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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 11:42 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 76
Posted By LovingDad1234
He is referring to question 9 on Form 17C-...

He is referring to question 9 on Form 17C- Settlement Conference Brief. I wondered the same thing going to Settlement Conferences. The issues were custody and access, and it asks if you want the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 07:34 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 231
Posted By LovingDad1234
So this thread has veered completely in the wrong...

So this thread has veered completely in the wrong direction, including nasty comments from an individual. Yes, it is possible for mothers to lose custody, and my case was one of those extreme...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 02:21 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 231
Posted By LovingDad1234
I am perfectly healthy, thank you. My threads...

I am perfectly healthy, thank you. My threads ask relevant questions that are valid to my case. In reading the threads, I know I am not alone. My situation may be very different than yours. ...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 10:19 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 231
Posted By LovingDad1234
Is there any point in even asking? I know on her...

Is there any point in even asking? I know on her end she HATES that it will be 50/50, and if I know her well, know that she is building her case and doing her research behind the scenes to back out...
Forum: Political Issues Yesterday, 09:47 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 124
Posted By LovingDad1234
Exactly. Name change was one of the issues in my...

Exactly. Name change was one of the issues in my case, as I’m sure many others. Did research in Canlii and Vital Statistics Act. Trociuk v. B.C. is one of the keystone cases. Every court decision...
Forum: Political Issues Yesterday, 09:23 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 124
Posted By LovingDad1234
If you are married during the time of birth. If...

If you are married during the time of birth.
If you were at the sonograms
If hospital staff know and acknowledge you as the child’s dad
If mom says your the dad the whole way but decides not to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-21-2020, 11:37 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 231
Posted By LovingDad1234
Changing Court Order- too soon?

Hi Everyone,

Greatly appreciate the insight and advice received in this forum, it is truly invaluable to speak with people who have gone through similar situations. Its funny how many of us...
Forum: General Chat 02-20-2020, 09:27 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 167
Posted By LovingDad1234
I feel you are totally missing the point of the...

I feel you are totally missing the point of the thread. The point is how single or divorced dads are portrayed in society, and how media outlets don’t help the situation.
Forum: Divorce Support 02-20-2020, 05:36 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 487
Posted By LovingDad1234
The fact that she threw a "party" perfectly...

The fact that she threw a "party" perfectly describes the type of person she is. Threw tons of money in the toilet in legal fees of her own. Threw tons of money in the toilet for your partner's...
Forum: General Chat 02-20-2020, 02:34 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 167
Posted By LovingDad1234
Fully agree with everything you said. ...

Fully agree with everything you said. Particularly the part you described about "control". My whole court process was about getting the mom to agree to give up control. She can have all the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-20-2020, 11:53 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 154
Posted By LovingDad1234
Please see below info by rockscan

Please see below info by rockscan
Forum: Political Issues 02-19-2020, 04:06 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 124
Posted By LovingDad1234
Changing Vital Statistics Act- name selection

Hi All,

Appreciate all the discussion on this forum and everyone sharing their insights. It is really helpful to hear from others who have been in similar situations.

One aspect of those of us...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2020, 02:25 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By LovingDad1234
That is obviously done on purpose. You are the...

That is obviously done on purpose. You are the one wanting the agreement in place, and your ex is the reluctant one, as she feels she is giving away control and time. Its common for feet...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-19-2020, 02:13 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 912
Posted By LovingDad1234
Again, your case is very similar to my case in...

Again, your case is very similar to my case in the details. In my situation, we had an agreement 95% done, and it was the fine details going back and forth between my ex (who was now self-repping)...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-18-2020, 02:04 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 433
Posted By LovingDad1234
OK, keep us apprised. From what I have been told...

OK, keep us apprised. From what I have been told by lawyer, it is rare to receive even 1/2 of what you put in towards costs. You may get some costs back to you on the basis of the frivolous filing....
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-18-2020, 01:48 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 433
Posted By LovingDad1234
No matter who "wins" costs, it won't nearly be as...

No matter who "wins" costs, it won't nearly be as much as you have put in.

For those who win a costs award with a lawyer, they "may" recover 25% of what what they spent on legal fees spent.
...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-18-2020, 12:59 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 433
Posted By LovingDad1234
My understanding is that you have to win 100% in...

My understanding is that you have to win 100% in order to get costs. My lawyer made me drop everything that had a slight possibility that I would not "win". Even if you do get costs, it is RARELY...
Forum: General Chat 02-18-2020, 10:19 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 167
Posted By LovingDad1234
Societal Bias versus Men as Parents?

Hope this is the right forum for this thread, but just thought I would share a few thoughts regarding how the media portrays things in ways that don't help at all.

Prior to being a dad, I never...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-13-2020, 10:32 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 598
Posted By LovingDad1234
Read a few pages into that book. Oh Boy!!! Some...

Read a few pages into that book. Oh Boy!!! Some stuff just jumps off the page. My ex never cut the embilical cord from her mom. And mom is all too happy to cater to her adult daughter. Even...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-12-2020, 05:09 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 598
Posted By LovingDad1234
Yes, it has been suggested my ex is abusive...

Yes, it has been suggested my ex is abusive towards me. Gaslighting, manipulating, and saying things to try to get her way, only to later re-neg. For example, she said that if I give her what she...
Forum: Divorce Support 02-12-2020, 04:35 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 598
Posted By LovingDad1234
Was this a reference to me being in a fog? Are...

Was this a reference to me being in a fog? Are you suggesting my ex is an abuser towards me? Many have suggested such. Using kids to hurt me. Says we separated for X,Y, and Z reasons, and those...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-12-2020, 03:01 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 241
Posted By LovingDad1234
I thought about this as well. Although some...

I thought about this as well. Although some out-of-town lawyers were more than willing to take my case, they couldn't help but advise me to find someone local. Do you really want to pay a lawyer...
Forum: Political Issues 02-12-2020, 12:01 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,940
Posted By LovingDad1234
You are totally missing the other end of the...

You are totally missing the other end of the spectrum. The woman who treats the kids as only hers, and wishes to have a subsidized livelihood at the expense of the man. The woman who says "MINE!"...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-11-2020, 12:26 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 289
Posted By LovingDad1234
Quote from www.familycourt.cleo.on.ca: “If you...

Quote from www.familycourt.cleo.on.ca: “If you want the court to make a temporary order about some of the issues in your case, you can bring a regular motion. A motion is where a party asks a judge...
Forum: Political Issues 02-09-2020, 11:00 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,940
Posted By LovingDad1234
In my humble view, when the wife signed the...

In my humble view, when the wife signed the agreement in 2013, it meant she was ok with everything. Enough of this stuff of holding something on someone as “back pocket info” where the ex uses it...
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