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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-04-2011, 12:15 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 1,212
Posted By BeenThereTwice
To Grandma.. Like others posting here I applaud...

To Grandma.. Like others posting here I applaud your efforts. Though I think you should also have the custody arrangement confirmed by court order AND you should be receiving child support from 2...
Forum: Introductions 11-04-2011, 12:09 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 1,127
Posted By BeenThereTwice
Proving that you are separated will likely at...

Proving that you are separated will likely at some time in the future be required. If you continue to live in same house with ex (as I do with ex wife) it can prove quite difficult to convince...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2011, 04:36 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,417
Posted By BeenThereTwice
Answering my own question

From PLISKEVICIUS and L’HOMME 2011 ONSC 6102

27. Under s. 34(1)(i) of the Ontario Family Law Act (“FLA”), the court has jurisdiction to order a spouse who has an existing life...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2011, 04:20 PM
Replies: 101
Views: 9,317
Posted By BeenThereTwice
The worst of it is.. when I look back.. ALL the...

The worst of it is.. when I look back.. ALL the warning signs were there and I just didn't pay attention to them.

But I don't regret my two daughters. Not even a little.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 11-03-2011, 04:14 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,223
Posted By BeenThereTwice
Hmm.. Not sure I'd say "don't" so strongly. If...

Hmm.. Not sure I'd say "don't" so strongly. If there are no kids, and couple had nothing when they married, and both worked throughout the marriage, and fairly spilit all assets/liabilities at the...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2011, 04:04 PM
Replies: 101
Views: 9,317
Posted By BeenThereTwice
I think what we are dealing with here is....

no different from when we were kids, and we get assigned to a team to do some school project. We all had that situation where one team member simply did NOT pull their weight, and preferred to...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2011, 03:56 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,417
Posted By BeenThereTwice
QUESTION: LIFE INSURANCE in Ontario

Curious.. In Ontario, where in the law does the responsibility to maintain life insurance on my life arise so that CS and or SS to EX can be maintained after death? Anyone know the statute? ...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2011, 03:52 PM
Replies: 101
Views: 9,317
Posted By BeenThereTwice
Actually BillM let me ask you...

You've been pretty clear about what you think the PAYORS (read father's) obligations and responsibilities are. OK.. I can accept much of that. But how about a few words about the recipients (read...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2011, 03:43 PM
Replies: 101
Views: 9,317
Posted By BeenThereTwice
I have been working hard enough to take care of...

I have been working hard enough to take care of the "now" that the future is a bit harder to fathom. Nice idea though. Wish I lived in your world.

As I said before.. the EX could also take...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2011, 02:12 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 908
Posted By BeenThereTwice
Suggest you read the SSAG (google it) and do your...

Suggest you read the SSAG (google it) and do your best to UNDERSTAND it before you go any further.

You must understand:
- compensatory or non-conpensatory SS
- factors in determining duration...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2011, 02:05 PM
Replies: 101
Views: 9,317
Posted By BeenThereTwice
Easy to say if you are salaried employee. Not so...

Easy to say if you are salaried employee. Not so easy when self employed, aged 58, with both financial and health issues. Gets expensive. Don't have extended medical benefits or EI (not eligible)...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2011, 01:59 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 2,344
Posted By BeenThereTwice
If you do NOT have kids (and you don't mention...

If you do NOT have kids (and you don't mention any) then this should be a pretty simple situation to resolve. Both parties acting reasonably, with lawyers beside them, SHOULD be able to resolve this...
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2011, 01:50 PM
Replies: 101
Views: 9,317
Posted By BeenThereTwice
Must be nice to live in your black and white...

Must be nice to live in your black and white world. I do not appreciate being called abnormal.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2011, 11:49 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 982
Posted By BeenThereTwice
I agree with MESS

Just because kids wants the $1000 trip doesn't meanb both parents are obligated to pay. "Affordability" in light of the split family finances needs to be considered.
Forum: Financial Issues 11-03-2011, 11:36 AM
Replies: 101
Views: 9,317
Posted By BeenThereTwice
While I do not agree with everything littleman...

While I do not agree with everything littleman has said, I DO agree with this last post (actually couple of posts ago now). What would the CP do if this $5K/month support simply stops as at result of...
Forum: General Chat 10-30-2011, 01:46 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,125
Posted By BeenThereTwice
You seem like you have your head screwed on...

You seem like you have your head screwed on pretty straight, with the sole exception that you still have a fear of how he'll react if you say something he doesn't like. Just a thought.. perhaps you...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-30-2011, 12:14 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,709
Posted By BeenThereTwice
Keep in mind what Frustrated with EX had to say. ...

Keep in mind what Frustrated with EX had to say. It's NOT good for you if true. Up to YOU to do your research. I'm done here. Will not respond further.
Forum: Financial Issues 10-30-2011, 12:06 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,709
Posted By BeenThereTwice
TMAC I think you are likely right.. Once YOU...

TMAC I think you are likely right.. Once YOU have established the existance and value of the assets, and that they were in his possession, then the burden of proof will likely shift to the EX to...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-30-2011, 12:04 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,709
Posted By BeenThereTwice
Did not know that. It will change things if...

Did not know that. It will change things if true.

However, it's still clear that OP's EX acted, uniformly, to liquidate all net assets to cash, and then remove all cash to his own benefit,...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-30-2011, 11:50 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,709
Posted By BeenThereTwice
So. At Marriage (what was date of marriage) ...

So.
At Marriage (what was date of marriage)
HIM (assets $0, liabilities $0)
YOU (assets $0, liabilities $0)

At date of separation (what was date of separation)
MARITAL ASSETS
$12K holiday...
Forum: General Chat 10-30-2011, 11:31 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,125
Posted By BeenThereTwice
I had an ADHD son myself, plus I think I was also...

I had an ADHD son myself, plus I think I was also as a child. Child needs, and possibly dad needs, as much "structure" and "routine" in life as possible.

Seems to me (correct me if I'm wrong)...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-30-2011, 10:39 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,709
Posted By BeenThereTwice
some links Family Property - Alberta...

some links
Family Property - Alberta (http://www.divorceinontario.ca/dividing-family-property/family-property-alberta/)

http://www.qp.alberta.ca/documents/Acts/M08.pdf

Read, and read, then...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-30-2011, 10:28 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,709
Posted By BeenThereTwice
You didn't listen. I said a LIST. ASSETS ...

You didn't listen. I said a LIST.

ASSETS
1. XXX
2. XXX
3. XXX

LIABILITIES
1. XXX
2. XXX
Forum: Financial Issues 10-30-2011, 10:12 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,709
Posted By BeenThereTwice
Also.. I am in Ontario. The law here regarding...

Also.. I am in Ontario. The law here regarding division of Net Family Property is a provincial law, so it may vary for you in Alberta. You need to rerearch Alberta law for this. Here the law is...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-30-2011, 10:09 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,709
Posted By BeenThereTwice
Do you have a detailed LIST of all ASSETS and...

Do you have a detailed LIST of all ASSETS and LIABILITIES of the marriage as at (a) date of marriage and (b) date of separation. For EACH asset and each liability do you have supporting...
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