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Forum: Parenting Issues 06-14-2022, 10:31 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 377
Posted By iona6656
Also, I would lose my ever loving shit if my ex's...

Also, I would lose my ever loving shit if my ex's gf/wife tried to insert herself into a mother's day event with our daughter. Quietly, of course- and likely to my therapist. But I totally get where...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-14-2022, 10:29 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 377
Posted By iona6656
I don't disagree with you that we all have to...

I don't disagree with you that we all have to work with the partners our ex's choose to bring into our kids life- we all have no say.

However, in my opinion, I do think it's important to have...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-06-2022, 10:43 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,026
Posted By iona6656
I'm going to walk back my comment about the...

I'm going to walk back my comment about the urgent motion and agree with Stillbreathing here.

Maybe not an urgent motion. But I would be bringing some kind of action in family court. My concern...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-03-2022, 09:57 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,026
Posted By iona6656
while most of the time- I'm happy to ignore your...

while most of the time- I'm happy to ignore your responses- I think much of your "advice" in this section of the forum could be potential damaging and dangerous to victims of DV and IPV- male or...
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-02-2022, 05:45 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 265
Posted By iona6656
There is a general victim compensation fund I...

There is a general victim compensation fund I believe. You apply- and they will pay for a certain amount of counselling sessions with a registered therapist or social worker.
Forum: Domestic Violence 06-02-2022, 05:42 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,026
Posted By iona6656
one thing to the ocnsider is the wording of no...

one thing to the ocnsider is the wording of no contact order.

To the OP- take a look at your 'no contact order' and/or his bail conditions. Is there a there is a statement in there saying that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-02-2022, 04:36 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 805
Posted By iona6656
lol. they did not threaten me- when I put quotes...

lol. they did not threaten me- when I put quotes around something it usually means I'm paraphrasing.

They flat out indicated that it wasn't safe to take my kid back to an environment where a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-31-2022, 05:32 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 391
Posted By iona6656
this is what I meant: "The aging of a child...

this is what I meant:

"The aging of a child does not automatically constitute a material change, but it can be a major factor". It will be fact specific.

Look at what the OP has said may be...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-31-2022, 05:26 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 805
Posted By iona6656
this is what I find so odd. When I dealt with...

this is what I find so odd. When I dealt with CAS_the caseworker who interviewed me said IF I was to go back to my ex- they would intervene and potentially remove the child from my care.

They...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-31-2022, 05:18 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 391
Posted By iona6656
nope. Not always. If the courts think the...

nope. Not always.

If the courts think the parent isn't stable enough- they can and sometimes do order indefinite supervised access.

What the OP will need to do is get help. Document that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-31-2022, 05:16 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 391
Posted By iona6656
No, it's not. There is case law that says the...

No, it's not. There is case law that says the mere passage of time does not constitute a material change.
Forum: Political Issues 05-25-2022, 04:32 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 171
Posted By iona6656
Tort doesn't 'end'- it evolves. Et voila...

Tort doesn't 'end'- it evolves.

Et voila the evolution.
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-25-2022, 04:31 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,684
Posted By iona6656
I don't disagree with you- that's why I think...

I don't disagree with you- that's why I think this ruling is going to be scoped. There are a couple of factors in this decision- the kids have no relationship with the father. There's no...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-25-2022, 04:25 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 711
Posted By iona6656
A therapist. A therapist will help you...

A therapist. A therapist will help you understand.

Cause clearly you don't get it.

Assault is not IPV. IPV is something different- it's more insidious. Seriously go google "why is domestic...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-25-2022, 12:49 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,684
Posted By iona6656
I really think you're missing how IPV works- and...

I really think you're missing how IPV works- and the implications and trauma it causes. If you think there is even a thought of "how much can I get if I get one more punch to the face'- you've...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-25-2022, 12:24 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,684
Posted By iona6656
How could I get that under a spousal support...

How could I get that under a spousal support claim? I was the higher income earner.

I think what you are all missing is this is not about a perceived setup for abuse- it's substantiated. Most of...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-25-2022, 12:15 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 711
Posted By iona6656
Also- if you want a laugh- but in like a sad...

Also- if you want a laugh- but in like a sad you-have-to-laugh-cause-misogyny-is-scary kinda way- read the comments under the globe and mail article. The menfolk aren't having it!
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-25-2022, 11:40 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 711
Posted By iona6656
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/canada/article-sup...

https://www.theglobeandmail.com/canada/article-supreme-court-says-one-incident-of-family-violence-may-justify-childs/

and here is the SCC case:
...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-25-2022, 10:38 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 805
Posted By iona6656
I've dealt with CAS before- which city are you...

I've dealt with CAS before- which city are you in?

Don't get discouraged- there are really great case workers and supervisors in each city (from my experience). I have dealt with them both in the...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-24-2022, 05:17 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 463
Posted By iona6656
All of this sounds good. Does your...

All of this sounds good.

Does your therapist have experience dealing with women leaving abusive marriages? It's important in more ways than you realize.

One thing from my own experience is...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-24-2022, 05:05 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,684
Posted By iona6656
It is very unique in the context of family law....

It is very unique in the context of family law. To get this type of award- especially the punitive award- you would have to go through a civil case. And seeing as it is most often women who are the...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-24-2022, 04:58 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,684
Posted By iona6656
Pretty much. The financial damage caused by my...

Pretty much. The financial damage caused by my abuse is substantial. I'm not even talking about the emotional toll and the years of therapy I've gone through to deal with the PTS, and not let it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-24-2022, 10:05 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 307
Posted By iona6656
Severe atopic dermatitis- extreme eczema which is...

Severe atopic dermatitis- extreme eczema which is prone to infection - I forget the medical name- but it's called weeping eczema. It's terrible and painful for her.


Yeah- she's seen a pediatric...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-19-2022, 06:22 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,684
Posted By iona6656
There are those cases, they've been posted here...

There are those cases, they've been posted here from time to time.

And I don't think this should be in the same breath. At all. What is talked about in this ruling is damages for substantiated...
Forum: Domestic Violence 05-19-2022, 06:20 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 1,684
Posted By iona6656
I'm going to look for the article now. This...

I'm going to look for the article now.

This is amazing. SERIOUSLY AMAZING.

When I left- I started putting together a small claims case against my ex for the absolute hell he put me through with...
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