636
Posted By iona6656
.....sarcasm?

.....sarcasm?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-25-2020, 03:45 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 636
Posted By iona6656
Agree with the joint counselling- however, there...

Agree with the joint counselling- however, there has to be a screening process to determine whether there is an abusive dynamic. It doesn't help the situation to put an abuser and a victim in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-25-2020, 12:56 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 636
Posted By iona6656
I hope we'll see more of an intersection between...

I hope we'll see more of an intersection between the criminal courts and family courts. There are a few of these combined courts in Ontario- but I'd like to see more. That the same judge can preside...
Forum: General Chat 02-20-2020, 04:51 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 279
Posted By iona6656
It must be horrible to be a male in this society....

It must be horrible to be a male in this society. I don't know HOW you guys do it. Good lord. And if you're white, it must be doubly hard.
Forum: Political Issues 02-20-2020, 04:49 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 471
Posted By iona6656
how would you prove that?

how would you prove that?
Forum: Political Issues 02-14-2020, 10:58 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 2,205
Posted By iona6656
Yeah- here's the thing- the "learned" judges-...

Yeah- here's the thing- the "learned" judges- aren't the ones I trust on whether a person's propensity for violence makes them a capable parent. This is idea "well he/she was only abusive to the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-13-2020, 01:35 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 371
Posted By iona6656
He won't get 50/50. I'll eat my shorts if the...

He won't get 50/50. I'll eat my shorts if the family court doesn't say "go finish your criminal matter". But I'd be super interested to hear how this plays out for the OP.
Forum: Political Issues 02-13-2020, 01:20 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 2,205
Posted By iona6656
really. you expect anyone to take you seriously...

really. you expect anyone to take you seriously when you casually throw this out there?

so where's the line? dad can casually slap mother...but maybe not strangle her? what about calling her...
Forum: Political Issues 02-13-2020, 01:17 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 2,205
Posted By iona6656
+1 on all of this. However, people lying...

+1 on all of this.

However, people lying about abuse allegations is not the point of this thread.

LovingDad- you proved your own point. Patently false accusations tend to come out over the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-13-2020, 01:10 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 362
Posted By iona6656
I would stay away from Russell Alexander lawyers-...

I would stay away from Russell Alexander lawyers- they have a good reputation. But I found them terrible.
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-30-2020, 08:42 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 571
Posted By iona6656
overseas travel consent

What I think is that it sounds like dad is playing gatekeeper. 2 days extra is*such* a concession? Really? You should tell him to let it go and wish the kids some fun and give them some souvenir...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-29-2020, 04:47 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 502
Posted By iona6656
I thought they were only 12k apart. If that's the...

I thought they were only 12k apart. If that's the case. Wouldn't it be stupid to try for offset?
Forum: Divorce Support 01-29-2020, 04:45 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 184
Posted By iona6656
Strangers on the internet are not going to get...

Strangers on the internet are not going to get through to you.

Who is? Seriously. Speak to someone. A therapist. A friend. Your parents.

You know what- speak to your kids. Ask them how this...
Forum: Divorce Support 01-29-2020, 04:41 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 756
Posted By iona6656
I'm happy for you. But also I feel his pain on...

I'm happy for you. But also I feel his pain on just having to eat it when it comes to the financials. The relief of being done with the litigation DOES outweigh having to just accept your ex is ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 04:12 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,079
Posted By iona6656
It happens all the time. It shouldn't but it...

It happens all the time. It shouldn't but it does. If the clause is challenged- then it probably wouldn't hold up.

But for 12K difference in salary, let it go.

People re-marry other people...
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