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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 10:29 AM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,444
Posted By Brampton33
This may not be possible with a lawyer on...

This may not be possible with a lawyer on retention. A retained lawyer has a legal and ethical obligation to review the documents from the other side in their entirety. They do this as well so they...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2021, 01:54 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 165
Posted By Brampton33
The law favours equal parenting unless its...

The law favours equal parenting unless its impractical to do so (ie: distance) or there is a legitimate threat to the health/safety of a child. At 12, it is still too young to separate an equal...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2021, 11:33 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 302
Posted By Brampton33
I will play the cynical card here. Judges are...

I will play the cynical card here. Judges are not new to the profession. They were likely lawyers for years and years, and then called to be a judge. So they aren't "young go-getters" looking to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-22-2021, 09:36 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 302
Posted By Brampton33
Agree with Lovingdad1234. Stick to facts and...

Agree with Lovingdad1234. Stick to facts and limit your opinions. Unless you are qualified to render such opinions. Judges do this for a living. They smirk when a plumber starts delving into...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-14-2021, 09:38 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 828
Posted By Brampton33
I have read your posts. I am concerned about...

I have read your posts. I am concerned about what is "truly" important to you. You will have your kids 1/2 the time. Kids don't necessarily care about 5 vacations per year. What they care about...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-14-2021, 01:25 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 279
Posted By Brampton33
And what a collosal waste of money! My ex would...

And what a collosal waste of money! My ex would file extremely lengthy briefs. My lawyer said she had to do her diligence as a lawyer and read the whole thing. And then I had to respond to her...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-12-2021, 09:52 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 828
Posted By Brampton33
With some lawyers, the very first question they...

With some lawyers, the very first question they ask is “Do you have a house?”. If you say “yes”, they know what kind of capital you have access to.

OPs lawyer knows she will get an...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-07-2021, 10:44 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 201
Posted By Brampton33
Although less relevant during COVID as court...

Although less relevant during COVID as court appears to be virtual, you may wish to consider someone local. If you are in Sudbury, it may not make sense to have a lawyer practicing in Windsor.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-06-2021, 11:06 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 279
Posted By Brampton33
My ex will say "no" and I can guarantee you that...

My ex will say "no" and I can guarantee you that won't be the truth. My ex isn't really an angel in terms of honesty in our court proceedings.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-06-2021, 10:47 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 279
Posted By Brampton33
Privacy during Virtual Conferences

Traditionally, case conferences and settlement conferences done in person would be limited to the parties/lawyers involved only in the courtroom. So you cannot bring your friends and family. If it...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-01-2021, 09:45 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 397
Posted By Brampton33
Definitely have your answer ready and remember to...

Definitely have your answer ready and remember to stay child focused. Don't throw other parent under the bus. An answer such as "I think other parent is wonderful parent but I too have lots to offer...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-29-2021, 09:36 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 356
Posted By Brampton33
All depends on the type of application he files. ...

All depends on the type of application he files. If he files a Form 14 Motion for sale of house, it will be taken care of immediately.
If he files a general application listing off all the issues...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-29-2021, 08:56 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 356
Posted By Brampton33
OP has known for months now that she will have to...

OP has known for months now that she will have to vacate the house. She has been told by banks she cannot take over mortgage on her own.

The problem is that OP does not want to accept her new...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-29-2021, 08:49 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 572
Posted By Brampton33
I have read your previous posts. If you want it...

I have read your previous posts. If you want it to be your house too, buy your ex out. But you yourself said that the banks won't approve you for a mortgage on your own. So no, it won't be your...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-28-2021, 09:31 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 572
Posted By Brampton33
You are holding your ex hostage from moving on...

You are holding your ex hostage from moving on with his finances and household because of your entitlement? That won't look good in court.

Your parenting schedule has zero correlation with...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2021, 03:18 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,559
Posted By Brampton33
Fair enough. I'll just start referring to kids...

Fair enough. I'll just start referring to kids with my last name only. Tit for Tat. Thanks for the insight.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-28-2021, 02:28 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,559
Posted By Brampton33
Its a hyphenated last name for both kids. My ex...

Its a hyphenated last name for both kids. My ex fought hard in her court papers to try to keep it as her name only. She was lambasted by judges for treating kids as her possession, being...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-28-2021, 11:01 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 520
Posted By Brampton33
I wish I knew all the info I have now back when I...

I wish I knew all the info I have now back when I was first separating. My wife and I were in the process of separating and she acted first. She emptied the house of all furniture and started the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-27-2021, 01:08 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,559
Posted By Brampton33
Fair enough. For me I think what is more...

Fair enough. For me I think what is more frustrating is the game-playing and using the kids as pawns in the game. Don't mess with their heads. I know for a fact my ex never says my last name when...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-27-2021, 11:56 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,559
Posted By Brampton33
My last name is shorter and earlier in the...

My last name is shorter and earlier in the alphabet so applying the same logic would mean using my last name only if that logic were to be applied.

However, unlike Iona, my ex is extremely...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-27-2021, 09:52 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,559
Posted By Brampton33
Glad I found this thread....as I think this issue...

Glad I found this thread....as I think this issue applies to my situation. I had to fight in court to get my last name referenced in our children's legal names, so now it is a hyphenated last name. ...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-24-2021, 02:24 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 731
Posted By Brampton33
Likely what transpired is that you told YOUR side...

Likely what transpired is that you told YOUR side of the story and the two lawyers said what they said. Then they checked up your name and got the WHOLE story, and dropped you for the reasons they...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-24-2021, 01:51 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 731
Posted By Brampton33
This sentence alone leads me to believe Rockscan...

This sentence alone leads me to believe Rockscan (and I) are likely not far off in our suspicions of why you are backlisted.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-24-2021, 01:34 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 731
Posted By Brampton33
Being blacklisted by lawyers means that you are...

Being blacklisted by lawyers means that you are on a list amongst the legal community of persons not to deal with. Its either you were unreasonable, difficult, argumentative, didn't pay, didn't...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-24-2021, 10:51 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 532
Posted By Brampton33
Sick Days

My ex and I have bitter feelings towards one another. Lets say the breakup has been sour. And now its a constant one-upping one another.

I suspect my ex fakes "sick days" so that she can spend...
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