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Forum: Divorce & Family Law Yesterday, 07:06 PM
Replies: 0
Views: 51
Posted By kate331
Tbst

Whats the purpose of a "To Be Spoken To" in Family Law Court? They are about as useless as Case Conferences imo.

I dont see through the search function many of the other members are subjected to...
Forum: Divorce Support Yesterday, 09:07 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 135
Posted By kate331
I did the same thing Sad54, waited it out a year...

I did the same thing Sad54, waited it out a year hoping my ex would have a change of heart. Arabian is 100% correct, you need legal advice ASAP. Its rough because you most likely still care very...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2018, 11:49 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 130
Posted By kate331
My lawyer told me that a court order holds...

My lawyer told me that a court order holds greater weight than a signed agreement witnessed by lawyers. Her reason was because Judges dont like to go against what a Judge orders, so to speak. She...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2018, 11:35 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 196
Posted By kate331
If your feeling unsettled, then your mostly...

If your feeling unsettled, then your mostly likely on to something that just isn't right, go with your gut feeling. I too would be upset if I was being billed to fix the assistant mistakes, that's...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2018, 09:34 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 467
Posted By kate331
I believe you can have it written into your...

I believe you can have it written into your agreement that both parents are entitled to attend all school and sporting events.

This way nothing can be said or complained about.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 10-15-2018, 05:13 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 196
Posted By kate331
Are you receiving a detailed bill monthly? i.e....

Are you receiving a detailed bill monthly? i.e. phone call to opposing counsel? reviewing correspondence with opposing counsel?
Forum: Introductions 10-11-2018, 09:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 210
Posted By kate331
There are always growing pains in a blended...

There are always growing pains in a blended family. Dad really needs to step in and nip this behaviour in the butt, especially about your child's Dad dying.

I agree with the other posters, why is...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-11-2018, 09:40 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 345
Posted By kate331
Thanks all, makes sense and obviously not worth...

Thanks all, makes sense and obviously not worth any legal fees. I will continue to buy them extra clothes to leave at Dad's house as the seasons change. Packing for them each time doesn't work for...
Forum: Financial Issues 10-06-2018, 09:38 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 345
Posted By kate331
Clothing

My ex has the kids 6 nights a month. For the last two years, I have supplied him with clothing for them at his home.

My lawyer, is telling me this is not necessary, and he should be supplying the...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-27-2018, 10:44 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,107
Posted By kate331
How well is this child doing in school? Is his...

How well is this child doing in school? Is his behaviour managed there by his teacher and staff? Or is it just at Dad's that he cant manage?
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-26-2018, 10:51 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 1,107
Posted By kate331
Just my 2 cents, but as a Mom with 2 special...

Just my 2 cents, but as a Mom with 2 special needs children, it could be an ADD thing. Most children with ADD/ADHD thrive on a strict routine and do not transitioning well between the 2 homes and...
Forum: General Chat 09-23-2018, 09:43 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 490
Posted By kate331
The first year we separated we were pretty...

The first year we separated we were pretty cordial, because I wanted to reconcile and he did not want to go to court. The second year when litigation started, it was nasty and we traded insults...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-23-2018, 09:32 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 380
Posted By kate331
He may be on the hook for it this round but...

He may be on the hook for it this round but moving forward try and keep it out of the courtroom. If he is really determined to turn his life around for his child's sake he needs to step up, pay his...
Forum: Financial Issues 09-21-2018, 05:01 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 840
Posted By kate331
Are you in Ontario? Why not go through FRO?

Are you in Ontario? Why not go through FRO?
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-20-2018, 12:18 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 517
Posted By kate331
This is probably a temporary issue, if he is...

This is probably a temporary issue, if he is living at this Mothers. Surely he has plans to find more permanent housing closer to her school/daycare.
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-20-2018, 10:50 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 160
Posted By kate331
I'm a Minimalist Mom. Wonder if my kids will...

I'm a Minimalist Mom. Wonder if my kids will hate me when their grown.

On another note, my son (8) makes his own lunch everyday. I was surprised to find a lot of parents are still making their...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-19-2018, 10:16 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 347
Posted By kate331
Usually as an adult you don't get to live...

Usually as an adult you don't get to live anywhere for free unless its in Mom & Dad's basement.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-19-2018, 10:07 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 238
Posted By kate331
Why would the OCL get involved, if there is no...

Why would the OCL get involved, if there is no Material Change of Circumstance? Isn't that a waste their resources?
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-18-2018, 10:52 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 347
Posted By kate331
Look at it this way, you spent $50,000 over 4...

Look at it this way, you spent $50,000 over 4 years, that comes out too just over $1,000 a month. So basically you paid that in rent money to her.
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-17-2018, 08:20 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 315
Posted By kate331
Rockscan, if she is going after University...

Rockscan, if she is going after University Expenses through the courts doesn't your partner have to do a financial statement?

I understand that a new partner/spouse salary doesn't matter, but I...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2018, 01:41 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,132
Posted By kate331
Cool Guy I respectfully disagree. In my own...

Cool Guy I respectfully disagree. In my own situation I receive $800 a month cs for 2 children, plus the child tax credit, and disability payments for both children. Dad is an EOW parent.

After...
Forum: Parenting Issues 09-16-2018, 12:40 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,132
Posted By kate331
Wow, this is heartbreaking. I cant even think of...

Wow, this is heartbreaking. I cant even think of any words to give you any encouragement. I want to say DONT GIVE UP. But you have been through the wringer and are far more experienced in the...
Forum: Divorce Support 09-13-2018, 03:14 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 627
Posted By kate331
I hope you are asking for costs along the way. ...

I hope you are asking for costs along the way. That may help stop him. Do you have a lawyer or are you doing this on your own?
Forum: Divorce Support 09-13-2018, 01:47 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 627
Posted By kate331
I feel your pain! My ex is happy to hide behind...

I feel your pain! My ex is happy to hide behind the woe is me, my ex is a pycho bitch, alienator and Fathers are doomed in court. Meanwhile I had to take him to court to get his access increased...
Forum: Divorce & Family Law 09-13-2018, 01:32 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 147
Posted By kate331
OLC - Added Legal Fees

I know OCL is "free", but there are costs involved on both sides legal fees wise. I recall reading a post where Tayken said they can add up to an addition $10,000 to your legal fees. But now I cant...
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