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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-21-2021, 12:33 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 544
Posted By cranberry
Thanks, Ange. This information will help me...

Thanks, Ange. This information will help me prepare for what might happen. Do you know if VOC report is different from a private parenting assessment?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-18-2021, 02:40 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 544
Posted By cranberry
Thank you for the links to Working Dads ordeal....

Thank you for the links to Working Dads ordeal. He's a hero for sure. Unfortunately, I cannot do what he did.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-18-2021, 02:30 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 356
Posted By cranberry
I appreciate your advice, thank you very much. As...

I appreciate your advice, thank you very much. As for pissing into the wind, that's advice better passed on to my ex. But I understand what you are saying.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2021, 03:11 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 544
Posted By cranberry
Rockscan -- they are in counseling. They have...

Rockscan -- they are in counseling. They have admitted they went to extreme behaviour hoping I would eventually give up and agree to let them live with their dad permanently. Keep telling them I am...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2021, 02:46 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 356
Posted By cranberry
Our boys turn 12 in March. I will be surprised if...

Our boys turn 12 in March. I will be surprised if I have not received an affidavit for him to remove them from my life by the end of that week.

Even though we have been on this roller coaster for...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2021, 01:43 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 544
Posted By cranberry
KKC -- I feel for you! My house is apparently...

KKC -- I feel for you! My house is apparently ground zero for Covid! My kids were withheld when things went diwn the drain ladt year. Thankfully, when finally returned, they resigned themselves to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-17-2021, 01:36 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 544
Posted By cranberry
Rockscan -- the three of us are in counseling...

Rockscan -- the three of us are in counseling regarding our situation. Our kids can quote quite a few clauses in our order, not due to me. Yesterday, after trying to explain we just don't know what a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-16-2021, 05:27 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 356
Posted By cranberry
Mine is on lawyer #6! Has our kids convinced they...

Mine is on lawyer #6! Has our kids convinced they can just up and leave when they turn 12 next month. Yup, high conflict people tend to go through lawyers quickly. However, it really doesn't factor...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 02-16-2021, 03:33 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 544
Posted By cranberry
12 yr old choosing residence

How much weight is given to a 12 yr old wanting to live with the other parent?

We had a private parenting assessment a few years ago, 2028-ish. Would another one be ordered? My ex requested and...
Forum: Parenting Issues 05-10-2020, 02:21 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,362
Posted By cranberry
I had to go through a private parenting...

I had to go through a private parenting assessment. I guess during one of his appointments he was bitching about what I feed our kids, i.e nothing but junk food and I have made them obese. The...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-24-2020, 02:03 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 2,501
Posted By cranberry
As soon as the urgent motion papers hit my ex's...

As soon as the urgent motion papers hit my ex's lawyer's office, my kids were home within hours. This lawyer allowed his client to play his game, almost felt like he was encouraging it. But as soon...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-05-2020, 01:15 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,291
Posted By cranberry
Abba435 --- you have triplets?? Omgoodness, I...

Abba435 --- you have triplets?? Omgoodness, I thought twins were a handful! Lol!
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2020, 01:13 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,570
Posted By cranberry
Thank you for your support, Abba435. I have been...

Thank you for your support, Abba435. I have been dealing with this person for 12 years now. I thought I had built that thick skin one needs when dealing with these people. But this week, I just did...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-05-2020, 12:53 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 861
Posted By cranberry
My ex kept my kids from me for 2 1/2 weeks. They...

My ex kept my kids from me for 2 1/2 weeks. They were returned only when the urgent motion documents were filed. In that time he convinced our kids that I am not following protocols, that my house...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-04-2020, 06:24 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,570
Posted By cranberry
Just coming here to vent; its been a week from...

Just coming here to vent; its been a week from hell. Things mommy cannot do because daddy says so:

Go to the grocery store
If I do go, nothing comes in the house unless switched to a new...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-03-2020, 06:34 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,440
Posted By cranberry
You do what I did. You start an urgent motion....

You do what I did. You start an urgent motion. The ex cannot do what she is attempting to do. Mine kept my kids from me for two weeks. Thankfully, during that time a landmark decision came down that...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-01-2020, 12:59 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,570
Posted By cranberry
He forced us into a private parenting assessment....

He forced us into a private parenting assessment. Paid fully by him with the exoectation the boys were going to be remived from my care. The assessor found issues in both homes and recommended joint...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-01-2020, 11:55 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,570
Posted By cranberry
You have hit the nail on the head. I avoid using...

You have hit the nail on the head. I avoid using the term on here due to negative reception. I keep myself in counseling, fought hard to get the boys into counseling, and have a kick ass, no...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-31-2020, 02:08 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,570
Posted By cranberry
I wish! But we all know the can of worms that...

I wish! But we all know the can of worms that would open!
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-31-2020, 12:37 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,570
Posted By cranberry
The crazy thing is, we just switched from sole to...

The crazy thing is, we just switched from sole to joint! We have no court order because he won't sign off/approve the MOS. I had just started steps to get the damn thing made into an Order when all...
Forum: General Chat 03-30-2020, 04:30 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,781
Posted By cranberry
I am here to say escalate it. My ex kept my kids...

I am here to say escalate it. My ex kept my kids from me, refused to follow our court order and agreement, and filled their heafs with nit only how unsafe my home is, but me in general. Do not lie...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-30-2020, 03:16 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,570
Posted By cranberry
Are those trick questions? Lol! I am not going to...

Are those trick questions? Lol! I am not going to respond, period. I haven't even really read them. Opened the messages, saw his usual rambling paragraphs and closed them. We use Our Family Wizard,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-30-2020, 01:37 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,570
Posted By cranberry
We are doing pretty so far today. We all sleot...

We are doing pretty so far today. We all sleot until 9 and for the first while I ley them be and adjust. We've just had lunch and are cuddling on the couch.

He brought them home because his...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-30-2020, 10:08 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,570
Posted By cranberry
Tayken - 11 yr old twins.

Tayken - 11 yr old twins.
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-29-2020, 10:43 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,570
Posted By cranberry
My kids are home

My kids were brought home at 6 pm this evening. They walked in white as sheets, reluctantly gave me a hug. They then said I couldn't be trusted and I am nothing but a lier. They went upstairs and...
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