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Forum: Financial Issues 04-09-2021, 01:34 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 796
Posted By iona6656
fucking yikes. I read the other thread of the OP....

fucking yikes. I read the other thread of the OP.

The level of entitlement is strong with this one.
Forum: Financial Issues 04-07-2021, 11:52 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 796
Posted By iona6656
look- I know coming out the financial "loser" in...

look- I know coming out the financial "loser" in these situations feels like someone stuck a red hot lump of coal in your stomach coated with a good deal of shame thrown in.

both my ex and his...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-06-2021, 09:08 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 796
Posted By iona6656
Equalization by the letter of law and "fair and...

Equalization by the letter of law and "fair and equitable" are two different things. I struggle to think of any other legal situation where so much INequitable division happens besides family law. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 04-04-2021, 02:44 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 904
Posted By iona6656
This one is just weird: dad refuses to put child...

This one is just weird: dad refuses to put child in 'fresh' clothes for pickup. Will pickup child from school and will put on school uniform to go home. I've sent a fresh change of clothes in her...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-04-2021, 02:41 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 200
Posted By iona6656
Also speaking from personal experience. Agree...

Also speaking from personal experience. Agree with this. Family courts prefer to see a resolution of the criminal charge.

But if your resolution is a mistrial or stay of the charges to...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2021, 12:18 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 415
Posted By iona6656
Doesn't really answer what you were charged with...

Doesn't really answer what you were charged with though. I mean- obviously that is your private issue. But it can also depend on what you were yelling and whether there is a credible threat.

...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-22-2021, 12:13 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 622
Posted By iona6656
But that's just he said/she said. What if ex says...

But that's just he said/she said. What if ex says "I explained why additional time won't work with the PC"? I wouldn't use the PC as ally or way to bolster a case. What they are good at is getting...
Forum: Parenting Issues 03-22-2021, 12:09 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 622
Posted By iona6656
never be afraid of court. if you have a lawyer-...

never be afraid of court. if you have a lawyer- trying to avoid court will cost you more.

I don't see the issue with a Parental Coordinator.?...if you can take care of the kids 50/50- and you and...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2021, 12:02 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 415
Posted By iona6656
Didn't you say in another posting that your ex...

Didn't you say in another posting that your ex went to Scarborough and told you that you had to pick up your son from there?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-22-2021, 12:00 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 415
Posted By iona6656
curious about this part too. What were the...

curious about this part too. What were the charges?
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-22-2021, 02:59 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 615
Posted By iona6656
It's also de-escalated by giving up control over...

It's also de-escalated by giving up control over certain appointments. D4's dad and I alternate routine appointments and send emails on the outcome of the appointments. Although- dad usually asks...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-22-2021, 02:53 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,287
Posted By iona6656
You're pretty much describing me as it relates to...

You're pretty much describing me as it relates to helicopter parenting- and I see it happening with D4 right now- I limit screen time, I impose a strict bedtime...and I hear "Dada's house doesn't...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-19-2021, 02:47 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,287
Posted By iona6656
drop the child support then? that's the answer?

drop the child support then? that's the answer?
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-19-2021, 02:41 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,099
Posted By iona6656
I re-read the article. I don't think it's total...

I re-read the article. I don't think it's total garbage- but the context in which the OP originally posted it- is concerning. Also- the way the article is set up- it's click bait.

It just may be...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-19-2021, 02:19 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,287
Posted By iona6656
Also- to the OP. Is it the lack of adherence...

Also- to the OP.

Is it the lack of adherence to the schedule that is of concern? Or something more? The conflict with the paternal grandparents? Having to deal with your son's father?

Like...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-19-2021, 02:16 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 1,287
Posted By iona6656
have you come across any studies that discuss how...

have you come across any studies that discuss how to combat this type of 'grooming' (for lack of a better term)?
Forum: General Chat 02-17-2021, 05:30 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 837
Posted By iona6656
Thanks for your candid response. I can imagine...

Thanks for your candid response. I can imagine this is exactly how my friend is feeling.

She's made a very similar argument to me before....I do wonder about the logic of it (for her)- being that...
Forum: General Chat 02-10-2021, 01:23 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 329
Posted By iona6656
how old is the child? if young- just pay it. ...

how old is the child? if young- just pay it.

invoice mom for her share...and when she doesn't pay; add it to the court documents. although- this sounds like something to just let go. Is it fair?...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-10-2021, 01:19 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,112
Posted By iona6656
I never said "should"! I simply suggested...

I never said "should"!

I simply suggested he may want to ask a therapist about how they feel about telling people they "should" do something.
Forum: General Chat 02-10-2021, 01:15 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 329
Posted By iona6656
Is buying the new glasses going to mean he is not...

Is buying the new glasses going to mean he is not going to eat this week? month?

Does his insurance have a health care spending account?

Does dad have an issue with buying glasses for his...
Forum: Domestic Violence 02-10-2021, 11:24 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,099
Posted By iona6656
At the risk of giving this crackpot poster a...

At the risk of giving this crackpot poster a further platform- this article is garbage, in my opinion.

To other poster's reading this thread- if you are being asked to co-parent in the context of...
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-10-2021, 11:09 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 615
Posted By iona6656
Do you have a temporary custody arrangement? ...

Do you have a temporary custody arrangement?

I would follow Janus' route- although if you want to be accommodating- you could ask your ex if there is a more convenient time for him.
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Forum: Parenting Issues 02-10-2021, 11:05 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 615
Posted By iona6656
it depends on the age of the child. up to...

it depends on the age of the child.

up to the first 3 years- "routine" appointments are recommended by pediatricians every 6 months to assess development.
Forum: Parenting Issues 02-10-2021, 10:58 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 2,112
Posted By iona6656
uh, that's a WHOLE lotta generalizing you're...

uh, that's a WHOLE lotta generalizing you're doing there about a 14 year old...given that the areas of the brain that control decision-making don’t fully develop until early adulthood, AND...
Forum: Financial Issues 02-10-2021, 10:51 AM
Replies: 88
Views: 3,699
Posted By iona6656
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