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Forum: Parenting Issues 07-11-2020, 06:47 PM
Replies: 8
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Posted By seekinganswers79
We share time 50/50. This is not an attempt to...

We share time 50/50. This is not an attempt to keep them away from their dad or not give him time. This is purely me being worried that they won't be properly supervised as it relates to covid. He...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-11-2020, 06:44 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 668
Posted By seekinganswers79
I'm undecided about school. It will depend on if...

I'm undecided about school. It will depend on if there are multiple options presented by the government.

I keep them socially distanced from others when we go out for our daily outdoor time. We...
Forum: Parenting Issues 07-11-2020, 06:04 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 668
Posted By seekinganswers79
Summer vacation request

My ex has asked if he can take the kids a few extra days so that they can go away. He's planning to rent a trailer in a trailer park/resort here in Ontario for a week. I'm overrun with anxiety over...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-19-2020, 04:03 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 655
Posted By seekinganswers79
Good to know. Thanks.

Good to know. Thanks.
Forum: Financial Issues 05-19-2020, 03:59 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 655
Posted By seekinganswers79
Daycare costs due to Covid

Both my ex and I are thankfully still working right now. We've both been able to work from home, or make adjustments to our schedules, and therefore have been able to keep our kids at home on our...
Forum: Financial Issues 05-19-2020, 03:52 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 672
Posted By seekinganswers79
Just to close the loop on this, I did in fact end...

Just to close the loop on this, I did in fact end up saying no.

He ended up adjusting his closing date to the 25th so that it matched up with the close date of our sale. No bridge loan needed.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2020, 02:25 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 634
Posted By seekinganswers79
Lol Thank you. :) Here's hoping he doesn't...

Lol Thank you. :)

Here's hoping he doesn't waste any more time arguing this.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2020, 01:30 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 634
Posted By seekinganswers79
We're both represented. He's messaging me...

We're both represented. He's messaging me directly (not through lawyers) trying to get me to agree to a lower number. I'm saying no.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2020, 01:15 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 634
Posted By seekinganswers79
The valuation was completed.

The valuation was completed.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-27-2020, 11:44 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 634
Posted By seekinganswers79
How black and white is the equalization payment?

He is disputing the equalization payment amount that was calculated. Mainly it's his pension (~$150k) versus mine (~$30k) that is resulting in a $50k equalization payment to me.

How clear cut is...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-24-2020, 03:31 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 672
Posted By seekinganswers79
Why is he asking? How much time you got? lol ...

Why is he asking? How much time you got? lol

Honestly, he probably never even considered the possibility that I'd say no. He's selfish, self-centred, displays narcissistic behaviours. This is one...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-24-2020, 02:44 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 672
Posted By seekinganswers79
I used a few more words, but that was the gist of...

I used a few more words, but that was the gist of my reply. lol

I'm not sure what he's going to do. I need to keep reminding myself that it's not my problem to stress over.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-24-2020, 02:43 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 672
Posted By seekinganswers79
I spoke with the bank this morning as well as my...

I spoke with the bank this morning as well as my lawyer. I let him know I can't sign the bridge mortgage with him. Thanks for your help, everyone.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-23-2020, 11:00 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 672
Posted By seekinganswers79
Thank you for validating my thoughts on this,...

Thank you for validating my thoughts on this, Janus!
Forum: Financial Issues 04-23-2020, 09:32 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 672
Posted By seekinganswers79
Bridge mortgages

We have sold our matrimonial home, but it doesn't close until May 25.

My ex has bought a house that closes may 9 and today asked if I will sign a bridge mortgage with him.

My gut reaction is...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-06-2020, 06:24 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 612
Posted By seekinganswers79
I'll look the for that. Thanks. :) I mainly...

I'll look the for that. Thanks. :)

I mainly wasn't sure because we lived together while separated for quite a while and there still wasn't a signed separation agreement.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-06-2020, 06:10 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 612
Posted By seekinganswers79
Thanks, rockscan. Looks like I should amend my...

Thanks, rockscan. Looks like I should amend my status to separated then.
Forum: General Chat 04-06-2020, 05:51 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 784
Posted By seekinganswers79
Just wanted to say thanks

for all the answers folks have provided. Hope everyone is staying healthy and hanging in there.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-06-2020, 05:40 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 612
Posted By seekinganswers79
When does the CRA consider you separated?

We have an agreed upon separation date of Sept 1 2018.

I did not move out of the house until December 2019.

There is a drafted, but not finalized separation agreement.

Do I amend my status...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-24-2020, 02:38 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 588
Posted By seekinganswers79
Agreed. We're both still working, hopefully we'll...

Agreed. We're both still working, hopefully we'll be able to ride this out.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-24-2020, 11:26 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 588
Posted By seekinganswers79
I'd rather avoid deferring, Abba435.

I'd rather avoid deferring, Abba435.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-24-2020, 11:14 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 588
Posted By seekinganswers79
Yes, he is living there. He pays the utilities,...

Yes, he is living there. He pays the utilities, and half the mortgage and half property tax. I've paid the other half to secure my equity. I didn't want him saying I didn't pay and therefore wasn't...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-24-2020, 03:54 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 588
Posted By seekinganswers79
Oof, that was a longer post than I'd intended....

Oof, that was a longer post than I'd intended. Sorry.
Forum: Financial Issues 03-24-2020, 03:53 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 588
Posted By seekinganswers79
Mortgage payments after moving out

Hi there,

I decided to move out of the matrimonial home early December 2019, and actually moved out on December 13, 2019. The plan was the put the house up for sale, and that I would continue to...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-29-2019, 09:27 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,338
Posted By seekinganswers79
A girl can dream. Lol *sigh*

A girl can dream. Lol *sigh*
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