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Forum: Financial Issues 03-26-2022, 10:03 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 508
Posted By nofrills
Sorry, I'm not disgruntle, my ex is the one who...

Sorry, I'm not disgruntle, my ex is the one who has instigated the review.

I've happily been paying my CS and true up payments every year in accordance to the Tables and our SA.

This will be...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-24-2022, 11:49 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 508
Posted By nofrills
Yes. I have all emails containing my returns and...

Yes. I have all emails containing my returns and NOAs to her old lawyer. All payments were e-transfers.

Kids 9 and 11, we share custody. No post secondary yet.

I think she want to change or...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-23-2022, 10:29 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 508
Posted By nofrills
Review of CS and S7

Hi again,

My ex has retained a new lawyer to review CS and S7 sharing. We have been separated for 6 years and we have an agreement in place.

My income is from employment and in investments(cap...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-23-2022, 10:02 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,815
Posted By nofrills
Update. My ex decided to vaccinate the kids...

Update.

My ex decided to vaccinate the kids a few weeks ago on her own.

She had planned to take the kids to FLA for March break, I told her I wasn't going to sign the consent letter unless the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-12-2022, 07:16 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,815
Posted By nofrills
I have been in self-quarantine since Christmas...

I have been in self-quarantine since Christmas eve and still in isolation for at least another 5 days.

I think the vaccine does protect you for short interactions. On Christmas eve, we were...
Forum: Parenting Issues 01-11-2022, 09:56 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,815
Posted By nofrills
Hi, Sorry, I've been tuned out for the last few...

Hi,
Sorry, I've been tuned out for the last few weeks because my daughter got COIVD on Christamas Eve, then the ex got it 4 days later, then my son got it last Monday. I am double vaxxed and was...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-21-2021, 11:20 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 392
Posted By nofrills
thanks for everyone's input. I really appreciate...

thanks for everyone's input. I really appreciate it.

1. I've sent her an email asking her if she agrees to having the kids vaccinated.
2. I've asked her for her vaccination status and if she's...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 12-20-2021, 11:13 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 392
Posted By nofrills
Ex wants to ammend separation agreement

Hi Forum.
My anti-vaxx ex is at it again. She wants to change our separation agreement with non-material garbage and says that she will pushing for emergency relief and says I'll be paying her...
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-16-2021, 06:39 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,815
Posted By nofrills
Thanks for the responses. Very helpful knowing...

Thanks for the responses. Very helpful knowing the courts are moving in the right direction.

Does anyone have any links to the case law I can review?
Forum: Parenting Issues 12-16-2021, 12:17 AM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,815
Posted By nofrills
Covid Vaccination for kids 8 and 11.

Hi Forum,

Here's my situation. My kids are 8 and 11, I share custody.

My ex is an anti-vax extremist. I'm 2x-vaxxed and I've had no success in trying to getting the ex to agree to having the...
Forum: Financial Issues 12-02-2021, 01:40 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,735
Posted By nofrills
Hi, I'm attaching the Department of Justice...

Hi,
I'm attaching the Department of Justice review of the Child Support Guidelines that review the adjustments to income. They give a brief background to each adjustment, the rationale and provide...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2021, 08:20 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,735
Posted By nofrills
sorry, here is the correct link ...

sorry, here is the correct link

https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/fl-lf/child-enfant/guide/w1-f1.html#s1
Forum: Financial Issues 11-26-2021, 08:17 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,735
Posted By nofrills
Line 150 is the starting point. If you have a...

Line 150 is the starting point. If you have a simple tax return it's fine, however if you have investment income or self employed, you may have additional deductions/additions. Divorsemate has the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-20-2021, 07:47 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 840
Posted By nofrills
thanks for everyone's input. @coolGuy41, I...

thanks for everyone's input.

@coolGuy41, I have the kids 6/14 days, shared custody.

My alternatives that I'm thinking about.

1. I say no. She keeps the Health Cards and I keep the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-19-2021, 09:46 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 840
Posted By nofrills
Passports

Hello everyone,
Hoping you can give me an opinion or some advice.

In my agreement, I keep the passports and provide the passports to the ex when she wants to travel. We also exchange consent...
Forum: Financial Issues 07-14-2021, 11:42 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,576
Posted By nofrills
http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/fl-lf/child-enf...

http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/fl-lf/child-enfant/guide/w1-f1.html#s1

this is a link on how to manually calculate income for Child Support.

Lawyers rely on DivorseMate but many lawyers...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-08-2020, 11:39 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,582
Posted By nofrills
Hypothetically, if my income goes to 200k to 50k...

Hypothetically, if my income goes to 200k to 50k and hers remains at 130k, and we adjust at year end, the table would turn and she would owe me money. (not sure how I feel about taking it)

Has...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-07-2020, 10:30 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 3,480
Posted By nofrills
With regards to the Eligible Dependent Credit, I...

With regards to the Eligible Dependent Credit, I was re-assessed and my claim was rejected because I had a set-off amount. However, I made two appeals to the CRA and on the second appeal, they...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-07-2020, 10:11 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,582
Posted By nofrills
thanks for your responses. With COVID, I...

thanks for your responses.
With COVID, I imagine this year I will be on the low side closer to 200k and she is a steady 130k. We do recalculate our incomes every year and make a true up payment to...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-04-2020, 09:31 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,582
Posted By nofrills
Forced Employment Termination clause in a separation agreement

Hello Forum,

Ex and I are in process of amending my separation agreement. Ex wants to increase my extra-ordinary child expense ratio. My ex has done a number of nasty things to me and I'm trying...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-09-2020, 03:54 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,233
Posted By nofrills
Completely frustrating. Other than this, it...

Completely frustrating.

Other than this, it seems like I can only keep track of it. No enforceability or accountablity unless you go to court.

I almost feel like breaking the rules myself...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-07-2020, 08:48 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,233
Posted By nofrills
Ex has failed to return the kids to me today. What do I do?

Hi everyone,

here is some background, I share custody of my two kids (7 and 9) with my ex. We have an agreed schedule and separation agreement in place.

We had agreed that she could have the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-27-2020, 10:42 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,048
Posted By nofrills
Another example of the unfairness is the Eligible...

Another example of the unfairness is the Eligible Dependant Credit, whereby the use of Child support offsets in your agreement deny the payer of the credit. (worth around $2500/year)

I sent...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-14-2020, 09:58 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,523
Posted By nofrills
thank you Abba435 I like the BIFFF and your...

thank you Abba435

I like the BIFFF and your pig analogy. I just hope I can hold myself back.

https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/doc/2020/2020onsc2883/2020onsc2883.html

this was a good read. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-14-2020, 08:07 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,523
Posted By nofrills
thanks you for your help and support. I really...

thanks you for your help and support. I really need it to cope with this garbage as it's emotionally draining.

I only record my conversations to protect myself in the event that she makes any...
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