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Forum: Domestic Violence 02-20-2020, 05:25 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 213
Posted By dad2bandm
CAS is never your ally. Especially if you're a...

CAS is never your ally.
Especially if you're a man. Probably depends on the agency, but the one in our area, is incompetent, or under-resourced. Probably both.



They bungled things very...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-20-2020, 03:19 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 403
Posted By dad2bandm
Hockey is a different beast - as it is *so*...

Hockey is a different beast - as it is *so* expensive even at house level. And for 3 kids? $$$


FRO may have just denied the "costs" as perhaps they deemed it to not be child support related,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2020, 02:46 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 243
Posted By dad2bandm
If I was to use one, Our Family Wizard seems the...

If I was to use one, Our Family Wizard seems the best. They price it as such.

An app/site like OFW does simplify some things when it comes to *high/conflict parents*. Everything is in the one...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2020, 02:18 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 433
Posted By dad2bandm
As an aside; I wonder how much of the awarded...

As an aside;
I wonder how much of the awarded costs WorkingDad has seen come his way though.



In my court process (it's been long), I've been awarded a few times, some costs, but haven't...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-20-2020, 02:03 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 433
Posted By dad2bandm
I thought, you were already progressing through...

I thought, you were already progressing through court stages, given you said this:





So where in court process are you then, and what is her motion about? I thought it was just seeking more...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-20-2020, 01:47 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 403
Posted By dad2bandm
"sues" ? Do you mean, she filed a...

"sues" ?



Do you mean, she filed a motion seeking some money towards the activity in family court?



Or actually going after you in small-claims court?
Forum: Financial Issues 02-18-2020, 12:33 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 110
Posted By dad2bandm
Valid in Ontario, but good outline of what one...

Valid in Ontario, but good outline of what one does to file motion to claim/or update, child support:


https://www.ontario.ca/page/set-up-or-update-child-support-court


(as an aside, how do...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-18-2020, 12:19 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 433
Posted By dad2bandm
Is this shared custody? Yes/no? Or does your...

Is this shared custody? Yes/no?
Or does your ex have the bulk of the parenting time, leaving you to pay table support for the two kids?



Seeking more child support, with "no justification"?...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-18-2020, 12:11 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 110
Posted By dad2bandm
Yeah, given the info you have provided, this...

Yeah, given the info you have provided, this *sounds* pretty clear-cut. Highly doubt that she needs a lawyer for simple "updating child support based on current income request."


But if the...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-18-2020, 12:05 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,181
Posted By dad2bandm
Meh, it's CRA - they interpret things their own...

Meh, it's CRA - they interpret things their own way, and no matter how clear you are in the order/agreement, they still cause you issues.
CRA folks are not happy people. They are not...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2020, 04:45 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,181
Posted By dad2bandm
As an anecdotal aside; In my case, having...

As an anecdotal aside;


In my case, having "no written agreement" in place was helpful with the CRA, as that was a plus for me, back in the day. But CRA will still challenge you.


In my...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-11-2020, 04:40 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,181
Posted By dad2bandm
What Rockscan already mentioned. The only...

What Rockscan already mentioned.


The only way you could try to claim the "eligible dependant" tax credit, even if your ex agreed you would claim it (written up in an agreement/court order), is:...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-03-2020, 12:42 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 168
Posted By dad2bandm
Yes, if you're writing out your affidavit...

Yes, if you're writing out your affidavit info/points, use "I".


ex.
...I attach hereto as Exhibit X, the report blah blah blah...


...On several occasions I requested the Applicant to sign...
Forum: Domestic Violence 01-28-2020, 03:09 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 282
Posted By dad2bandm
I thought absolute discharges were removed from...

I thought absolute discharges were removed from the Canadian Police Information Center computer system 1 year after the court’s decision anyway, no? So maybe it won't be an issue for him for long...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-28-2020, 02:40 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 152
Posted By dad2bandm
You have an order (interim or otherwise) from a...

You have an order (interim or otherwise) from a judge, that specifies you have full custody? If so, I wonder what circumstances with the other parent or the family situation would lead to that right...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2020, 12:49 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,181
Posted By dad2bandm
To clarify here, you are both initially eligible...

To clarify here, you are both initially eligible here for the "eligible dependant" credit, as you have shared custody (according to you).



With shared custody, you are paying each other child...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-28-2020, 11:46 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,181
Posted By dad2bandm
I get you're probably just ranting about your...

I get you're probably just ranting about your situation, but your statement is quite unclear, in regards to this specific thread.


If you're talking the "eligible dependant" tax credit, your ex...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-28-2020, 11:04 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 457
Posted By dad2bandm
I think, if it were me in that situation, and I...

I think, if it were me in that situation, and I was trying to determine if I wanted to consent to child's travel to another country like the Philippines, with the other parent, I would *make sure* I...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-20-2020, 07:06 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,181
Posted By dad2bandm
Your wording would have to be clear that *each...

Your wording would have to be clear that *each parent pays the other* support, and leave it at that. If they see offset, or "parent x pays offset" they will disallow the payor parent.

Assuming...
Forum: General Chat 01-20-2020, 04:55 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 453
Posted By dad2bandm
I agree with Janus here. If the ex is not...

I agree with Janus here.


If the ex is not co-operating on this issue, your only reliable option, is to get an order from court, that says you're allowed to obtain child a passport, without her...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-20-2020, 04:36 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 360
Posted By dad2bandm
I noticed another user asked the same thing, but...

I noticed another user asked the same thing, but to ask again, did your ex actually ask, or was it basically an ultimatum?



How are the kids on these "Facetime" calls with you? Do you...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-20-2020, 04:05 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,181
Posted By dad2bandm
CRA's "rules" on the eligible dependant credit,...

CRA's "rules" on the eligible dependant credit, are ridiculous.



What are the extra "special section 7" expenses that your ex is demanding now? Are they even section 7?


Does your ex...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-14-2019, 03:32 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 361
Posted By dad2bandm
Yeah, I think this is the key part. The original...

Yeah, I think this is the key part. The original poster mentions Dad's partner is a "step-parent", so it sounds like she's involved in the kids' lives, or at least has an interest in it. So why is...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-13-2019, 11:01 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 332
Posted By dad2bandm
I've seen rare cases where CRA backed off on...

I've seen rare cases where CRA backed off on collecting, (because it was taking the money away from available child support monies), but, in those rare cases, the child support collecting parent,...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-13-2019, 10:44 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 332
Posted By dad2bandm
The problem with your "long story short", is that...

The problem with your "long story short", is that the shortened version, leaves out a lot of necessary details, and doesn't add up. Something doesn't make sense here - you're stating he used to make...
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