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Forum: Domestic Violence Today, 06:22 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 132
Posted By iona6656
There are those cases, they've been posted here...

There are those cases, they've been posted here from time to time.

And I don't think this should be in the same breath. At all. What is talked about in this ruling is damages for substantiated...
Forum: Domestic Violence Today, 06:20 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 132
Posted By iona6656
I'm going to look for the article now. This...

I'm going to look for the article now.

This is amazing. SERIOUSLY AMAZING.

When I left- I started putting together a small claims case against my ex for the absolute hell he put me through with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-17-2022, 05:02 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 136
Posted By iona6656
I appreciate the sentiment- but I really don't...

I appreciate the sentiment- but I really don't care about things working in my favour. I'm really just trying to figure out how to keep her safe- and her skin cared for. She's having an extreme...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-17-2022, 04:58 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 136
Posted By iona6656
That's what we were doing up to March- and a...

That's what we were doing up to March- and a couple of times she did come home with minor reactions and skin irritations- enough to need the prescription antihistamine and steroid ointment- but not...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-17-2022, 01:09 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 136
Posted By iona6656
Do I start trying to reduce access?

Okay- ex is an idiot. But now it's actually affecting D5

My ex has EOW and Wednesday evenings.

He has had full weekends with D5 since March.

For the last couple of months- 7 times in...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-17-2022, 12:54 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 172
Posted By iona6656
In my experience. You can't. You have to- but...

In my experience. You can't. You have to- but you're not co-parenting. You're parallel parenting if you have joint custody. And someone will give in.

This idea that you can be an abusive partner...
Forum: General Chat 05-10-2022, 02:57 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,649
Posted By iona6656
I think there has to be. I think a lot of this...

I think there has to be. I think a lot of this stems from the fact that I have a lot of decision making authority over our daughter - and at the sessions he even tried to play stupid when our PC...
Forum: General Chat 05-10-2022, 12:47 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,649
Posted By iona6656
Update- back we go

I thought I would update this thread- as I don't see a lot of discussion of the use of co-parent counsellors/parenting coordinator post-settlement.

In our final parenting agreement- we agreed...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-09-2022, 05:58 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 659
Posted By iona6656
totally agree. Go for 50/50. Unless there is...

totally agree.

Go for 50/50. Unless there is really something wildly unique about your situation- I don't see why you shouldn't get 50/50.

Offer a VERY FAST graduated parenting schedule. Move...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2022, 03:43 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 657
Posted By iona6656
don't take the bait. ignore it. This place...

don't take the bait. ignore it.

This place is a wealth of advice and information. but it can also be off-putting if you are a victim of intimate-partner violence, in any form.

There is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2022, 01:28 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 657
Posted By iona6656
+1 additionally- make sure your separation...

+1

additionally- make sure your separation and parenting agreement is very detailed. less room for interpretation = less arguing. Also- I don't know how you all make decisions now- but with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2022, 01:25 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 657
Posted By iona6656
ignore this. all of it.

ignore this. all of it.
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-21-2022, 02:12 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 359
Posted By iona6656
what about setting up a virtual visit with the...

what about setting up a virtual visit with the kids family doctor to talk about it?

it doesn't sound like she's attending FREEDOM! rallies- so, as you said, she's not vehemently anti-vax, but...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-20-2022, 06:43 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 678
Posted By iona6656
I was told FRO won't enforce section 7 without...

I was told FRO won't enforce section 7 without actual amounts in the agreement. And when you need to update the percentage paid- you have to go back and update your order. But maybe that's not true?
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-20-2022, 06:21 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 758
Posted By iona6656
eh. Disagree. one thing our PC said to us early...

eh. Disagree. one thing our PC said to us early in the process- "most parents can have flexibility in the process- how you apply the parenting agreement. Timing, etc....you guys cannot". So no- he...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-20-2022, 06:09 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 307
Posted By iona6656
This is a broad strokes interpretation. Overly...

This is a broad strokes interpretation. Overly so.

Were you subject to a supervised visitation order?

There are a lot of reasons supervision is in place. Yes- they are *usually* meant to be...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-14-2022, 01:09 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 758
Posted By iona6656
Yes- it's being documented. Through email mostly-...

Yes- it's being documented. Through email mostly- but also there's a lot of other screwy shit that he's doing that is actually affecting her health- so I've asked to return to our Parenting...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-13-2022, 01:11 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 758
Posted By iona6656
He's trying it again on Monday. Our...

He's trying it again on Monday.

Our agreement says that on easter- parenting is split from Thursday after school to Sat at 6pm, then to Tuesday drop off. HOWEVER, her school- since it's private-...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-12-2022, 12:10 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 758
Posted By iona6656
Yeah- it is, the parenting agreement reads that...

Yeah- it is, the parenting agreement reads that his parenting time is from Fridays after school to drop off on Monday morning.

the clause reads as follows.:

"The child shall be in Applicant's...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-12-2022, 10:25 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 758
Posted By iona6656
Can Non-Residential Parent decide whether to send kid to school?

Mom is primary resident parent, and has sole custody.

Dad has twice kept kid home on a Monday because he "planned" other activities. He didn't tell me beforehand- nor the school, who called me to...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-30-2022, 02:50 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 245
Posted By iona6656
I'm going to disagree with Rocksan on this- I say...

I'm going to disagree with Rocksan on this- I say put it in as a bargaining chip.

I was successful in getting my ex to pay my mom his s7 share of her watching our daughter after school in our...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-01-2022, 03:41 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,815
Posted By iona6656
In my opinion Pazaratz overstepped in his...

In my opinion Pazaratz overstepped in his commentary on the father's view. I get that his rulings can be a bit kooky. But he seemed to take real issue with the dad's evidence- which, if it wasn't...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-01-2022, 03:34 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,815
Posted By iona6656
Is it really unclear though? I think there's been...

Is it really unclear though? I think there's been 5 cases on this in Ontario? and Pazaratz is the only one who didn't find in favour of erring on the side of caution with the vaccine.

Also- can...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-28-2022, 02:47 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,815
Posted By iona6656
I'm waiting. I'm also waiting for a true...

I'm waiting.

I'm also waiting for a true battle of the experts.

While I kinda agree with the Pazaratz ruling ^....my concern is that it reads as if he was ruling *against* the father rather...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-02-2022, 03:15 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,620
Posted By iona6656
I always feel sad for the kids in these type of...

I always feel sad for the kids in these type of divorce battle situations.

But also- I really REALLY want to see the decision on this case reported if it ever makes it to court. Sheeit- I want to...
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