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Forum: Divorce Support 10-23-2018, 05:36 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 3,995
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
I'm so very sorry for what you're going through. ...

I'm so very sorry for what you're going through. Its really good that you have a support system in place...you'll need them. If I could tell you one thing after having going through a tough 6 year...
Forum: General Chat 10-23-2018, 05:15 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 549
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
I made a spreadsheet listing all the major...

I made a spreadsheet listing all the major contents of every room and put a name beside it. Tried to split it fairly evenly and give each of us the stuff we bought/cared about. It went back and...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-23-2018, 05:10 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 499
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
You can ask for court costs and the way this...

You can ask for court costs and the way this would be handled is pretty cut & dry. Something you might want to mention to your ex.

The only way for him to negotiate a better deal is for him to go...
Forum: Political Issues 06-12-2018, 09:38 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,607
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
Mine did and many do.

Mine did and many do.
Forum: Parenting Issues 06-12-2018, 05:58 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,998
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
Just to throw a wrench in the argument since I...

Just to throw a wrench in the argument since I work in automotive. They have recently done another multitude of studies with various child car seats and NONE of them make a child safer in a...
Forum: Financial Issues 06-12-2018, 05:45 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,416
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
Agreed. You have a home together, you need an...

Agreed. You have a home together, you need an agreement. Get it done, get it writing, split everything right down the middle (including the household contents).
Forum: Financial Issues 06-12-2018, 05:43 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,416
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
I actually agree with this post. She's not going...

I actually agree with this post. She's not going to get any SS over a 10K salary difference, especially if she's making a reasonable living wage...which she is. She has no argument for SS and...
Forum: Financial Issues 01-08-2018, 04:59 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 3,001
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
I know it looks bad right now but believe me,...

I know it looks bad right now but believe me, divorce can be a blessing. There's no doubt that getting through the process is tough though.

Is there any chance that you might be able to reduce...
Forum: Domestic Violence 01-08-2018, 04:46 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 3,939
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
So so sorry you're going through this....believe...

So so sorry you're going through this....believe me, I can sympathize. I went through something far less serious with my daughter...but because she was older, I had an easier time than what you're...
Forum: General Chat 12-16-2017, 02:25 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,535
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
Its simply amazing to me that there's nothing...

Its simply amazing to me that there's nothing anyone can do about this type of frivolous, stupid litigation. You have a crazy ex-spouse (as many of us do)...you just have to suffer through it and...
Forum: General Chat 10-29-2017, 05:47 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,708
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
Honestly I think the only thing that's saved my...

Honestly I think the only thing that's saved my sanity is that I didn't get divorced until my youngest was 11. So now, she's turned 18 and this current court action is the last one I'm probably...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-29-2017, 05:44 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 374
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
Yes, I literally just watched this a few days...

Yes, I literally just watched this a few days ago. One of the problems is that the justice system in NY is somewhat "bought" by this extremist religious community. It happens in Utah too with the...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-27-2017, 12:02 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 2,917
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
He is supposed to pay CS. The rest of that...

He is supposed to pay CS. The rest of that statement is irrelevant.



lol, I can tell you're relaxed..that's why you're trying to antagonize me. Is it possible that this type of behavior...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-27-2017, 03:14 AM
Replies: 47
Views: 2,917
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
My daughter turned 18 a little bit ago and is an...

My daughter turned 18 a little bit ago and is an adult and can decide what kind of relationship she wants to have with her father. He moved out of the country without providing her with any new...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-26-2017, 05:32 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 2,917
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
lol, I don't hate dads or men...calm down. ...

lol, I don't hate dads or men...calm down.

You just seem to post a lot of very petty, nit-picky threads trying to gain a tactical advantage over insignificant issues.

Anyway, I'm not trying...
Forum: Introductions 10-26-2017, 05:27 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 4,949
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
You're dealing with a group of parents on here...

You're dealing with a group of parents on here who love their kids as much as you love yours.

They've also been through the family law system. Some of us have been through custody disputes that...
Forum: Introductions 10-26-2017, 05:18 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 4,949
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
As long as he agrees with it. If he doesn't, she...

As long as he agrees with it. If he doesn't, she has no right to do this on her own accord.

This is where women get confused in divorce situations...they believe they have some weird ownership...
Forum: Introductions 10-26-2017, 05:12 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 4,949
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
Regarding the physical abuse against you. Did...

Regarding the physical abuse against you. Did you call the police and get a police report? If not, not reporting it is your fault and its not going to help your case now. Every single family law...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-26-2017, 04:47 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 2,917
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
Is it wrong that I want to start a set of parody...

Is it wrong that I want to start a set of parody threads that illustrate the petty nit-pickiness?

1. Mom keeps reading "Hop on Pop" to kid far past recommended reading age. Is this something I...
Forum: Political Issues 09-22-2017, 03:13 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,201
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
If you mean in court...no. Do what you want...

If you mean in court...no.

Do what you want with your kid on your parenting time. You spend a lot of time in the weeds. You're a parent, use your own judgement on what is appropriate for your...
Forum: General Chat 09-22-2017, 03:09 PM
Replies: 159
Views: 9,523
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
I'm not a fan of traditional marriages. I think...

I'm not a fan of traditional marriages. I think it encourages to many women to be irresponsible adults and to falsely believe that they don't have a responsibility to be fiscally self-dependent. ...
Forum: General Chat 09-22-2017, 01:56 PM
Replies: 159
Views: 9,523
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
I agree that your spouse may owe you money...

I agree that your spouse may owe you money however SS is a bad remedy. My ex absconded with a lot of money during my marriage too...money that I worked extremely hard to earn. However, I didn't and...
Forum: General Chat 07-30-2017, 11:38 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 2,767
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
But what if the actual marriage dies...does that...

But what if the actual marriage dies...does that count?

Marriages are contracts. If a person doesn't meet the basic contractual obligations, you should absolutely have the right to walk away.
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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 07-30-2017, 11:28 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,364
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
Ugh, this post. This is precisely the reason why...

Ugh, this post. This is precisely the reason why so many men are afraid of women and choose not to marry decent, hard-working women.

First, when you don't work all day, your job is to take care...
Forum: Divorce Support 07-13-2017, 02:00 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 2,129
Posted By Pursuinghappiness
I didn't have a wedding dress. Rings...I...

I didn't have a wedding dress.

Rings...I gave them to my kids.

Pictures. I boxed up the ones that I thought he would want with just him and the kids and gave them to him. The ones with me...
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