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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2021, 08:26 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 666
Posted By Stillbreathing
If you do that while represented your lawyer may...

If you do that while represented your lawyer may dump you as a client. Direct your own lawyer to help you draft an offer to settle and send it to the other side.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-10-2021, 10:33 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 461
Posted By Stillbreathing
You may do similar work and have read her...

You may do similar work and have read her employers viewpoints on work/life balance and flexibility but you do not have the legal right to determine what is in your ex spouse or your children’s best...
Forum: Political Issues 09-09-2021, 11:27 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 2,883
Posted By Stillbreathing
Helena in your original post you claim this...

Helena in your original post you claim this government website “names and shames men”. I visited the link you provided and you are incorrect. It clearly states they are asking for assistance to find...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-09-2021, 01:55 AM
Replies: 22
Views: 461
Posted By Stillbreathing
The reason is you are no longer a married couple...

The reason is you are no longer a married couple who are living together and mutually looking after the best interests of the children and family unit. You are separated and headed for a divorce. As...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-03-2021, 10:28 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 315
Posted By Stillbreathing
FRO are extremely slow to respond. I found it...

FRO are extremely slow to respond. I found it helpful to contact the Ontario Ombudsman and file a complaint. Once I did, FRO quickly responded and we got the issues resolved. The Ombudsman are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-02-2021, 10:31 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 635
Posted By Stillbreathing
Rocksan is correct regarding the expiry date on...

Rocksan is correct regarding the expiry date on your ex’s offer. If after careful consideration you are comfortable with her offer then you accept it. If not you make a your own offer, have a lawyer...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-31-2021, 11:08 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 822
Posted By Stillbreathing
Brampton 33 both yourself and Tayken are correct....

Brampton 33 both yourself and Tayken are correct. Tayken is correct in that you should still follow the order if it’s the only one you have. You should try at all times to be the party who comes to...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-30-2021, 02:55 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 474
Posted By Stillbreathing
So sorry you have had such a traumatic experience...

So sorry you have had such a traumatic experience with your ex and that you identify with some of the elements of my posts. However, that being said, your situation is nothing like mine. You are...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-27-2021, 01:05 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 474
Posted By Stillbreathing
Stillpaying. You are incorrect. We have had...

Stillpaying. You are incorrect. We have had motions which I have won 95% of the time. The motions however, did not really settle any issues or move the case forward. You obviously have not read my...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-27-2021, 10:20 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 474
Posted By Stillbreathing
Thanks Tayken.

Thanks Tayken.
Forum: Financial Issues 08-26-2021, 08:50 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 474
Posted By Stillbreathing
Unfortunately I allowed my previous lawyer to...

Unfortunately I allowed my previous lawyer to talk me into trying med/arb because we were getting nowhere after several years in court, without a trial date on the horizon because my ex’s lawyer said...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-25-2021, 11:00 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 413
Posted By Stillbreathing
If you have no income but sold a house and that...

If you have no income but sold a house and that money sits in the bank they will look at two things: 1) any interest that money makes
2) capital gains made from the sale of the house
Both those...
Forum: Financial Issues 08-19-2021, 11:31 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 474
Posted By Stillbreathing
Disclosure of non-existent assets

As many of you know, my ex is certifiably looney tunes which plays a large part in why, 10 years later litigation is ongoing with no issues resolved and no trial or arb date occurring due to an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-01-2021, 02:21 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 812
Posted By Stillbreathing
According to my lawyer, excluding your children...

According to my lawyer, excluding your children from your will is possible but not automatic just because you put it your will. The courts consider your children to be your legal and rightful heirs....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-29-2021, 11:33 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 812
Posted By Stillbreathing
In my case I will have to keep all the...

In my case I will have to keep all the documentation for my children when my STBX passes away so that they have ammunition to sue his estate. He is missing a large chunk of his brain (literally) and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2021, 03:44 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 558
Posted By Stillbreathing
You ask for an adjournment. My ex has...

You ask for an adjournment. My ex has successfully stalled snd avoided trial for 10 years now. Make a reasonable offer to settle laying out in detail the steps and time frame to arrive at 50/50. You...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-28-2021, 03:27 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 727
Posted By Stillbreathing
That’s obviously not a realistic offer and to add...

That’s obviously not a realistic offer and to add a bit of humour… when they are teens he’ll be begging and paying you to take them back.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-21-2021, 12:25 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 798
Posted By Stillbreathing
The only time I had my kids in JK private school...

The only time I had my kids in JK private school (Montessori) was when public school JK was only 1/2 day and I worked therefor needed a full day of childcare. The cost of before and after school care...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-28-2021, 08:40 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 710
Posted By Stillbreathing
If she can’t buy you out then the house will need...

If she can’t buy you out then the house will need to be sold. If you are not living in the matrimonial home but she is then you can request she pay you occupation rent until it is sold. If she does...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-26-2021, 08:28 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 687
Posted By Stillbreathing
Let me tell you a thing about costs. Generally...

Let me tell you a thing about costs. Generally speaking...they’re bullshit. I have been litigating for ten years so I do have an onset or two of experience. During that time my ex has breached orders...
Forum: General Chat 05-24-2021, 10:10 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,131
Posted By Stillbreathing
First of all, I’m so sorry for your loss....

First of all, I’m so sorry for your loss. Although you have been separated for two years, this is a person who you were married to and share a history with and children.

It must have been...
Forum: Divorce Support 05-23-2021, 04:24 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 962
Posted By Stillbreathing
You haven’t mentioned intensive couples...

You haven’t mentioned intensive couples counselling. Have the two of you attended marriage counselling? If you have and that is unsuccessful, then you can leave your marriage with a clear conscience...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-20-2021, 09:35 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,361
Posted By Stillbreathing
In order to qualify your income has to be far...

In order to qualify your income has to be far below the poverty line or $0. In addition you can have NO assets. If the matrimonial home sells and that money is sitting in trust and you are unable to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-19-2021, 11:44 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,155
Posted By Stillbreathing
We both agreed to go to trial and 10 years later...

We both agreed to go to trial and 10 years later are still waiting. Right now with the pandemic and the courts being backlogged beyond belief, unless your issues involve the life and death of your...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 05-19-2021, 09:22 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,155
Posted By Stillbreathing
How long to go to trial in Ontario? You really...

How long to go to trial in Ontario? You really want an answer? Are you sure? It depends on the other party and how good their lawyer(s) are at stalling. Take my case for instance. We have been...
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