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Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-19-2015, 07:18 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 824
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
I am in BC. Here's a little of our history...We...

I am in BC. Here's a little of our history...We were common law for 15 years before the relationship ended. The night he left our home was due to a domestic violence situation which he was arrested...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-19-2015, 02:33 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 824
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
The home is far too big for me now that our...

The home is far too big for me now that our children are grown so I'm not interested in buying him out and frankly, I can't afford that option. He was court ordered to pay the mortgage for 4 years as...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 08-19-2015, 01:32 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 824
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
Selling his half of the home...

My ex and I own a home together. We are both on title. I have been living in the home since our split in Dec of 2010. He has been paying half the mortgage. Now he emails me and says that he is going...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-30-2013, 08:27 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 500
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
It's way too big for just me. The kids are gone...

It's way too big for just me. The kids are gone to University so I am looking to downsize! Plus, I can't keep up with the yard work or the maintenance.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 04-30-2013, 08:18 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 500
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
Matrimonial Home

So...I have been separated from my common law spouse for 2.5 years now. We still jointly own a home together that I currently live in. We each pay for half the mortgage. I have recently contacted...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-06-2011, 03:38 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,185
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
I actually do have a legal aid lawyer...he...

I actually do have a legal aid lawyer...he assaulted me the night he left and charges were approved by Crown Council. There is going to be a trial for that as well. There is a no contact order...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-06-2011, 02:16 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,185
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
My common law spouse, of 14 years, moved out on...

My common law spouse, of 14 years, moved out on Dec 31st to be with another woman. 10 days later I received a letter from his lawyer with a list of his demands. I was still reeling from him leaving...
Forum: Common Law Issues 04-06-2011, 12:36 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,185
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
Family Court

I am just getting ready to go to Family Court for the 1st time. Don't know what happens in there or what to expect. Does the Judge ask us questions, are we allowed to talk or do the lawyers do all...
Forum: Financial Issues 04-01-2011, 04:30 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 4,887
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
So, does the length of the relationship, mine...

So, does the length of the relationship, mine being 14 years, play a factor in determining the length of time SS will be paid??
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-24-2011, 01:35 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,635
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
I do work but my income is way less than his. I...

I do work but my income is way less than his. I quit a $50,000 year job 2 years ago to move with my common law spouse so that he could pursue his dream job.
Forum: Common Law Issues 03-22-2011, 12:25 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,635
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
Company Pension and RRSP's

So...I have been doing a lot of reading up on Pensions and RRSP's and what happens in the event of a break up. I was with my common law spouse for 14 years and have recently split. I was of the...
Forum: Financial Issues 03-10-2011, 06:50 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 846
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
Spousal Support

I have a question about Spousal Support. I have heard that if the person receiving the SS enters into a new, living together relationship, that the SS stops immediately...So, what if the person that...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-05-2011, 03:06 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,543
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
Ahhh...that's the difference then...I wasn't in...

Ahhh...that's the difference then...I wasn't in the conversation.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 03-04-2011, 11:44 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,543
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
Ummm...I have just done this exact thing,...

Ummm...I have just done this exact thing, recorded my spouse without his knowledge and have since found out, by a member of the RCMP, that it is illegal to tape someone without their knowledge. Be...
Forum: Common Law Issues 02-09-2011, 11:18 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,312
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
I am going through right now. My ex common law...

I am going through right now. My ex common law spouse, of 14 years, and his lawyer are going after my pension. I am hoping that everyone is right and they can't tuch it. He did not contribut to it...
Forum: Introductions 01-24-2011, 10:50 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,530
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
FINALLY...somebody that makes sense!!! Part of...

FINALLY...somebody that makes sense!!! Part of the problem is...I have no money. He cut off access to the bank accounts, cut off the car insurance, cut off the phone and cable. My son is angry for...
Forum: Introductions 01-24-2011, 08:56 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,530
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
You have been ignored!!

You have been ignored!!
Forum: Introductions 01-24-2011, 08:43 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,530
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
Like your opinion matters to me...

Like your opinion matters to me anyways...probably deadbeattotheend!!
Forum: Introductions 01-24-2011, 08:29 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,530
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
It wouldn't matter how the relationship ended...I...

It wouldn't matter how the relationship ended...I still feel he has a financial responsibility to my son. I am not out to nail him to the financil cross. I left a 50,000yr job, that I had for 19...
Forum: Introductions 01-24-2011, 08:11 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,530
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
Key word being "was" a good Dad. Like I...

Key word being "was" a good Dad. Like I said...he has not had any contact with my son since he left this house nor has my son contacted him. I cannot force him to see his step father nor can I keep...
Forum: Introductions 01-24-2011, 06:53 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,530
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
Ok...Interprovincial...have you taken the time to...

Ok...Interprovincial...have you taken the time to read any of the conversations going on here. Let me recap for you...my son is almost 18 years old and lives in the same house with us. When his...
Forum: Introductions 01-24-2011, 04:31 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,530
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
I actually had a job for 19 years, with the same...

I actually had a job for 19 years, with the same company, making 50,000 and had full benefits. I gave this job up when we decided, as a family, to let my husband pursue a new career. We had to...
Forum: Introductions 01-24-2011, 03:29 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,530
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
Double dipping???? This man has supported my boy...

Double dipping???? This man has supported my boy for 14 years while I received CS...so what's the difference?? Just because his biological father has died and the monthly amount has changed...
Forum: Introductions 01-24-2011, 03:25 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,530
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
My child has already been accepted into a post...

My child has already been accepted into a post secondary school
My ex earns 80,000
I am a seasonal worker and earn about 10,000
My son right now wants no relationship because of the...
Forum: Introductions 01-24-2011, 12:37 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,530
Posted By Hopeless in Hope
He raised this boy as his own. He taught him to...

He raised this boy as his own. He taught him to ride a bike, to skate, took him to hockey, went to parent teacher interviews. His biological father was around once a year, that's it. He was his...
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