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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2020, 02:57 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
No. We are not in court. We were in mediation...

No. We are not in court. We were in mediation but moved on to having our lawyers deal with it. I've agreed to everything and each time we wait 2 - 3 weeks for a reply. It took a whole week and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2020, 02:15 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Its the other side's lawyer that takes 2-3 weeks...

Its the other side's lawyer that takes 2-3 weeks to respond to my lawyer.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2020, 12:31 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
To give an update on this. My ex and I have...

To give an update on this.

My ex and I have yet to sign off on our SA.
I hired a lawyer and had him review the SA. He said it was good and recommended we make small changes like splitting the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-07-2020, 11:23 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 457
Posted By HardWorkingDad
I'm not sure if it's to cut me out or just plain...

I'm not sure if it's to cut me out or just plain ignorance on her part.
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-07-2020, 12:38 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 457
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Long weekends

My ex and I are close but have yet to sign our SA. Its tentative. One of its clauses states that for long weekends that whoever has the children that weekend, gets to have the extra day of...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 04:08 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Well their lawyer did put in the clause that my...

Well their lawyer did put in the clause that my ex would forever be exempt from owning CS unless there was a material change...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 03:14 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
It's written that we will do a 2-2-5-5 schedule,...

It's written that we will do a 2-2-5-5 schedule, with me getting Wednesdays & Thursdays
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 02:57 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
My ex won't build towards it. Wants to wait...

My ex won't build towards it. Wants to wait until D2 turns 4 and on that date we goto 50/50. It's the part about "best interests" that has me concerned. Suppose she moves. Now would it be best...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 01:58 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Yes, EOW as well. We have a graph schedule in...

Yes, EOW as well. We have a graph schedule in the agreement that shows the days we will transition into.
My ex has also stated it's an all or nothing transition. Meaning that if one child has...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 11:53 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
We do have a start date of Aug 1st 2021 to goto...

We do have a start date of Aug 1st 2021 to goto shared parenting time. I'll get every Wed & Thurs.
I'm just skeptical of how they dont want no status quo and in place put their clause. I dont...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-29-2020, 11:30 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
An update on this. We have moved on from using a...

An update on this. We have moved on from using a mediator to now finalizing the agreement between our lawyers. It's taken an extra month because the otherside's lawyer took two weeks to get back to...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2020, 10:40 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 291
Posted By HardWorkingDad
This was from her lawyer as our agreement...

This was from her lawyer as our agreement finalizing is now between our lawyers.
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2020, 08:34 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 291
Posted By HardWorkingDad
A material change - no CS

My ex wants to put into our agreement that when we go 50-50, that unless there is a material change, there will never be any CS payable by her. She earns more than me.
Is this enforceable? I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-26-2020, 05:14 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 802
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Her time is her time with the kids. You cant...

Her time is her time with the kids. You cant force her to do what YOU want during it. Yes, it's not fair to the kids and vindictive but as others have pointed out, be the bigger person, dont press...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-23-2020, 11:06 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 360
Posted By HardWorkingDad
It was a "Can I ask that we don't..." On...

It was a "Can I ask that we don't..."


On the phone, my son is not visibly upset. But the last time we did facetime it was on the night he went back to his mom's house. Im debating to ask him...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-19-2020, 10:51 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 360
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Not allowed facetime?

Tonight my ex texted me and asked me to no longer face time with my kids when I call. Said that they are different. Cry after I facetime and that when I would phone they were fine.
I'm torn as I...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-06-2020, 12:26 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 227
Posted By HardWorkingDad
When is a financial audit required?

My ex and I make 10k apart. She makes more. When discussing when we eventually switch to 50/50, she said she wouldn't have to pay offset in CS. That a financial audit would be required because I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2020, 05:12 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
I too argued that and wanted to start one extra...

I too argued that and wanted to start one extra day per year and she refused. Turning 4 is a magic no.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-03-2020, 03:30 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
We just move to 50 50 on August 2021. Ex...

We just move to 50 50 on August 2021.

Ex refused gradual increase. Said our current schedule was enough.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-02-2020, 11:52 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
We came to this agreement in mediation. Our kids...

We came to this agreement in mediation. Our kids are D2 and S7. The clause outright says the parties will begin transitioning to a shared parenting s schedule commencing on August 2021. But I'm...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-02-2020, 09:29 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Well it's in a binding agreement now so....

Well it's in a binding agreement now so....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-02-2020, 09:07 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
It was my terms if I want getting 50 50 now. If...

It was my terms if I want getting 50 50 now. If she insisted we wait 2 yrs(not worth time and $$ in court) then I wanted assurances we would go to 5050. So there's a clause stating when my D2 turns...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-02-2020, 08:13 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Signed and done. I had it written in it that we...

Signed and done. I had it written in it that we would go to a 2-2-3 schedule and not a revisit it or anything. Also that my CS would end effective on that date. Ex cannot move out of school...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-02-2020, 04:07 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Reached an agreement

Well it appears we came to an agreement in mediation. Once D2 goes to kindergarten, we go to a 2-2-3 schedule for both kids. CS stops then as well.
Avoided court.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-29-2019, 09:45 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 145
Posted By HardWorkingDad
Good faith or without prejudice?

If the parties are in mediation and try a schedule but have yet to sign new mediated agreement, is the new schedule considered in good faith or without prejudice?
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