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Forum: Parenting Issues 02-08-2014, 10:50 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,823
Posted By Moolight
it is difficult to do anything is this situation...

it is difficult to do anything is this situation but do not think it was right for Mom to ask the child to write it down.

I have been through similar situation where Dad did and actually still...
Forum: General Chat 02-08-2014, 06:11 AM
Replies: 40
Views: 3,449
Posted By Moolight
I quite enjoy reading the OP opinion. ...

I quite enjoy reading the OP opinion.

Basically my interpretation is:
Patience is a virtue --- who will argue this!

virgin represent in the old school the ability to control yourself and wait...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-10-2014, 02:30 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 6,701
Posted By Moolight
The RESP is own by the grandfather then you are...

The RESP is own by the grandfather then you are fully depending on him to make the decision on how it will be use or distribute. Not much you can do there.

But since the Grant portion can...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-14-2013, 09:51 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,448
Posted By Moolight
Correction, actually you offer does not offer her...

Correction, actually you offer does not offer her equity.

In order to make it a fair offer you would have to pay her 13,045K or keep the full amount of the credit line for her to take the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-14-2013, 06:53 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,448
Posted By Moolight
Canuck1965, remember she also own half the house...

Canuck1965, remember she also own half the house so basically you are offering her very little.

Your offer looks like only 11,500k. if her intention is to sell the house, it is a bad offer...
Forum: Political Issues 11-03-2013, 04:18 PM
Replies: 100
Views: 11,748
Posted By Moolight
The reality it always hurts to pay no matter what...

The reality it always hurts to pay no matter what the amount is.

I have paid lump SS to ex just to get him to settled and not because I believed he was entitled, on the contrary. It was opposite...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2013, 03:36 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 5,320
Posted By Moolight
Actually, this might be worth verifying as I was...

Actually, this might be worth verifying as I was told that I was obliged to keep ex on my insurance until the divorce.

You have been separated for over year, it might be time to start divorce...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-01-2013, 09:43 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 4,002
Posted By Moolight
Get an official estimate from the plan admin, not...

Get an official estimate from the plan admin, not just rough numbers, this is required before even meeting the Actuary. Otherwise you will just pay for nothing or even the actuary will charge you to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-01-2013, 09:39 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 870
Posted By Moolight
Hope you froze the LOC so she can not borough...

Hope you froze the LOC so she can not borough additional fund. Account for it the amount and interest on your equalization settlement.

You have no guarantee to recoup these funds, this all...
Forum: Common Law Issues 09-01-2013, 03:09 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,803
Posted By Moolight
She is right on the fact that you were not...

She is right on the fact that you were not legally married and depending on the province you live in the law vary for common law.

You are in BC so you have the same rights as married couples.
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2013, 11:23 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 4,094
Posted By Moolight
Basically, it is his parenting time so he can use...

Basically, it is his parenting time so he can use the nanny as he please. There is nothing the OP can do here as long they are well taken care of.

Yes, he can argue that the was part of the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2013, 09:02 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 4,002
Posted By Moolight
You ask for the estimate as of the date of...

You ask for the estimate as of the date of separation and then use that to put in your financial disclosure.

Once you have hers and yours, equalization calculation can be made. if you own her...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-31-2013, 08:50 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,526
Posted By Moolight
Actually you lawyer may have ask for that to show...

Actually you lawyer may have ask for that to show your living expenses and fill the financial statement.

You basically have to enumerate your income but as well your expenses including the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2013, 08:40 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 4,002
Posted By Moolight
You can contact your Pension administrator for...

You can contact your Pension administrator for the information.

Are you talking about Ontario govt or Fed gov pension. The difference is that any Ontario pension will give you the division...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-31-2013, 02:58 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,481
Posted By Moolight
Actually, I would bring up the pension aspect as...

Actually, I would bring up the pension aspect as he actually did a smart move. It is worth having a higher mortgage to keep the pension share.

What is sad is that you had both agreed on the kids...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-25-2013, 01:39 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,355
Posted By Moolight
You both have to consider that when it comes to a...

You both have to consider that when it comes to a pension division, the division payment is transferred as a lump sum directly to a locked-in registered retirement vehicle chosen by the recipient.
...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-19-2013, 10:13 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,071
Posted By Moolight
D fill OSAP and got granted funding, did not have...

D fill OSAP and got granted funding, did not have to declare non-custodial parent income.

Only have to provide custodial parent status and income, they also ask for student income, RESP income...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-11-2013, 09:53 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,666
Posted By Moolight
I did face the same issue as my ex(male) was...

I did face the same issue as my ex(male) was claiming zero income and got away with it and not paying any CS and claimed spousal.

He always was employed during marriage and was making over 100k....
Forum: Financial Issues 08-11-2013, 09:19 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,218
Posted By Moolight
In order for your lawyer to do it , he still has...

In order for your lawyer to do it , he still has to get a court order. So why not push for equalization.

it does not cost a 1,000 dollar to actually put you on the title, he is charging you to...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-11-2013, 07:10 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,218
Posted By Moolight
Bank cannot do anything since you are not on the...

Bank cannot do anything since you are not on the title. In order to put your name on the title, your ex will have to consent.

Your best bet is to force the equalization through family court.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-19-2013, 12:19 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 3,834
Posted By Moolight
While you can remove ex anything, extended...

While you can remove ex anything, extended benefits policies allow coverage until divorce.

Regardless of the situation, why create issues where you shouldn't. According to the tone of your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-18-2013, 11:13 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 4,177
Posted By Moolight
Hammerdad, You have realise that most case...

Hammerdad,
You have realise that most case both parents are present at birth or together and this is a non issues.

In the situation where parents are not together, the mother is given 30 days...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-18-2013, 07:01 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 4,177
Posted By Moolight
Sure and she is not the one wanted to change the...

Sure and she is not the one wanted to change the name here.
So yes she can concentrate on being a Mom and ignore it.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-18-2013, 01:17 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 4,177
Posted By Moolight
Hammerdad, according to the Op post, the father...

Hammerdad, according to the Op post, the father was aware of the child been born and the name given to the child. More he even participated in the amendment and even signed the papers.

To that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-17-2013, 06:50 AM
Replies: 42
Views: 4,177
Posted By Moolight
HammerDad, I believe that your are making too...

HammerDad, I believe that your are making too much of a deal with the name. Father should concentrate on being a father and not fight for the name.

If he had an issue, he should have act...
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