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Forum: Financial Issues 04-24-2022, 05:26 PM
Replies: 18
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how long were you living together total?

how long were you living together total?
Forum: Financial Issues 04-24-2022, 03:07 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 408
what does she want? I would suggest to her that...

what does she want? I would suggest to her that you sell the house you are in now, split whatever profit/loss and go your own way. Not legal advice at all but you do need a starting point.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-22-2022, 08:16 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 367
the decision making is joint with a resolution...

the decision making is joint with a resolution process to go through. He cannot just make the call himself. You cannot compare buying clothes etc with a medical decision. Flu shots etc are medical so...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2022, 08:26 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,054
once the son sees that threatening self-harm to...

once the son sees that threatening self-harm to get out of something works, he will try it with other stuff he doesnt want to do.

If he threatens to harm himself if you make him go to school (say...
Forum: General Chat 02-06-2022, 01:19 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,230
That is a really good question..my ex is still...

That is a really good question..my ex is still alive and we are legally separated, not divorced. I am really curious about this also.
Forum: Divorce Support 01-28-2022, 06:33 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 289
I would forget about it. It would just drag out...

I would forget about it. It would just drag out the whole divorce. Your daughter has both her bio parents in the picture.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-13-2022, 07:07 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 494
not everything deserves a reaction from you. ...

not everything deserves a reaction from you.

You cannot control things at your exs house so, unless the child is in danger, stop trying to.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-11-2022, 03:33 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 1,463
It's up to your ex to prove his allegations...all...

It's up to your ex to prove his allegations...all you have to say is that you disagree and the child is just there for before and after school care.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-09-2022, 10:35 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 440
he would just have to follow all the steps for...

he would just have to follow all the steps for divorce. She will eventually smarten up and reply. She can put her head in the sand but it will eventually work against her.

Has he did his...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-09-2022, 09:52 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 440
he has a lawyer so why isnt he sending an offer...

he has a lawyer so why isnt he sending an offer to settle? She doesnt have to move out yet and he cannot just list the house for sale unless she agrees to it or it is ordered.
Forum: Financial Issues 12-30-2021, 03:51 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,054
I thought that SS was only tax deductable when it...

I thought that SS was only tax deductable when it was a monthly payment?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-23-2021, 03:48 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 416
its your case so you should be up to speed with...

its your case so you should be up to speed with the file. A new lawyer has never seen the file.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-06-2021, 06:04 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 890
it isnt based on your paystub, it is based on you...

it isnt based on your paystub, it is based on you tax return
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-31-2021, 01:45 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,021
first off I would always ask for more than you...

first off I would always ask for more than you expect to get. That way, they feel they go the better of you when you get less,but still get what you wanted or very close to it
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2021, 10:34 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,752
he can do it and I am surprised he never did it...

he can do it and I am surprised he never did it earlier.


Like rockscan said, you are being and have been unreasonable.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-14-2021, 06:24 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,861
you cannot dictate what the CS is spent on... ...

you cannot dictate what the CS is spent on...

Honestly you are being very unrealistic with everything. Just pay the CS to be recalculated each year at a certain time. Keeps things simple.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-04-2021, 06:46 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 781
my ex is under sunlife and as long as we are not...

my ex is under sunlife and as long as we are not divorced he can keep me on his benefits.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-29-2021, 06:45 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,025
he would not have to deal with a bully (though I...

he would not have to deal with a bully (though I cannot see how she is bullying) if he would just be prepared and get it over with.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-25-2021, 04:00 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 589
as long as you and your ex agree then you can...

as long as you and your ex agree then you can keep costs down.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-20-2021, 06:21 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 747
are there kids and property involved? Is someone...

are there kids and property involved? Is someone wanting SS or something? You cannot just bypass a step and go directly to divorce. Did the other party send a counter offer back?
Forum: Financial Issues 07-14-2021, 09:18 AM
Replies: 37
Views: 3,324
going after everything she can from the ex...she...

going after everything she can from the ex...she has a boyfriend to support you know...:D
Forum: Financial Issues 07-13-2021, 05:05 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 3,324
you will have to take it to court to settle the...

you will have to take it to court to settle the matter. He has given you a certain amount for SS and you accepted it. I think most people would do what he did when confronted with a gold-digger,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-13-2021, 04:35 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 396
May I also add. Do not sign anything thinking...

May I also add.
Do not sign anything thinking that later when you have more money, you will get it changed.

Make a list of what you want, deal breakers and thing the you can say you want but...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-11-2021, 01:47 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,221
when a child goes away for school there are other...

when a child goes away for school there are other expenses that are paid like staying in residence or whatever. You are comparing two different things. When they go to school it is more than just a...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-02-2021, 09:36 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,720
Just breathe...you are in a pretty good position...

Just breathe...you are in a pretty good position to get sole custody of the girls due to her actions..Get moving on this as quick as possible.
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