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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 12:01 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,448
Posted By rockscan
Some lawyers will do this. My husbands lawyers...

Some lawyers will do this. My husbands lawyers practice was to send the documents as soon as they were received and then request to book an appointment. We would review the docs and then set an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 08:54 AM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,448
Posted By rockscan
Which is why I say ask your lawyer to send the...

Which is why I say ask your lawyer to send the docs without reviewing and you will book an appointment to discuss/give direction.

If the other lawyer wants to be a dick then you can respond with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 04:03 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,448
Posted By rockscan
Your lawyer works for you not herself. She does...

Your lawyer works for you not herself. She does not need to review things before you do and provide her suggestions. You are fully capable of reading it and writing down your thoughts and questions....
Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 02:05 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,448
Posted By rockscan
So do this, tell your lawyer to just send his...

So do this, tell your lawyer to just send his changes and you will review before setting up an appointment to discuss. Look at the changes and decide if they are worth fighting over. If they are...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2021, 12:28 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 307
Posted By rockscan
My husbands ex actually argued orally that she...

My husbands ex actually argued orally that she did not understand his financial priorities when he spent money on things when it could have gone to his kids. The judge said to her I dont care if he...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2021, 11:00 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 307
Posted By rockscan
We had to order transcripts from a motion to...

We had to order transcripts from a motion to confirm what the judge said in their endorsement. When I read them I was amazed and entertained at how the judge handled my husbands ex. The ex claimed...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2021, 10:56 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 176
Posted By rockscan
I made my comment based on a few things PH had...

I made my comment based on a few things PH had mentioned in previous threads. I have a feeling kid has chosen to live with PH and ex may come back demanding kid move home to avoid paying support. In...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2021, 07:02 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 176
Posted By rockscan
Theres no point for either assessment. They are...

Theres no point for either assessment. They are old enough to make their own decisions.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-21-2021, 10:15 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 176
Posted By rockscan
How old are the kids?

How old are the kids?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-21-2021, 06:39 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 307
Posted By rockscan
Not necessarily. It could be that there was mud...

Not necessarily. It could be that there was mud slinging but their case was defended successfully. They could say all kinds of shit but if parts of it were true and relevant then that was why they...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-21-2021, 04:19 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 307
Posted By rockscan
How is this relevant to the matter? Were the kids...

How is this relevant to the matter? Were the kids in danger? Were they left alone? Was there an emergency? Was it on the other parents time?

Petty shit that upsets you is not relevant. Sure going...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-21-2021, 03:00 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 307
Posted By rockscan
Your affidavit should lay out facts only. Calling...

Your affidavit should lay out facts only. Calling the other parent names or making inferences about their behaviour makes you look bad to the judge. They see crazy people daily, they dont care.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-21-2021, 12:13 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 187
Posted By rockscan
These posts go back to my original point that all...

These posts go back to my original point that all the financial statements do is draw criticism on things being spent on.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-20-2021, 09:41 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 187
Posted By rockscan
Its a financial statement to give a judge a...

Its a financial statement to give a judge a snapshot of expenses. They are barely looked at unless questioned like a parson who earns $2000 per month spending $1000 on entertainment, meals out,...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-20-2021, 09:42 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 328
Posted By rockscan
As a child of an ugly divorce I can safely say...

As a child of an ugly divorce I can safely say that growing up helped me learn what really happened. Being abused by a parent is the worst because of the trust involved.

You are doing a good thing...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-19-2021, 12:07 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 828
Posted By rockscan
You mean the debt you are incurring by being...

You mean the debt you are incurring by being unreasonable? Why should he pay that for you again?
Forum: Financial Issues 10-18-2021, 06:19 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 328
Posted By rockscan
No it was sympathy for the kids. They have one...

No it was sympathy for the kids. They have one parent trying their best and the other parent not functioning. Kids in these situations have to deal with an a-hole for a mother.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-18-2021, 08:58 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 328
Posted By rockscan
The reasonable consent is for things like sports....

The reasonable consent is for things like sports. School is automatic without consent. Hopefully your kids realize their mother is barely functioning and they will need to carry a heavier load.

I...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-17-2021, 08:25 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 328
Posted By rockscan
I dont know how loans work outside of Ontario. If...

I dont know how loans work outside of Ontario. If your agreement says nothing about school then you could tell kid they pay 1/3. A new order would help set what is paid so you dont have to pay her...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-17-2021, 03:38 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 328
Posted By rockscan
Kids are responsible for 1/3 and that is after...

Kids are responsible for 1/3 and that is after grants and awards.

You could go back to court to have support set. She does have to pay support for the two who live with you but if she isnt...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-17-2021, 03:08 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 328
Posted By rockscan
Technically you erred years ago when you didnt...

Technically you erred years ago when you didnt have an income imputed to her but at this point that ship has sailed. What is she going to do when this kid goes to school? Welfare?

Because you are...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-17-2021, 11:42 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 828
Posted By rockscan
Your kids are going to have differing levels of...

Your kids are going to have differing levels of lifestyle in both houses. Would you be open to sharing more with your ex if you were to marry someone who makes more money than him? If you were so...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-17-2021, 11:39 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 828
Posted By rockscan
Youre only entitled to the increases when you...

Youre only entitled to the increases when you were married. Plus he has been paying you for what must be five years by now. If you had finalized the paperwork five years ago the support would likely...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-15-2021, 12:42 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 823
Posted By rockscan
And heres where you lose sympathy. My mom stayed...

And heres where you lose sympathy. My mom stayed home because my dad was a traveling salesman. Someone had to be there for us until a certain age. As a result, she lost about 15 years in the...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2021, 08:34 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 828
Posted By rockscan
You are getting divorced. You are no longer...

You are getting divorced. You are no longer entitled to that lifestyle or his income. Your friends are not lawyers. Get it through your head.
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