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Forum: Parenting Issues Today, 09:31 AM
Replies: 18
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Posted By Berner_Faith
I agree with Rockscan... you are the one creating...

I agree with Rockscan... you are the one creating the problem for your children. You go to the games knowing if you go she wonít bring them, so because of your pride your children miss out. You are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-23-2020, 10:09 PM
Replies: 35
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Posted By Berner_Faith
I donít understand why you think your ex should...

I donít understand why you think your ex should have to bend to your work schedule? You have an order that spells out what happens if youíre working afternoons. If it didnít specify make up time,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-21-2020, 10:07 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 214
Posted By Berner_Faith
It sucks I know... my step daughter is in a sport...

It sucks I know... my step daughter is in a sport that happens every Sunday and most Saturdays... on the weekends she is with us we take her as often as we can... itís a sport she does with her mom,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-21-2020, 08:05 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 214
Posted By Berner_Faith
Well seeing as nothing has been signed you really...

Well seeing as nothing has been signed you really donít have an agreement to follow but you 100% are going to piss off your kids... regardless of why dad has done this, you will be the bad one. It is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2020, 07:59 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 112
Posted By Berner_Faith
Only difference it may make is if you received...

Only difference it may make is if you received benefits based on the others income or if you filed as still married and not separated. If changing your marital status means you received money you...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2020, 04:13 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 273
Posted By Berner_Faith
Again... either work out with your ex or court......

Again... either work out with your ex or court... CS and equalization are different and usually are not mixed


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Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2020, 04:05 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 273
Posted By Berner_Faith
Repayments are unique and there is no one size...

Repayments are unique and there is no one size fits all... your best bet is to work it out with your ex


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Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2020, 03:44 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 273
Posted By Berner_Faith
When does your agreement say you adjust support?...

When does your agreement say you adjust support? If you think youíre going to be able to reduce support by $1600 a month until itís paid back good luck. There really isnít a process for an over...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-03-2020, 03:36 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 273
Posted By Berner_Faith
Does your ex agree with this over payment? Do you...

Does your ex agree with this over payment? Do you have a written agreement that outlines your cs? Does your agreement state allowable expenses? Just because something is a a legit expense for CRA...
Forum: General Chat 12-19-2019, 03:36 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 391
Posted By Berner_Faith
Even if you counted hours itís highly unlikely...

Even if you counted hours itís highly unlikely those extra few hours a week would get you over 60% that CS would change. A judge would also see you as pretty petty if you tried to pursue this... tell...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-19-2019, 03:28 PM
Replies: 182
Views: 10,841
Posted By Berner_Faith
So all your knowledge is based on hearsay? Iíd...

So all your knowledge is based on hearsay? Iíd take what this third party tells you with a grain of salt because the reality is, you know nothing


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-18-2019, 10:10 PM
Replies: 182
Views: 10,841
Posted By Berner_Faith
How do you know so much about your ex husbands...

How do you know so much about your ex husbands affairs? How do you know she wasnít on the loan? How do you know she wasnít on other assets? How do you know they didnít share a bank account? Things...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-15-2019, 07:10 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 213
Posted By Berner_Faith
Then you donít have shared parenting. Right now...

Then you donít have shared parenting. Right now you have 5/14 days and you want 7/14 days... which means a change in CS... not surprising sheís not agreeing to the changes. Whatís her reasoning?

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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-14-2019, 09:57 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 213
Posted By Berner_Faith
If you already had shared parenting time and...

If you already had shared parenting time and agree itís not working, why are you filing for 50-50? What is your current schedule?


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-25-2019, 11:59 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 369
Posted By Berner_Faith
How much weight do you expect a judge to put on...

How much weight do you expect a judge to put on the words of a boyfriend? Think about that really... heís going to talk about how great you are, heís not going to give an unbiased opinion. If it were...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-25-2019, 11:35 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 369
Posted By Berner_Faith
What will he be there to testify for? ...

What will he be there to testify for?


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-24-2019, 07:34 AM
Replies: 182
Views: 10,841
Posted By Berner_Faith
The only time youíd have to pay your lawyer...

The only time youíd have to pay your lawyer travel would be for a court date. Other than that you go to the lawyer or do everything via email. I understand itís going to be more expensive than youíd...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-23-2019, 05:26 PM
Replies: 182
Views: 10,841
Posted By Berner_Faith
Canít you find a lawyer outside the area? Being...

Canít you find a lawyer outside the area? Being in a small town there will be conflict of interest. I donít see this as a good case to go unrepresented


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-16-2019, 07:20 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 317
Posted By Berner_Faith
Usually travel consent isnít required for out of...

Usually travel consent isnít required for out of province. Either way, the child is a teenager and is able to travel alone. Your consent likely wonít be required. Child can decide where to spend...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-15-2019, 10:59 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 758
Posted By Berner_Faith
Yes I have read the other thread... itís once...

Yes I have read the other thread... itís once again parents trying to one up each other. Rather than thinking of the children one wants CS and the other doesnít want to pay


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Forum: Financial Issues 11-15-2019, 10:57 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 758
Posted By Berner_Faith
Actually if you read the first post it seems they...

Actually if you read the first post it seems they want their ex to continue paying support while the child lives in the condo


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Forum: Financial Issues 11-15-2019, 10:24 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 758
Posted By Berner_Faith
Thatís assuming the parents live in the same...

Thatís assuming the parents live in the same location as the school. I have a few friends who had parents purchase homes in the city they went to school to save on costs


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Forum: Financial Issues 11-15-2019, 04:18 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 342
Posted By Berner_Faith
Youíre never going to force your ex to work. It...

Youíre never going to force your ex to work. It just wonít happen. If they donít want to work they wonít. You have two options... sign the agreement regardless of their job situation and hope theyíll...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-14-2019, 11:49 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 317
Posted By Berner_Faith
Not a hill to die on. There are no rules on that....

Not a hill to die on. There are no rules on that. You can always set up your own appointment with just the teacher and you. Highly doubt your ex is going to respect your request so best just to...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-13-2019, 11:00 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 236
Posted By Berner_Faith
Sell the house and she can get her equalization...

Sell the house and she can get her equalization out of that. Then she can buy her own house and hold the mortgage


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