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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Today, 06:08 PM
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Posted By helenj
Motion to increase parenting time?

Hi All,

I have been involved in a criminal trial (false accusations) for 2 years that may be coming to an end in next 6 months. The accusations are against her and not the kids. I was heavily...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2021, 05:31 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 384
Posted By helenj
So my family trial will start about 1.5 months...

So my family trial will start about 1.5 months after my criminal trial will be done.

Me and my ex have not communicated for the past 2.5 years given the charges.

Won't this prejudice me in...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-15-2021, 05:29 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 165
Posted By helenj
How to protect from allegations

Hi all,

I recently moved to supervised access with my sister (instead of professional supervisor). I was ordered supervised access because my ex alleged few things (later proven to be false - but...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2021, 09:46 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 384
Posted By helenj
Got it - so basically I will have no choice but...

Got it - so basically I will have no choice but to go to trial or accept her offer.

I was hoping there was a way to get most of the issues done through motions, but we've already done a settlement...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2021, 06:19 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 384
Posted By helenj
Hi Thanks for responding! My lawyer says...

Hi
Thanks for responding!

My lawyer says she presents well (she's professionally trained to be very presentable) but there is evidence that refutes her allegations.

What I am trying to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2021, 03:56 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 384
Posted By helenj
Thanks for your response! What if I ask for...

Thanks for your response!

What if I ask for an adjournment and she pushes for trial anyway? She has said (through her lawyer) that she wants to go to trial so she can "move on with her life".
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-12-2021, 03:17 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 384
Posted By helenj
No $$$ for Family Trial

Hi all,

I have been involved in a criminal trial (false accusations) for 2 years that may be coming to an end in next 6 months. The accusations are against her and not the kids.

Assume it's...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-25-2021, 01:56 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 708
Posted By helenj
Hi all, Thanks for all the replies. So an...

Hi all,
Thanks for all the replies.

So an update:

She's saying she will continue paying for it and then ask the Judge during Trial for me to pay my portion.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-23-2021, 03:27 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 708
Posted By helenj
The only thing is that we were still a couple...

The only thing is that we were still a couple when my older son went to private JK so it was more affordable.

Now, I am paying lawyers and separate rent.

So, you're saying there is a chance a...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-22-2021, 04:31 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 708
Posted By helenj
Hi, My child. Does that make a...

Hi,
My child.

Does that make a difference?

Thanks
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-21-2021, 02:05 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 708
Posted By helenj
Hi all, Thanks for getting back to me. I...

Hi all,

Thanks for getting back to me. I forgot to mention a point:

-She's saying that because his older brother went to private JK/SK, so should the younger brother.

-The older brother...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 06-18-2021, 03:23 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 708
Posted By helenj
Daycare fees versus Public Junior Kindergarten

Hi all,

In March 2020, at a case conference, I agreed to pay 50% private daycare fees for my child.

In September 2021, he will be of age to go to Junior Kindergarten at public school, so I...
Forum: Political Issues 05-13-2021, 03:25 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,715
Posted By helenj
Publicly shaming Fathers

https://www.ontario.ca/page/missing-child-and-spousal-support-payors

The above is a government run website that names and shames men who have not paid child support and alimony. Is this...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-18-2021, 10:08 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 385
Posted By helenj
No independent assessor or OCL...she didn't ask...

No independent assessor or OCL...she didn't ask for it and neither did I. Even though she's claiming I abused the kids. But the professional supervisor notes all shows the kids saying they miss me...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-18-2021, 10:06 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 688
Posted By helenj
Thank you both for your input. You're right - I...

Thank you both for your input. You're right - I may be SAVING money by having a better lawyer.

Thank you all!
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-18-2021, 10:05 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 469
Posted By helenj
Thank you for your in-depth explanation. ...

Thank you for your in-depth explanation. Everything makes more sense now.

I live 20 minutes away from my ex but during separation she made a bunch of false allegations against me. It's been...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-15-2021, 07:59 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 385
Posted By helenj
Right - but one of her arguments is that there...

Right - but one of her arguments is that there has been abuse in the relationship and controlling.

Wouldn't the allegations she's made to the police need to be addressed in the family court?
...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-15-2021, 05:11 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 385
Posted By helenj
Criminal Court Testimony used in Family Court?

Hi All,

My ex has testified at criminal court regarding her false allegations.

However, the trial ended up going towards a mistrial.

My question is whether or not we can use her testimony at...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-15-2021, 01:59 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 469
Posted By helenj
Yes I completely understand that. How do...

Yes I completely understand that.

How do you make sure this doesn't happen to your case as a Father?

What can be done to ensure you're at the cut-off?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-14-2021, 10:55 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 469
Posted By helenj
Ordered 38.7% Custody/Access

Hi Everyone,

I saw the below on another forum and I'm hoping to understand why a judge would give one parent 38.7% access versus 41% or even 50%. Like what's the logic?

As I'm heading into...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-14-2021, 05:46 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 688
Posted By helenj
1. On a conference, he agreed to hand over my...

1. On a conference, he agreed to hand over my entire medical file to my ex. I was exhausted so I signed.

2. Right before my criminal trial he brought a 50/50 motion which got dismissed because...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-13-2021, 02:21 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 16,423
Posted By helenj
Here is an actual Offer to Settle for 50/50...

Here is an actual Offer to Settle for 50/50 shared parenting that covers everything from schooling to medical/dental, travel, and child support and s7 expenses.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-13-2021, 02:18 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 688
Posted By helenj
Thank you for your response. What if I'm...

Thank you for your response.

What if I'm planning on changing my lawyer?

He's represented me for a year now, but mostly at conferences. He said he has trial experience but doesn't have...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2021, 10:31 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 688
Posted By helenj
Trial Scheduling Conference

Hi all,

I have a Trial Scheduling conference coming up.

My ex has made several criminal allegations against me which may soon come to an end due to a mistrial.

What can I expect in Trial...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-12-2021, 10:27 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 436
Posted By helenj
So how do I address her allegations in Family...

So how do I address her allegations in Family court? She's accused me of every thing imaginable in the book. IF it is a stay of charges because it took too long, how do I go about it in Family...
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