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Forum: Parenting Issues Yesterday, 03:15 PM
Replies: 1
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Posted By Helpmyspouse
Did the bullying start after the perm hair? ...

Did the bullying start after the perm hair? Bullying is never okay but why would a parent perm a young child's hair??? Did the perm cause child's anxiety and is the reason for this intensive therapy?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-12-2019, 07:29 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 312
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Does the court order also clearly state she can't...

Does the court order also clearly state she can't interfere with showings, ie. refuse to allow the realtors and potential buyers in the home? If no, I don't see how police can assist with that as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-11-2019, 10:53 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 312
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I had to get a court order for exclusive...

I had to get a court order for exclusive possession and to list and sell home without my ex consent. I needed to get him out so I could clean and repair the home he was making go to shit. And I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-07-2019, 11:02 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 273
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I am so grateful for your replies and sharing...

I am so grateful for your replies and sharing your experiences and knowledge. A family breakup is horrible to go through. I would not wish this on anyone. I don't see why anyone would get married...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-07-2019, 07:05 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 273
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I am so relieved. I'm totally not sure of all...

I am so relieved. I'm totally not sure of all the logistics but I won't worry about this unless ex is requesting supervised access. For example, if we can't communicate due to the restraining...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-06-2019, 11:45 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 273
Posted By Helpmyspouse
thanks for your reply. Are you saying that the...

thanks for your reply. Are you saying that the visit is only supervised for a few minutes and not the whole duration? I have a problem with this if this is the case. The visit in my situation would...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-05-2019, 10:04 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 273
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Supervised access centers

Anyone familiar with these? What is the wait time to start access? I read up on the process which is an intake form and meeting but it doesn't say anything about a wait time or how fast the first...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-02-2019, 02:01 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 267
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Conflict of interest?

My exspouse is supposed to be self-reping but he lacks the mental capacity to do so. It's a long story... Anyway, a family member on his side offered to help him faciilitate a potential agreement...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-24-2019, 07:32 AM
Replies: 168
Views: 7,828
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I don't have any legal advice to give. I'm stuck...

I don't have any legal advice to give. I'm stuck in the broken system as well losing all my equity but I do have my kids. But I know the pain you speak of. Your situation has been weighing on my...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-21-2019, 05:50 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 411
Posted By Helpmyspouse
You have given me hope and more information than...

You have given me hope and more information than my lawyer has. All he said was that just because my ex passed a two hour mental capacity assessment it doesn't speak to his parenting capacity and we...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-21-2019, 06:22 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 411
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Thanks for the great coping suggestions. If I...

Thanks for the great coping suggestions. If I didn't have my faith that pulls me through I don't think I would be still standing. My friends tell me that if they didn't know the hell I'm going...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-20-2019, 09:30 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 411
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I'm on the trial list waiting to be called within...

I'm on the trial list waiting to be called within the next three weeks window. If my case gets called and ex shows up still self repping what is a possible outcome on this day? He has still not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-20-2019, 07:43 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 976
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I got some really crazy demands as well. For two...

I got some really crazy demands as well. For two years ex wouldn't agree to sell the matrimonial home. He demanded and ranted that I "give him the divorce first and then we sell the home". He was...
Forum: Parenting Issues 11-17-2019, 07:50 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 618
Posted By Helpmyspouse
What really gets me is the legal fees the other...

What really gets me is the legal fees the other side makes you burn to defend something that will most likely go nowhere. Why does it have to cost so much money?? So much aggravation and only the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-11-2019, 01:27 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 411
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Unbelievable turn of events

So for those following my saga, my exspouse was deemed special party just before the marital home was sold. His crooked lawyer and OPGT have been stringing me along helping themselves to the equity...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-24-2019, 06:37 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 458
Posted By Helpmyspouse
So damn true. Kids don't come first in family...

So damn true. Kids don't come first in family court. Only lawyers do. :mad:
Forum: Financial Issues 10-24-2019, 08:12 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 233
Posted By Helpmyspouse
By court order do you mean one obtained through...

By court order do you mean one obtained through small claims court?
Forum: Financial Issues 10-23-2019, 08:48 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 233
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I figured he could not dip into my share but was...

I figured he could not dip into my share but was asking if he would be able just access the funds and pay himself without my ex actually writing him a check. This lawyer is a crook and I don't trust...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-23-2019, 06:57 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 233
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Angry Money in Trust and Lawyer payment

My exspouse has a crooked lawyer who is milking him of every penny of equity from the marital home. Just out of curiousity, how does this lawyer get paid at the end of the case? Money is currently...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-18-2019, 08:02 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 765
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Still breathing, 8 effen years for you! I'm so...

Still breathing, 8 effen years for you! I'm so sorry for the torture you have been dealing with because it is torture. It consumes your life and pocketbook. I've been at it for 6 years total but...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-17-2019, 09:57 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 765
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I burned $10,000 in mediation that failed....

I burned $10,000 in mediation that failed. Asshole lawyer on other side had no intentions of mediating but wanted to rack up some more billable hours. He didn't negotiate in good faith so time and...
Forum: Divorce Support 10-15-2019, 12:13 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 431
Posted By Helpmyspouse
What do you mean by you are living separately but...

What do you mean by you are living separately but apart?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-11-2019, 09:30 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 1,140
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Poster said mom works every weekend. So how is...

Poster said mom works every weekend. So how is it possible that if he goes to court his current access could be changed to every other weekend. Mom is not available to take the child on weekends.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-08-2019, 12:20 AM
Replies: 168
Views: 7,828
Posted By Helpmyspouse
Originally posted by Janus The fact that you...

Originally posted by Janus
The fact that you don't see that as a problem speaks to your personal set of issues.[/QUOTE]



And the fact that you are very negative, hateful, and bitter speaks to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2019, 12:49 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 839
Posted By Helpmyspouse
I don't get it. I mean who is on vacation? The...

I don't get it. I mean who is on vacation? The kids or the ex? Kids aren't on vacation if it's school time. They should be at school. If it's March break, winter break or summer ex can do what he...
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