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Forum: General Chat 01-18-2021, 12:38 PM
Replies: 9
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Posted By Stillbreathing
Canthisberight what you are going through with 3...

Canthisberight what you are going through with 3 year delay is perfectly normal. Now imagine you were in my shoes, with litigation having delayed any settlement whatsoever in any way shape or form...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-12-2021, 11:59 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 339
Posted By Stillbreathing
There are several things you can do. You can get...

There are several things you can do. You can get a new lawyer for much less. Many lawyer will give you a 30 minute consultation for free. They can give you advice regarding your options.

You can...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-09-2021, 11:05 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,457
Posted By Stillbreathing
Totally agree with Rockscan. Get a therapist. The...

Totally agree with Rockscan. Get a therapist. The emotional pain is only going to get worse as you move forward and transition into your new life. You are grieving the loss of your marriage and will...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-20-2020, 04:24 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,177
Posted By Stillbreathing
You could ask a family Court judge for a...

You could ask a family
Court judge for a restraining order prohibiting her from contacting your children’s school, sports teams, doctors, etc although the courts are reluctant to grant such an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-20-2020, 04:10 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 128
Posted By Stillbreathing
You can’t use what your child told you in court....

You can’t use what your child told you in court. It’s considered hearsay. It may also be that your child is telling you what he thinks you want to hear. Children have been known to do this....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-07-2020, 11:37 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 225
Posted By Stillbreathing
I have had to go self rep several times and have...

I have had to go self rep several times and have used the same lawyer each time. They give me my entire file downloaded onto a flash drive ( not a paper copy). That’s because it’s 10 years worth of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-06-2020, 04:55 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 225
Posted By Stillbreathing
They give you a copy and they keep a copy.

They give you a copy and they keep a copy.
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-11-2020, 09:27 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 541
Posted By Stillbreathing
Why on earth are you seeing a therapist WITH your...

Why on earth are you seeing a therapist WITH your ex? The only reason you might want to consider therapy is if the two of you can’t get along to co-parent in a civil manner. Even then you should not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-08-2020, 07:36 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,633
Posted By Stillbreathing
Remember supervised access is supposed to be a...

Remember supervised access is supposed to be a temporary thing unless there are extenuating circumstances as in my case. My ex has permanent supervised access because he himself needs supervision for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-08-2020, 04:57 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,633
Posted By Stillbreathing
It’s best to have a 3rd party neutral supervisor...

It’s best to have a 3rd party neutral supervisor such as a priest or minister or other neutral party (not a family member from either side). Yes it is possible to get an order for a member from his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-08-2020, 02:34 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,633
Posted By Stillbreathing
Domestic violence charges will have an...

Domestic violence charges will have an instantaneous and immediate negative effect on access, resulting in either no contact with the children or supervised access if children are present during the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-08-2020, 11:11 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,057
Posted By Stillbreathing
Lorely, what does your question have to do with...

Lorely, what does your question have to do with the OP’s ? Nothing! Don’t hijack somebody else’s thread. If you want to ask questions about your situation then start your own thread.

Now...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-07-2020, 11:49 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,633
Posted By Stillbreathing
You do keep demonizing the other parent in your...

You do keep demonizing the other parent in your responses above. The other parent’s actions have nothing to do with your brother’s actions. Period. You are attempting to minimize and dismiss what he...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-07-2020, 10:19 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 1,633
Posted By Stillbreathing
First and foremost your brother assaulted his...

First and foremost your brother assaulted his wife. You say he did this in response to her trying to pull his daughter out of her arms. His wife’s inappropriate behaviour does not excuse his. He got...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-04-2020, 05:34 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 402
Posted By Stillbreathing
I agree with tilt and add to that, why does the...

I agree with tilt and add to that, why does the judge even bother commenting on this problem if they aren’t going to do anything about it? Sort of like an emergency surgeon looking at the CAT scan...
Forum: Political Issues 10-31-2020, 12:36 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,187
Posted By Stillbreathing
Totally agree with what Livingdad1234 said above....

Totally agree with what Livingdad1234 said above. However the flip side is that even when you have corroboration from multiple sources, nueropsychologists(3), physiatrists(2), world renown brain...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-28-2020, 04:30 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 327
Posted By Stillbreathing
Are you in mediation or med/arb? It shouldn’t...

Are you in mediation or med/arb? It shouldn’t look negative on you because you can not fairly negotiate the terms of your settlement until all the cards are on the table (AKA full disclosure). You...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-28-2020, 01:23 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 327
Posted By Stillbreathing
What Rocksan said. Both parties need to be...

What Rocksan said. Both parties need to be willing to co-operate and come to the table with “clean hands “. This includes being honest and forthright with disclosure and other requests, a willingness...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-28-2020, 11:13 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 327
Posted By Stillbreathing
Agree with Rocksan. If your ex is high conflict...

Agree with Rocksan. If your ex is high conflict or non-cooperative with disclosure then get the hell out of mediation unless you have foolishly signed up for med/arb like I did. Then I would force...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-23-2020, 10:10 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 125
Posted By Stillbreathing
We spent almost 7 years in court litigation then...

We spent almost 7 years in court litigation then my lawyer talked me into trying med/arb, swearing up and down it would be faster and cheaper. He said med/arb would be done within 3 months. Yes it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-23-2020, 05:08 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 125
Posted By Stillbreathing
Med/Arb pergatory

My lawyer sold me on trying med/arb because he said it would be significantly cheaper and faster. In fact he told me it could be said and done and over with in 3 months time. Well guess what? It’s...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-20-2020, 12:34 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 252
Posted By Stillbreathing
I don’t know how things work in BC and can only...

I don’t know how things work in BC and can only give you an example from my own experience in Ontario.
My lawyer and I asked for an urgent motion in December of 2015 because the dark side had been...
Forum: Parenting Issues 10-06-2020, 10:27 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 431
Posted By Stillbreathing
Remember that anything the assessor says or puts...

Remember that anything the assessor says or puts into writing are recommendations only. Take it all with a grain of salt. If you disagree with their recommendations they can not be implemented until...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-01-2020, 11:30 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 368
Posted By Stillbreathing
It can be a high hill to climb to show that a...

It can be a high hill to climb to show that a person can no longer work due to medical issues. My ex has been deemed to be catastrophically brain damaged in another court and awarded a multimillion...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-01-2020, 11:15 AM
Replies: 56
Views: 3,174
Posted By Stillbreathing
Good for you. You are doing the right thing. You...

Good for you. You are doing the right thing. You could ask for custody of your child and that your ex sees her every second weekend if she insists on moving. Plus if she is the one moving she could ...
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