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Forum: General Chat 10-06-2020, 03:57 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 250
Posted By Janus
1) If the other side is uninterested, it is...

1) If the other side is uninterested, it is unlikely that services that promote cooperation (mediation, coparenting, therapy) will be of any value.

2) If you only fight by email, I think that is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-29-2020, 03:15 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 434
Posted By Janus
This would not be an issue if child support was...

This would not be an issue if child support was somewhat equal to the actual marginal costs of having the kid live with you.

However, since child support is usually substantially more than the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-25-2020, 01:24 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 393
Posted By Janus
Based on what you have said, it seems like it...

Based on what you have said, it seems like it would be extremely unlikely. Fixed term spousal support, educated ex, pension divided at source, independent legal advice... yeah, you're good. ...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-20-2020, 05:07 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 247
Posted By Janus
Anything that needs to be negotiated or is...

Anything that needs to be negotiated or is ambiguous.

Bad: "each parent will have half the summer"
Good: "In the odd years, mother will have the first two weeks of summer, starting on the Sunday...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-17-2020, 01:05 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,677
Posted By Janus
I think that one is pretty conclusive. The...

I think that one is pretty conclusive. The presumption is going to be back to school.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-16-2020, 06:25 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 301
Posted By Janus
Ah, I didn't know that had changed. ...

Ah, I didn't know that had changed.





For sure.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-16-2020, 06:24 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 301
Posted By Janus
Honestly I'm not with FRO, so others probably...

Honestly I'm not with FRO, so others probably know better, however I have heard that if you start a motion, you can contact FRO and they will suspend enforcement.

To change support, maybe it is...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2020, 06:08 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,677
Posted By Janus
Calculus gets a bad rap. It is probably one of...

Calculus gets a bad rap. It is probably one of the easier math courses I have ever taken in my life. I'm not sure how it got such a bad reputation.

Statistics or topology, on the other hand,...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-16-2020, 06:03 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 384
Posted By Janus
I don't think contempt of police "order" is a...

I don't think contempt of police "order" is a crime. Feel free to contact each other as per normal.
Forum: Financial Issues 09-16-2020, 06:02 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 301
Posted By Janus
If your ex is willing, you can get FRO to change...

If your ex is willing, you can get FRO to change the amounts.

Unfortunately, if your ex is not being cooperative, you will need to go to court, and you need to go sooner rather than later.

I...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2020, 02:24 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 268
Posted By Janus
In particular, I think that the 2255 schedule is...

In particular, I think that the 2255 schedule is objectively better.
Forum: Common Law Issues 09-15-2020, 02:22 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 320
Posted By Janus
Unusual cases make for bad case law. :(

Unusual cases make for bad case law. :(
Forum: Financial Issues 09-15-2020, 02:21 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 484
Posted By Janus
The confusion stems from the mismatch between...

The confusion stems from the mismatch between what is intended and what is practical.

Intended: You should always pay child support at a level determined by your current income.

The...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-15-2020, 02:10 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,677
Posted By Janus
The common thread in these cases seems to be: ...

The common thread in these cases seems to be:

The judge will side with the parent who has the majority of the parenting time.

I wonder if there will be a case where a judge sides with a NCP...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-15-2020, 02:05 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 261
Posted By Janus
No, they are not in contempt, they are following...

No, they are not in contempt, they are following the order.

However, they will likely lose a motion to change and have to pay costs. Parents have two obligations:

1) Follow the court orders...
Forum: Political Issues 09-11-2020, 06:39 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 426
Posted By Janus
You are quite the single issue voter

You are quite the single issue voter
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-11-2020, 06:33 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 240
Posted By Janus
CAS bad most likely. Alternatively failing out...

CAS bad most likely. Alternatively failing out of school bad.



They are voluntarily reducing their own access. I guess you win without even going to court. Congratulations!

For fun,...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-09-2020, 11:55 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 323
Posted By Janus
I got excited for a second, but in this case the...

I got excited for a second, but in this case the overholding parent was the NCP.

Still a very useful case that might be useful for a NCP, if they can argue that a CP should be treated in the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2020, 08:05 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 261
Posted By Janus
I would propose the police station, and then say...

I would propose the police station, and then say that if she is able to find another location you will accept that alternate.

"As you are aware, the access centres are closed. It is in the best...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2020, 07:45 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 261
Posted By Janus
What does your agreement say?

What does your agreement say?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2020, 07:45 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 895
Posted By Janus
Let that someone be somebody with lots of money. ...

Let that someone be somebody with lots of money. If you are not going to net a profit from pursuing this, then do not pursue it.

If his lifestyle has collapsed as much as you say it has, it is...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-07-2020, 07:40 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 261
Posted By Janus
Can you just do it at a police station parking...

Can you just do it at a police station parking lot? It isn't ideal but it is free. They have cameras everywhere so any shenanigans would be recorded.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-07-2020, 07:39 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 323
Posted By Janus
Unfortunately, the government only enforces...

Unfortunately, the government only enforces money, they do not enforce parenting time. It must be incredibly frustrating.

I would offer her, in writing, the option between makeup parenting time...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-06-2020, 11:33 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 535
Posted By Janus
The "no compromise until I'm dead" plan often has...

The "no compromise until I'm dead" plan often has unintended side effects. They are rarely positive.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-06-2020, 09:10 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 535
Posted By Janus
First of all, I would do this in writing. If he...

First of all, I would do this in writing. If he rages at you in writing that would be a good thing to have on hand for the future.

Normally, I would say that if a parent chooses to miss parenting...
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