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Forum: General Chat 02-20-2020, 05:51 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 167
Posted By iona6656
It must be horrible to be a male in this society....

It must be horrible to be a male in this society. I don't know HOW you guys do it. Good lord. And if you're white, it must be doubly hard.
Forum: Political Issues 02-20-2020, 05:49 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 124
Posted By iona6656
how would you prove that?

how would you prove that?
Forum: Political Issues 02-14-2020, 11:58 AM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,940
Posted By iona6656
Yeah- here's the thing- the "learned" judges-...

Yeah- here's the thing- the "learned" judges- aren't the ones I trust on whether a person's propensity for violence makes them a capable parent. This is idea "well he/she was only abusive to the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-13-2020, 02:35 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 289
Posted By iona6656
He won't get 50/50. I'll eat my shorts if the...

He won't get 50/50. I'll eat my shorts if the family court doesn't say "go finish your criminal matter". But I'd be super interested to hear how this plays out for the OP.
Forum: Political Issues 02-13-2020, 02:20 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,940
Posted By iona6656
really. you expect anyone to take you seriously...

really. you expect anyone to take you seriously when you casually throw this out there?

so where's the line? dad can casually slap mother...but maybe not strangle her? what about calling her...
Forum: Political Issues 02-13-2020, 02:17 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,940
Posted By iona6656
+1 on all of this. However, people lying...

+1 on all of this.

However, people lying about abuse allegations is not the point of this thread.

LovingDad- you proved your own point. Patently false accusations tend to come out over the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-13-2020, 02:10 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 241
Posted By iona6656
I would stay away from Russell Alexander lawyers-...

I would stay away from Russell Alexander lawyers- they have a good reputation. But I found them terrible.
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-30-2020, 09:42 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 457
Posted By iona6656
overseas travel consent

What I think is that it sounds like dad is playing gatekeeper. 2 days extra is*such* a concession? Really? You should tell him to let it go and wish the kids some fun and give them some souvenir...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-29-2020, 05:47 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 291
Posted By iona6656
I thought they were only 12k apart. If that's the...

I thought they were only 12k apart. If that's the case. Wouldn't it be stupid to try for offset?
Forum: Divorce Support 01-29-2020, 05:45 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 142
Posted By iona6656
Strangers on the internet are not going to get...

Strangers on the internet are not going to get through to you.

Who is? Seriously. Speak to someone. A therapist. A friend. Your parents.

You know what- speak to your kids. Ask them how this...
Forum: Divorce Support 01-29-2020, 05:41 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 487
Posted By iona6656
I'm happy for you. But also I feel his pain on...

I'm happy for you. But also I feel his pain on just having to eat it when it comes to the financials. The relief of being done with the litigation DOES outweigh having to just accept your ex is ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 05:12 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By iona6656
It happens all the time. It shouldn't but it...

It happens all the time. It shouldn't but it does. If the clause is challenged- then it probably wouldn't hold up.

But for 12K difference in salary, let it go.

People re-marry other people...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 05:10 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By iona6656
Chemistry undergrad. Math nerd.

Chemistry undergrad. Math nerd.
Forum: Domestic Violence 01-29-2020, 05:08 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 282
Posted By iona6656
I'm pretty sure they are. It should be off by...

I'm pretty sure they are. It should be off by now- but D3's dad just said "they didn't clear it". I mean- it could be something else? I dunno.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 11:49 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By iona6656
I would say the "stated intention to go to 50/50"...

I would say the "stated intention to go to 50/50" is too vague. Set a date. And then say a final parenting plan must be agreed to by the end of the year with the aid of a facilitator as agreed to by...
Forum: Domestic Violence 01-28-2020, 12:10 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 282
Posted By iona6656
^what rocksan said. Usually you can explain the...

^what rocksan said. Usually you can explain the specifics to the job. I work for a public sector government and there is a mechanism to explain it if it gets flagged.

That being said I have a...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-27-2020, 01:21 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 802
Posted By iona6656
See you kinda contradicted yourself here...if you...

See you kinda contradicted yourself here...if you email her it's not exactly asking permission but it's a polite (as it can be) heads up that you will be there- or she can/should be there.

If his...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-27-2020, 12:59 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 457
Posted By iona6656
If kids mom decided to take dad to court for the...

If kids mom decided to take dad to court for the consent- I see that going badly for dad- to the tune of costs.

Hammerdad is right- dad is stepping out of bounds on this one.

Best advice that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-27-2020, 12:49 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 802
Posted By iona6656
this is stupid. like everyone else has said.... ...

this is stupid. like everyone else has said....

stop going on her weekends.

my kids pre-k christmas concert fell on my ex's parenting time. It is the BEST thing ever, and I would be gutted if...
Forum: Political Issues 01-22-2020, 03:48 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,940
Posted By iona6656
^^ just came in here to co-sign that. ...

^^ just came in here to co-sign that.

Stating a broad-strokes opinion like that is like saying "All men just want 50/50 to get out of child support".
Forum: Financial Issues 01-20-2020, 06:53 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,181
Posted By iona6656
I guess I'm a bit confused. Is it simply because...

I guess I'm a bit confused. Is it simply because ANY child support changes hand that CRA denies the credit to the support "payor"? (even though both parties are technically support payors)....

I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-20-2020, 12:05 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 360
Posted By iona6656
do you guys have a the resources to engage a...

do you guys have a the resources to engage a parenting coach? they are really good with questions like this.

In the absence of that, my understanding is that if your agreement doesn't spell out...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 02:59 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 291
Posted By iona6656
I'm saying you need therapy because of what you...

I'm saying you need therapy because of what you have posted on here. You're angry and bitter. And wanting to punish your ex- who is still the mother of your children by the way- because you feel...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 02:38 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 291
Posted By iona6656
You need some therapy.

You need some therapy.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-17-2020, 01:10 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 291
Posted By iona6656
this is insane. if you've finalized your minutes...

this is insane. if you've finalized your minutes of settlement- AND presented it before a judge at an SC, and they signed off on it...then you're done. unless there's something egregious in it. Go...
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