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Forum: Parenting Issues 03-25-2022, 04:18 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 1,206
Posted By helenj
Ha! What a load of croc! I don't know which plant...

Ha! What a load of croc! I don't know which plant you're living on, but 90% of Father's get screwed in every way imaginable.

The ones who do get "lucky" is because their ex-wives are kind of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-03-2022, 08:58 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 328
Posted By helenj
Thank you - seems like a fair answer.

Thank you - seems like a fair answer.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-03-2022, 08:33 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 328
Posted By helenj
I tried VERY hard to settle but they just don't...

I tried VERY hard to settle but they just don't want to. On the other side, she admitted today that her concerns regarding my mental health was more around "irritability" more than anything.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-03-2022, 07:33 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 328
Posted By helenj
How bad is this?

So i'm in the middle of trial.

We provide some texts to the other party but then my lawyer finds out that there are some texts missing and believes it's intentional.

Anyways, she's upset enough...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2022, 03:54 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 909
Posted By helenj
Hi, thanks for your response. To answer your...

Hi, thanks for your response. To answer your questions.

1. If I consent to no overnights, I will need to wait for a "material change of circumstance" to get overnights. Or wait 3-4 years until...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-10-2022, 10:55 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 909
Posted By helenj
Guys, There is 2 weeks left before we go...

Guys,

There is 2 weeks left before we go into trial and still ex is refusing overnights.

I really need input from ANYONE if my case is likely to succeed on getting overnights or not, otherwise...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2022, 06:08 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 265
Posted By helenj
CanLii Filter between Motions and Trials

Hi all,

I'm trying to filter between motions and/or endorsements and trial for family law cases.

Is there a search query or filter that can help with this? At the moment I'm going through them...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2022, 02:56 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 909
Posted By helenj
That's a great point I will ask my lawyer. I...

That's a great point I will ask my lawyer.

I don't think I can delay nor do I want to as it's been 3 years in legal battle.

What are your thoughts if I go to trial as everything stands right...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-27-2022, 02:53 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 909
Posted By helenj
Can you elaborate on your response? Would love to...

Can you elaborate on your response? Would love to get your thoughts as I've seen your previous posts where you have a good knowledge base.

Thanks
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2022, 10:26 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 909
Posted By helenj
I proposed a gradual build up to every other...

I proposed a gradual build up to every other weekend and a mid-week visit on Tuesdays and Thursdays over the course of 4 months. I live 5 minutes away from her.

What parenting plan should I offer...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2022, 06:41 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 909
Posted By helenj
You're right. My lawyer has said same thing...

You're right. My lawyer has said same thing actually lol.

How can I settle if she's not settling? I already gave her sole custody and am only asking for overnights, which she's refusing. She's...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-26-2022, 05:22 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 909
Posted By helenj
No Overnights? Trial upcoming.

Hi all,

I've given an offer to settle to my ex so she can have sole custody and I can have every other weekend with overnights. For the past 2 years I've been seeing the kids supervised and no...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-20-2022, 07:26 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 287
Posted By helenj
Material change to Child Support

Hi all,

I want to include the below in my offer, but my lawyer doesn't think it's necessary.

Would love your thoughts!

70. A material change in the condition, means, needs or other...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2021, 02:46 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 533
Posted By helenj
Before making any final decision in their area of...

Before making any final decision in their area of decision-making each party shall inform the other of their intended decision. They shall consult with one another in regards to any and all major...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-09-2021, 04:48 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 555
Posted By helenj
What I usually do is put names in quotes, like...

What I usually do is put names in quotes, like this

"John doe" or "Alex baldwin"

It will force the search engine to match the exact phrase in the quotations.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-23-2021, 02:28 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 842
Posted By helenj
Yes, this forum is quite amazing. I am a member...

Yes, this forum is quite amazing. I am a member of several other websites, and there is nothing as unique as this site, in-part thanks to members like yourself.

I will get started on this case...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-22-2021, 10:42 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 842
Posted By helenj
Thank you for citing the case! I'm going to look...

Thank you for citing the case! I'm going to look it up and send her the case. I've had some trust issues with this lawyer on several things and am considering a change of counsel, although my trial...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-22-2021, 08:02 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 842
Posted By helenj
Hi all and thanks for response. This was my...

Hi all and thanks for response. This was my lawyer's response:

Joint decision making I think will be difficult to obtain at trial, but not impossible. One of the requirements for true joint...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-21-2021, 08:47 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 842
Posted By helenj
Thank you - just asked my lawyer for advice. ...

Thank you - just asked my lawyer for advice.

Historically, I was equally involved in my children's lives until my ex walked into the police station over 2 years ago.

It just seems crazy I can...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-20-2021, 09:27 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 842
Posted By helenj
Sole vs. Joint Custody?

Hi all,

-False domestic violence criminal charges have been stayed (withdrawn) after 2 years due to a technicality. We did go to trial but due to an unforeseen circumstance (not due to her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-13-2021, 01:02 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,087
Posted By helenj
Hi, I told my family lawyer I do NOT want to...

Hi,

I told my family lawyer I do NOT want to do a motion as I don't have $10k lying around to pay for a motion. I am really looking for a resolution and I am saying just let's agree to every...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-12-2021, 02:17 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,087
Posted By helenj
While you may be very knowledgeable, there are a...

While you may be very knowledgeable, there are a few knots and bolts you're not seeing as to how the criminal justice system works. I can tell you that because I've lived it for several years years....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2021, 11:14 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,087
Posted By helenj
lol...ok there...you know everything....being...

lol...ok there...you know everything....being charged doesn't mean anything. Only if you're found guilty is a person guilty. Even then there are mistakes that happen and they find out 40 years...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2021, 06:49 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,087
Posted By helenj
Yes, there is false allegations of domestic...

Yes, there is false allegations of domestic violence. I am being quoted for around $5000+ for mediation with my lawyer being present.

What's the big push to do mediation BEFORE offer to settle?...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2021, 12:24 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,087
Posted By helenj
I have been assumed guilty until proven innocent...

I have been assumed guilty until proven innocent in family court. Even know they're saying I'm guilty and just because I'm not convicted, it doesn't mean I'm innocent. It's a sad state of affairs....
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