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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2021, 06:29 PM
Replies: 39
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Posted By rockscan
No he hasnt, her original posts were asking how...

No he hasnt, her original posts were asking how to change the wording as they have tried other measures and it doesnt work. He has now also asked for additional wording to be changed that is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2021, 02:27 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 795
Posted By rockscan
So basically his major demand is to update the...

So basically his major demand is to update the agreement so he can claim one child. The rest are moot updates and unnecessary.

Like I said before, tell him you will consider updating the agreement...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-22-2021, 11:37 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 795
Posted By rockscan
You wanting to be done with him doesnt mean he...

You wanting to be done with him doesnt mean he gets to skirt his responsibilities to his kids.

I would counter that you want to see his full tax return as well as proof of his 2020 income before...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2021, 10:41 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 95
Posted By rockscan
If you have the info just give it to them. It...

If you have the info just give it to them. It will go a long way for the judge looking at you.

As for the late filing, do you want to continue the delays or get it over with?


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2021, 03:10 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 143
Posted By rockscan
Search it on canlii. Sent from my iPhone...

Search it on canlii.


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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-21-2021, 12:06 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 207
Posted By rockscan
Why would he win the motion? He withheld the...

Why would he win the motion? He withheld the child and you were seeking an enforcement clause. There is no need for the motion so agreeing to adjourn it is a no brainer. Not sure why his lawyer asked...
Forum: General Chat 01-20-2021, 07:54 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 265
Posted By rockscan
Sounds like your friend is questioning your...

Sounds like your friend is questioning your loyalty. You do whats best for you. In my opinion, why does she think people should abandon him when he is clearly going through a major upheaval in his...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-20-2021, 07:51 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,561
Posted By rockscan
Why would you want to be with someone who hasnt...

Why would you want to be with someone who hasnt loved you for a decade? You both stayed for the kids sure but she admitted she didnt love you. If my husband said he didnt love me anymore I would...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-20-2021, 12:56 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,561
Posted By rockscan
HA! One of the things I told him was I wanted to...

HA! One of the things I told him was I wanted to stand in front of our friends and family and make a promise to him.

There are a few good legal reasons for getting married and for an older couple...
Forum: General Chat 01-20-2021, 10:30 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 265
Posted By rockscan
Its not just that. I moved to a new city at 30...

Its not just that. I moved to a new city at 30 and discovered just how crazy hard it was to make new friends. One that I met through work I joked that we should ride bikes or play barbies and she...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-19-2021, 07:14 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,561
Posted By rockscan
For us it was for my protection. His kids were...

For us it was for my protection. His kids were next of kin and I was concerned.

Plus I wanted to be his Mrs. [emoji3526]


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Forum: Financial Issues 01-19-2021, 10:35 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 95
Posted By rockscan
Yes you both need independent legal advice. Its a...

Yes you both need independent legal advice. Its a clause in all agreements. It protects you both.


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Forum: Financial Issues 01-19-2021, 10:33 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,561
Posted By rockscan
I make more than my husband, had my own property...

I make more than my husband, had my own property and investments.

We married for love though and I adore my husband. I was an older bride so I knew what I wanted and was mature.

You overlook...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-18-2021, 11:19 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,561
Posted By rockscan
My husband said the same thing...then he met me! ...

My husband said the same thing...then he met me!

You will still have moments as a family it just wont be the unit you imagine. My husband has been to his kids graduations with his ex there....
Forum: Financial Issues 01-18-2021, 11:15 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 95
Posted By rockscan
If you both had independent legal advice then you...

If you both had independent legal advice then you will be covered. If an investment goes up after you split she isnt entitled to it. Much like she isnt entitled to a lottery win if you get that.
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Forum: General Chat 01-18-2021, 04:33 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 265
Posted By rockscan
Ya thats a mess. She sounds like she could use...

Ya thats a mess. She sounds like she could use therapy and Im sure a lot of her negativity comes from her anger, hurt and resentment. By acting that way she deprives her kids of their other...
Forum: General Chat 01-18-2021, 04:11 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 395
Posted By rockscan
Ya I was going to say three years is nothing. ...

Ya I was going to say three years is nothing.


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Forum: General Chat 01-18-2021, 04:09 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 265
Posted By rockscan
How did Divorce affect your friendships?

Ha! My husband is not allowed to speak to one of his oldest friends because the friends wife decided after a million years that she liked his ex and wanted to be friends. That led to a big blow out...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-18-2021, 04:04 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 83
Posted By rockscan
A quick search of canlii resulted in the case:...

A quick search of canlii resulted in the case: Appu v. Appu. The judge in that case considered expenses necessary to maintain a stream of income.

It could also be a crapshoot depending on the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-17-2021, 04:07 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 291
Posted By rockscan
It was more child care which is not for work. ...

It was more child care which is not for work.

Nanny is way more than daycare.

He can also dispute what she gets if a more cost efficient option or he is available.

This poster seems to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 01-16-2021, 04:44 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 795
Posted By rockscan
Call the school board and find out about rules on...

Call the school board and find out about rules on addresses. Kid may not be eligible to go to a school where they dont live.


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Forum: Financial Issues 01-16-2021, 04:44 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,561
Posted By rockscan
Not to mention have an impact on the other...

Not to mention have an impact on the other current and future relationships. Whether you want to or not you WILL have an impact on your kids.


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Forum: Financial Issues 01-15-2021, 10:50 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,561
Posted By rockscan
You could see if your city has a family service...

You could see if your city has a family service office. They have therapy services. Also talk to your family doctor as they can refer.

You also need to remember that she is taking care of her...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-15-2021, 04:00 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 291
Posted By rockscan
Should also note you need to get his written...

Should also note you need to get his written permission. Plus if you need help to parent your kids and he does not, it may not weigh in your favour to have a nanny.


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Forum: Parenting Issues 01-15-2021, 01:55 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 291
Posted By rockscan
If you need child care to work it is a section 7...

If you need child care to work it is a section 7 expense.

If you need a nanny because you cant handle your kids thats not a section 7.


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