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Forum: Financial Issues 09-26-2020, 11:05 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 72
Posted By Selfrepmom
Income will be imputed at whatever they have been...

Income will be imputed at whatever they have been capable of making in the past, unless they can present a valid reason why they are no longer able to make that much. But yes, at least minimum wage. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2020, 08:21 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 206
Posted By Selfrepmom
“No permission required to travel” can be...

“No permission required to travel” can be interpreted as just not needing a note to cross borders. Passports can be a different story. Unless there is something in your order that explicitly...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2020, 07:05 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 206
Posted By Selfrepmom
That’s pretty normal. My partner’s ex has...

That’s pretty normal. My partner’s ex has sole custody and he still had to sign for his daughter’s passport.
When crossing borders you will even want to have a signed letter from your ex...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-11-2020, 07:24 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 197
Posted By Selfrepmom
To answer your first question, it has to be...

To answer your first question, it has to be really bad for a judge to take away court ordered access time from a parent after 3+ years of status quo. Some of the complaints you have sound more like a...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-02-2020, 08:23 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 152
Posted By Selfrepmom
January?? Yikes!!! I called yesterday (only...

January?? Yikes!!!

I called yesterday (only on a 5 minute hold yay!) and was told they were super backed up and it would probably take about 30-60 days to process. Faxed the form in on Monday....
Forum: Financial Issues 08-29-2020, 09:27 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 152
Posted By Selfrepmom
Anyone have experience re-filing?

Does anyone here have first hand (preferably recent) experience re-filing a child support order with FRO that was voluntarily withdrawn when the order was made?
In particular, how long did it take...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-28-2020, 11:59 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,170
Posted By Selfrepmom
Considering dad says he only has an interim order...

Considering dad says he only has an interim order for access atm, sounds like theyre right in the thick of litigation. So ya, Im guessing things have been a bit heated lately
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-28-2020, 11:45 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,170
Posted By Selfrepmom
Am I the only one that thinks that is over the...

Am I the only one that thinks that is over the top?? Ya maybe if mom had contacted him as a normal human being and said hey, really concerned about public transit, can we figure out a different...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-28-2020, 07:26 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,170
Posted By Selfrepmom
I wouldnt even justify those texts with an...

I wouldnt even justify those texts with an answer. Just show up on Sunday for pick up time, if she is a no show then document (via email not text) and if she replies to you via email that she plans...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-22-2020, 05:42 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 569
Posted By Selfrepmom
COVID Vacation Court Ruling

Just came across this interesting article.

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https://apple.news/AyNCIgdXGQcuwMQshe5VhtQ
Forum: Financial Issues 07-20-2020, 05:04 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 661
Posted By Selfrepmom
Oooo ya and make sure the nanny is smokin hot so...

Oooo ya and make sure the nanny is smokin hot so hes extremely tempted to cheat. Then once he cheats and you inevitably file for divorce he might be less likely to fight you in court because of the...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-20-2020, 03:00 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 661
Posted By Selfrepmom
This is by far the most entertaining thread on...

This is by far the most entertaining thread on here in a long time lol

As a side note, and along the same lines as one of the OPs questions:
Out of genuine curiosity, if two people get married...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-30-2020, 12:36 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 627
Posted By Selfrepmom
This is actually the norm. Most people dont...

This is actually the norm. Most people dont realize this.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-27-2020, 08:11 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 734
Posted By Selfrepmom
Im getting a couple of vibes from this post.... ...

Im getting a couple of vibes from this post....

1 - Perhaps OP did have to badger the dad to take the kid in the past sometimes. My first thought though is that someone...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-12-2020, 09:28 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 220
Posted By Selfrepmom
Under Ontarios Succession Law Reform Act if your...

Under Ontarios Succession Law Reform Act if your ex dies without a will and has remarried then the majority of his estate will go to his new wife believe it or not. New wife gets the first $200,000...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-11-2020, 08:13 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 250
Posted By Selfrepmom
If its on your exs time, they get to choose...

If its on your exs time, they get to choose what your kid does. Unless they want your help in paying for it, then they would need your consent as well. Vice versa for your time. You can pick any...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-30-2020, 06:17 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 908
Posted By Selfrepmom
I dont. I think when we first separated I would...

I dont. I think when we first separated I would call on the second night usually, but I havent done that in ages.
For reference, she is with her dad EOW for 2 nights and is 5 going on 6.

I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-24-2020, 08:15 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 360
Posted By Selfrepmom
Material Change

Out of curiosity: What constitutes a material change in order to justify a final order change from joint to sole custody? Anybody here have experience with this?
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-23-2020, 07:34 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 545
Posted By Selfrepmom
There is no rule that says you cant hire a...

There is no rule that says you cant hire a babysitter to come to your home/send your child to a babysitters home right now. It might be a little more difficult to find one, yes, but you are still...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-09-2020, 07:55 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,620
Posted By Selfrepmom
While maybe not a full on scam, he definitely...

While maybe not a full on scam, he definitely threw the idea of forum members donating to his cause out there
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-09-2020, 07:45 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 496
Posted By Selfrepmom
This guy has shown his cards. Hes not going to...

This guy has shown his cards. Hes not going to start coming around again to see his kid unfortunately. Time to leave those dreams in the past.
If I were you I would:
1) Drop all contact with the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-18-2020, 04:43 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 254
Posted By Selfrepmom
Do they do drivers license and passport at the...

Do they do drivers license and passport at the same time? I think the passport might be a bigger motivator for my ex and his semi-annual all inclusive vacations
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-18-2020, 11:12 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 254
Posted By Selfrepmom
Talk of Summary Judgement/Pleadings Being Struck

For those that have been following:

I had a second SC last week as per the judges endorsement from my October motion, to deal with ongoing support and arrears (for those that dont recall, the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-15-2020, 12:58 PM
Replies: 56
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Views: 3,409
Posted By Selfrepmom
Ummmm.... sorry to burst your bubble on this one...

Ummmm.... sorry to burst your bubble on this one but cheerleading is about as close to dance and gymnastics as you can possibly get. Actually, its basically a direct combination of the both. That...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-14-2020, 09:44 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 600
Posted By Selfrepmom
Is she trying to argue that he makes more than he...

Is she trying to argue that he makes more than he actually does, or just that she is entitled to certain costs that shes actually not?

If shes just arguing for certain costs that he doesnt have...
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